What is it like to grow up in a scholarly family?

I want to emphasize that "scholarly family" is by no means the same as "family illustrious", so that many friends have begun to show off their educational resources "show off grandpa", which may not be the original intention of the subject. Educational resources are limited, and intellectuals are also powerful, so we cannot rely on the level of "eminence" to talk about families with a long history and culture in a broad sense, although they may be prominent for a while, but we are not talking about this kind of glory and glory. There has never been a scum in the scholarly family.

Civilian grassroots do not shine with humanity. In the concept of a scholarly family, if we are looking for a kind of "halo and arrogance", looking down on others from the innate condition of educational resources, this kind of experience is simply a wrong "illusory experience". However, sometimes we may believe too much in the educational environment and separation effect brought by the "scholarly family", many times, the children who grow up from the scholarly family, they often do the same things as us, and need to work to earn money like us, but their precipitation of understanding of life is higher than that of ordinary families.

The education of the scholarly family may be ordinary and strict, but it is more about the high-level empirical guidance of the mind (note that the mind contains artistic, philosophical, ethical, social and other aspects) and contemptible people, thinking that whether it is the historical aura of the scholarly family or the glory of the contemporary era, it is related to the inheritance of education, but this education is precisely not the education system we imagined. The inertia of our education is to impart knowledge, to teach the "skills" of being a human being (by no means the same as the definition of "being a human being" in a truly scholarly family), and these are dead ideas. The question of the empirical method of teaching and education is the difference between an ordinary family and a scholarly family (it may not be written exactly, forgive me) is as follows:

We must learn to respect the old and love the young, and give up our seats to our grandparents" (concept indoctrination).

When grandparents are old, their bodies will be fragile, and for grandparents, you are the one who protects them. (Breeding" way.

Gao Xiaosong: In 1988, he was admitted to the Department of Electronic Engineering of Tsinghua University. Gao Xiaosong's mother:

Zhang Kequn was admitted to Tsinghua University in 1961, and has been engaged in architectural design since graduation. He is now retired to the United States. The reason why Gao Xiaosong's mother learned architecture was because Mr. Liang Sicheng, who participated in the design of the national emblem, once visited his house, and his mother complained to Uncle Liang and said:

My dad wants me to learn a foreign language", and then Uncle Liang slapped his thigh, and the building near the water was the first to get the moon, how can you learn a foreign language, learn architecture from your uncle. Gao Xiaosong's father, Gao Liren, a professor at Tsinghua University, has published 12 books on mechanics and architecture.

He has contributed to the permafrost solution of China's Qinghai-Tibet Railway. Gao Xiaosong's stepfather: Huang Ertao, graduated from the Department of Mechanical Engineering of Tsinghua University.

The grandson of Huang Yanpei, the founding vice premier of the People's Republic of China, and the son of Huang Wanli, a master of water conservancy. Gao Xiaosong's grandmother: Lu Shijia, Plante's only female student, a famous Chinese fluid mechanic.

Weibo also ridiculed her as Qian Xuesen's aunt, the two are the same age in terms of age, but Lu Shijia studied under Plante, and Qian Xuesen studied under von Kármen, von Kármán studied under Plante, and should be regarded as a tutor in terms of seniority.

Our family is a scholarly family, and I grew up in a very strict family atmosphere since I was a child.

At that time, compared to the current environment, today's children have already entered many interest classes at the age of three or four.

But in our time, three- and four-year-olds were basically still in the laissez-faire stage. When I was about three years old, my grandfather began to teach me to write, and I remember very well that there was a small blackboard nailed to the wall in our house, and I was often asked by my grandfather to kneel in front of the blackboard to practice chalk writing. I'm afraid of him, he always has a straight face, and when he sees that I can't write well, he has to punish me for writing several times.

This memory lasted until I started kindergarten when I was five years old. One day when I came home from school, I threw a pencil on the ground at random, and my grandfather found it, and he picked it up and folded it directly into two pieces. To this day, I remember how earth-shattering I cried, because I cried so hard that I coughed up blood.

That year, my grandfather died of a cerebral hemorrhage. Then his harsh demands on me became the most nostalgic thing in my life.

Later, my dad took over the task of forcing me to practice calligraphy. Chalk words, brush words, pen words, there are many, many such practice books at home, and there are countless copies of Yan Zhenqing and Liu Gongquan.

In addition to reading early, I had to start reciting Tang and Song poems very early, and by the time I was in the second grade, I began to read famous books such as "The Siege of the City" and "Romance of the Three Kingdoms".

What is it like to grow up in a family like this? When eating, it is not allowed to make the sound of chewing, it is not allowed to walk, it is necessary to speak softly, and the chopsticks cannot be stretched out in front of others ......There are many, many of these daily requirements.

Maybe it's really thanks to these seemingly unbelievable requirements, when I go out of the family and into society, I can appear cultivated and behave more decently. It's hard to say whether these requirements are still necessary, such as writing, which is now computer typing. But what I can understand is that this is also a means of self-cultivation, and such a quality cultivated with hard work will play a role in all aspects of life.

