I became a stranger with my boyfriend who broke up, and I felt very uncomfortable

Updated on society 2024-06-21
62 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You... You're going to ruin a man's heart. Hey.,I'm really helpless about this kind of girl.。。

    Because he loves you very much, after you give up on him, he doesn't believe in love anymore.

    You know? Haven't you read an article?

    Girls should not easily break up with boys.

    If you don't believe it, then you just wait for him, and you see what he will do in the future, and you will regret not meeting such a good boy.

    Then why did you share it with him? Is he good to you?

    It seems that you yourself are conflicted.

    I don't want to lose him, I don't want to be a stranger ...

    Hey, if he's nice to you, you'd better choose him, after all, we know a little bit together.

    Besides, she's in pain, there's no big reason why she scattered? I don't understand.

    I don't understand. You may have your own choice, and maybe you will think of him again in the future. Maybe.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Flowers float freely, water flows freely, love with fate.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You're in the same situation as I used to have a relationship!

    Then you can't be friends even more! Because you hurt him!

    I used to want to be friends with him too! Who knows he said no! This will only hurt each other more.

    I found it myself!Then let him go! Then you don't want to be so happy in the future!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    After reading your question, I felt a pang in my heart.

    My girlfriend also broke up with me, and said that she wanted to continue to be friends with me, and told me that she didn't want me to be sad and that I could be happy every day, but how worried and uncomfortable I was when I heard her say these things to me, you know.

    Because I still love her deeply.

    Continuing to be friends in this way, and even caring for each other, only makes me more uncomfortable, and caring for me can make me feel like I'm back in the old days, that she still cares about me, that we can still be together.

    But I have to face the reality, that is, she doesn't love me anymore, since she proposed to break up, it means that she doesn't care about me anymore, so why go on like this?

    If you care, why break up in the first place?

    What's more, you have a new boyfriend, if he doesn't leave, will he let him silently watch you and your boyfriend sweet? Aren't you cruel to him like that?

    You don't have to make up for your cruel departure, the more you compensate, the more it hurts him, since you choose to leave, go farther. The farther away from him is the better, so that he can get better as soon as possible.

    In the past, I also thought that although she broke up with me, I could still be friends with her, but after more than half a year, I still can't face her calmly, and I can't calmly face a woman who once loved me deeply and now only treats me as an ordinary friend.

    I couldn't change my role from boyfriend to normal friend.

    If it is love, please love deeply, if you do not love, please leave.

    This is also what I said to my former girlfriend in tears.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    My boyfriend and I broke up on Valentine's Day (this year) and he brought it up on the grounds that we weren't in the same place and couldn't be together often, which was a ridiculous reason, but I agreed anyway because at least we loved each other dearly, even though I still liked him. If it is love, please love deeply, if you do not love, please leave. I agree with that!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    He is willing to endure loneliness alone for the sake of you, and you think about what your new boyfriend will think if he gets entangled with you again? In fact, he is a hundred times more painful than you!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I've also experienced this kind of thing, maybe she was very good to you before, or something touched you very much, and gave you a lot, so you feel very guilty. That's how it should be. Hope to adopt.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In a word, fate is over! Don't bother with it! Let's put the feelings on the person who should be put on her, and she is not worthy of her again!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I said I forgot it, but I met again, and my heart hasn't promised to forget you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Since they are all separated, I don't want to come and go, strangers are the best, otherwise say hello and get in touch, maybe the old love will be rekindled.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Maybe it's not that you don't want to say hello, but you don't know what to say, and you can feel that you still care about her.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Shakespeare said! You can't be friends after a breakup because you've hurt each other! You can't be enemies, because you loved one another!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When you go out, you rely on friends, one more friend, one less enemy, and the next time you see you, you have to say hello, and look at your last sentence, which means that you still care.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Man! It should be a bit of bearing and demeanor. You can say hello first! Even if you break up, you can treat each other as an ordinary friend.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's good if you break up and don't have a grudge! You still want her to give you a smile!!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There is no need to get so close to the breakup, the closer it will be unfair to the next one.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    She should have said hello and told her to be careful when crossing the street.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    What's the matter, I didn't say hello when I met it, and I broke up after saying hello to embarrassment.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's normal to break up and become strangers!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Sometimes, if you love someone too much, it will be like this.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's all gone, and there's no going back.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Just say hello, no problem.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's not a big deal, you have to understand that she used to be your girlfriend, and after you, she could be the ex-girlfriend of several people.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because I used to be by my side, I used to think that the other half would only do this to myself, but when another person took your place, it was still not a good feeling.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Even if you break up, you feel that he or she should belong to you, which is people's desire for possession.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The psychology still hasn't come out of the original shadow.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    No one wants to give their own things, let alone people?

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    How can it be cool to give someone else what you have used?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's all like this, and the psychology can calmly estimate that I haven't really loved it.

    It's all over, after sorting out your emotions, wave goodbye to the past, and let yourself live more beautifully.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's up to you what you think, you can let go of it, maybe you don't feel anything!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    First of all, it must be uncomfortable to fall out of love just now, after all, people have feelings. Take your time, time can dilute everything. Secondly, love is not the whole of life, don't fall into sadness and can't extricate yourself.

    Why did you fall out of love? Reflectively, we must learn to learn from failures and learn to grow, otherwise we will always be victims and failures. If it is your own reason, then you must change yourself well in the future and cherish the next one; If it's the other party's reason, then let him go, he didn't cherish you well, he didn't have that blessing, don't be angry with him.

    I wish you a speedy ride out of the shadow of a broken love.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's just a little thing that makes you so uncomfortable?!! How can you be so fragile and naïve!! How can your brain be so problematic and super neurotic!!

    I think everyone in the world despises you to death!! Like you, I really get down on my knees and beg you to go to a psychiatrist and stay in the hospital forever!! Never want to come out to me for the rest of your life!!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Out of sight and out of mind is not necessarily a bad thing.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Time flies, and it's out of the shadows.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's not a big deal, time is the medicine.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    There are many men in the world, find another one.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    There are many things that we can't control, so let's live a good life.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's definitely uncomfortable, he will think that you don't care about him anymore, you don't love him anymore, and you still have the heart to play.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    He thought to himself, he was liberated.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    The key depends on whether he cares about you like this.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    People are like this, that kind of thing was yours originally, but now it's someone else's, of course you don't feel happy to look at it. And there's no way to overcome this, unless you don't see it. You're not jealous. It's not cool. Of course, if you still love him, you will be jealous.

    Another way is for you to find a boyfriend as soon as possible, so that your psychology will be balanced, and you will be more confident when you see it on the road.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    This should be a kind of possessiveness, try to divert attention, since they have broken up, he has also started a new life, try to let go, don't think about him, don't look for him, let him slowly fade out of his life

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    You're still thinking about the happy times you used to have together, and then you naturally feel uncomfortable seeing him with other girls, and the best way is to find a boyfriend as soon as possible and invest in the next relationship.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I can't tell, I feel like I'm jealous. But how can we overcome it? I see them together every day at school. As soon as you see it, you will be jealous. I'll help him out.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It's a human possessiveness at work, and doing something else to distract you, going shopping with good friends or something, it can be very effective.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Because you still have him psychologically, you can find a man too.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    That's because you still like him, so it's going to be like this, you're looking for a boyfriend and forget about him.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Because of love, because you still love him.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    This shows that the heart has not been let go yet. Once owned a person, once used to a person, it takes time to become a complete stranger. I hope you can regulate your emotions and be happy.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    No, it's the same as knowing that someone likes you and then finding out that they don't like you and like someone else. I think it's normal. Many people are very unhappy that their ex has found a significant other.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    No problem, everyone will be like this, prove that you loved him, don't be cranky, tidy yourself up and start anew.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    It's normal. In the end, it is unwilling.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    It's man's possessiveness at work. It will be fine after a while.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    It's normal, because it used to be my own, of course it's not happy.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    can't let it go, after all, it's the person I once loved.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    If you can't let it go, it will be better slowly as time goes by.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    It's just a kind of transition period, and it will be fine after a while.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    I think everyone has this mentality, which means that you still can't let go.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    It was like this at first, and it will be fine after a long time.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Hee-hee, if you have feelings for others, you can adopt it if it is praised.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    After a while, it's okay, find one as soon as possible.

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    I feel that it depends on the situation, the man who really loves you, you betray him, he will not hate you, because he knows that you can't give you the happiness you want, you will choose others, he will silently bless you behind your back, and will take the initiative to help you when you are in trouble. And the person who really loves you will not betray you, so I feel that this situation can still be friends and betray your man, I think there will be no turning back, once a man changes his heart, it seems that he hates more than a woman, he doesn't know what it means to be soft-hearted, and the former vow to disappear early, so for such a man, in order not to let himself be hurt, it is better to be strangers to each other. It's good to get together and scatter, it's all because they don't feel each other anymore and they broke up, I think after all, it's someone who once loved, and there should still be tacit understanding in some places.

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