What does it mean to be a scholarly family? How do you read a scholarly family?

Source of the idiom: Chapter 13 of Gao Yunlan's "Spring and Autumn in a Small Town": "Although Liu Mei has a crooked nose, he still maintains the bright and trembling demeanor of a scholarly family. ”

Traditional Chinese writing: scholarly 丗家.

Note: Synonyms of scholarly family: scholarly portal See " scholarly door".

Poetry and Rite Family A family that has been studying for generations and taking traditional feudal etiquette as the code of conduct. The ninety-first chapter of "The Strange Status Quo Witnessed in Twenty Years": "What a good Mrs. Ye, in the end, it is a poem."

Idiom salutation and defeat grammar: as an object, a definite; Refers to the family of the reader.

Degree of Commonality: Commonly used idioms.

Affection * Color: Neutral idiom.

Idiom structure: Partial formal idiom.

Generation: Contemporary idioms.

English translation: An Intellectual Family

Hello, scholarly family, refers to a family that has been a scholarly family for generations. The scholarly family generally refers to the traditional family with knowledge, morality and cultivation, and the family members love to read and have a strong reading and learning atmosphere. For example, if your grandparents are both university professors, and your parents are civil servants, we can say that we are in a scholarly family.

Families have a certain amount of expenditure on buying books, subscribing to newspapers and periodicals, etc., and have a certain number of books; 3.The reading style of family members has a certain degree of popularity and influence in neighborhoods, communities, villages and towns, or workplaces, and can encourage and drive the surrounding people to read. 4.

Family members have a harmonious relationship, abide by laws and regulations, are enthusiastic about public welfare, actively disseminate scientific and cultural knowledge, and are willing to donate or open their personal collections to the society, and the social effect is obvious.

As follows:

1. Generations of scholars.

Explanation]: Generations have been a family of readers.

From]: Qing Cao Xueqin's "Dream of Red Mansions" Chapter 57: "Although the Lin family is so poor that they have no food to eat, they are also a scholarly family for generations, and they will never leave their family to their relatives, and they will laugh at it." ”

Example]: When I talk to you about the Zheng family, you are full of generations of books and family history.

2. Scholarly door.

Explanation]: In the old days, it referred to a family with a scholar in the upper generation.

From]: Qing Wenkang's "Biography of Children's Heroes" forty times: "Now that I see that the scholarly family is going on, my career is reliable." ”

Example]: Every day she thinks that she was born in, and her brother is a man, but he fell into the hands of thieves, and he is enough to lose his ancestors.

3. Learn to be rich in five cars.

Explanation]: Five cars: refers to the book of five cars. Described as reading a lot and having a lot of knowledge.

From]: "Zhuangzi Tianxia": "Hui Shi is multi-faceted, and his book is five cars." ”

Example]: Daxian lives in Dabang, is well-informed, and is listed in the Jiao Zhen, so he is naturally able to run through the two unitary and learn to be rich in five cars.

4. Family history.

Explanation]: Family learning: the learning that has been passed down from generation to generation in the family; Origin: Originally refers to the source of water, which is a metaphor for the origin of things. The teaching of family history has roots.

From]: "Northern History: Jiang Shi Biography": "Shi Shao Expert Learning." "The Biography of the Three Kingdoms, Wei Zhi, Guan Ning": "Measure its origin, look at its turbidity, and there is no one who is vulgar and lonely Ruoning." ”

Example]: People who are not from the staff and who are ordinary people who hang pots and walk the road, like this kind of prescription, they don't have it in their belly.

5. A scholarly family.

Explanation]: Refers to a family that has been a scholar for generations.

From]: Chapter 13 of Gao Yunlan's "Spring and Autumn in a Small Town": "Although Liu Mei has a crooked nose, he still maintains the demeanor of a scholarly family. ”

"Scholarly family" is an idiom that means that everyone in the family likes to read and admires culture.

Refers to a family that has been a scholar for generations. Source of the idiom: Chapter 13 of Gao Yunlan's "Spring and Autumn in the Digging and Losing Town": "Although Liu Mei has a crooked nose, he still maintains the demeanor of a scholarly family. ”

Traditional Chinese Writing Scatters the World: Scholarly Family.

Note: Synonyms of scholarly family: scholarly portal See " scholarly door". Poetry and Rite Family A family that has been studying for generations and taking traditional feudal etiquette as the code of conduct. The ninety-first chapter of "The Strange Status Quo Witnessed in Twenty Years": "What a good Mrs. Ye, in the end, it is a poem."

Idiom grammar: as an object, a definite; Refers to the family of the reader.

Degree of Commonality: Commonly used idioms.

Affection. Color: Unisex idiom.

Idiom structure: Partial formal idiom.

Generation: Contemporary idioms.

English translation: An Intellectual Family