If you borrow all your friends and relatives, how much can you borrow?

I have a best friend, if it is to borrow money, can say the right reason, and promise to repay it within the repayment period, the loan line is 10,000 yuan. There are a little more relatives, but they are only limited to borrowing money from their elders, cousins or cousins can't open their mouths, even if they open their mouths, they can't borrow, but I have a good sister who can borrow 200,000 yuan, and my parents don't borrow money, they must help, and they don't expect you to pay back, so it's really difficult, for me the first thing I can help you with is my parents, my sister, the elders of my relatives, the best friends, and nothing else. Now if you have to borrow money, you can't borrow it.

It is also true that there is no extra money to borrow in my hands, but the real reason is that people do not trust each other, and there is no way. ‍‍

I just graduated from college, and I just wanted to borrow money to start this business, and my family was very supportive! Because I have always been a very sensible, serious and down-to-earth person. My family has always been willing to borrow money from these relatives occasionally, as long as they are reliable people, these relatives will eventually repay themselves, and there will be no situation where they become enemies.

In addition, I borrowed more than 20,000 yuan from friends and classmates, and everyone borrowed it because they believed in my character. By the Spring Festival of 17 years, all the money they borrowed was paid off, although they didn't believe that I would pay it back during the period, and even scolded me! I paid it back in the end, worthy of my conscience. ‍‍

I have a personal experience, at that time I wanted to do business for 2,000 yuan, so I asked a cousin to borrow, I don't know if he borrowed or not, the speech is ambiguous, what to borrow when you are easy to talk, when you ask you to ask you is difficult. Although I told the truth, I felt very uncomfortable, and I was embarrassed to urge others to pay back, and with the improvement of living standards, the feelings of relatives and friends have also become weaker and more flavorful! I haven't asked anyone to borrow money since that time, if I can, but it's not good to borrow. ‍‍

It depends on the person borrowing money, if the relatives and friends who have believed in it can be borrowed, and the others are life-saving to borrow some, otherwise how can they be relatives and friends, and then there can be no borrowing, like I lend money to relatives myself, their family is making money, and we have earned more money in a month, but we have not mentioned borrowing money from us for a few years, and we are embarrassed to ask, and we have not come back until now, so we should be cautious when borrowing money, when borrowing money, it is the uncle, and when the money is repaid, it is the grandson. I found a trouble for myself, and it is not worth worrying about people who do not keep their promises. ‍‍

There is no bottom, and I haven't borrowed money like my relatives, I am all self-sufficient, and I would rather borrow like a bank than borrow from relatives and friends without losing my face, and I am afraid of refusal.

Many people know that borrowing money is easier than exchanging money. Therefore, many people will not choose to borrow money, which is also one of the reasons for the recent borrowing incident, when borrowing money, it is difficult to save face, so they dare not ask relatives to borrow. If it were me, I might have borrowed tens of thousands of yuan, and it is estimated that I would have borrowed more, after all, my friend's economic conditions are in **, and I can't borrow too much money from the other party.

If you want to be able to borrow money at a critical time, you need to actively cultivate relationships with your friends in normal times. Be kind to others, accumulate more favors, help others, send charcoal in the snow, and care more. In addition, it is especially important to connect more with those who may lend you money, respect others, socialize more, and communicate more.

Don't be temporary, usually don't communicate and manage emotions, when it comes to asking for money, two big hands and ask friends for money, people owe you? Why? If others don't lend it to you, you're so angry that you die, why bother?

Someone is going to say, you're too utilitarian. Wrong! You only have so many emotions, you are not overflowing with emotions, nor are you idle all day long, it is very draining and energy-consuming to invest in emotions, which is also an investment, to invest in the friends who are most worthy of investment. ‍‍

Borrow no more than 400 yuan, it is better to rely on yourself than to rely on the sky and the earth, watch the rice in the pot, and spend less if you don't have great ability, don't borrow it.

I happen to this a lot! In the past, when relatives and friends borrowed money, I simply asked about the purpose and return date and lent them directly, but then I found out that some people don't keep their promises at all, so after a few experiences, you don't want to lend money to these untrustworthy people anymore! Usually do not show off your wealth, don't say anything about the recent bonus you have received and the recent salary increase, just don't let everyone know that you have spare money in your hands.

This saves some people from harassment.

Maybe hundreds of thousands, or less, because I don't know the financial situation of my relatives.

In fact, it is difficult for relatives to borrow money nowadays because they don't know if you will pay them back. Second, they are afraid that they will be deceived, so if they borrow money, it is recommended to use a more secure and formal method such as a credit card to borrow money.

Up to 2 million. I thought about it for almost half an hour and made a bunch of lists.

The amount of money borrowed will not exceed five hundred. Maybe you can't borrow 500 yuan.

Now it is the closest brother and sister and sister-in-law, borrowing money also depends on their ability to repay, if you borrow to the near future there is no big ability to repay, at most borrow one or two thousand, if the other party has the ability to repay the money when the time comes, then borrow hundreds of thousands of also borrow, my sister once lent all the savings of 300,000 at a time, that is the construction site owes me 500,000, give me a suite of 800,000, but find 300,000 to the construction site, the house will be sold as soon as the money comes down, if people do not see hope, who takes this risk.

Relatives and friends, to do it"You have to be patient with borrowing money, and you have to repay the money very much"！There is no special difficulty, try not to speak, do not open to relatives and friends for credit cards, you speak, the other party does not borrow, and feel that the face can not pass, the other party lends, when it is time to repay the money, for a while can not make up the money, and dishonesty, and feel sorry for others, so relatives and friends, it is best not to borrow money on a large scale, less than 1,000 yuan, you can also communicate freely, more than 10,000 yuan is best not to borrow, in order to make relatives and friends good for a long time, the best way, Don't have an economic dispute. ‍‍

I don't want to borrow, I've never borrowed money from relatives and friends when I'm so old. Ever since I was a child, my dad told my brother and sister that it was easy to borrow money and pay it back, but it was hard to repay the favors.

If you really encounter a hurdle, your own brothers and sisters will lend a hand if they don't open their mouths, or if they can't turn around, they will think about how to use real estate and ** mortgage to borrow public loans for emergencies.

If you know the roots, you will see the difficulties you encounter, and if you don't open your mouth, you will give it first, so let the emergency first (you will naturally keep it in mind and keep it in your account, and send it over as soon as you have a little money, and you will be grateful for a lifetime).

Don't ask relatives and friends to borrow because whose money is not money, most of them have their own uses, and when they open their mouths, do they borrow or not. When the number is large, people will also wonder when this will be returned.

If you don't want to borrow, you have to think about what excuse to refuse.

Nowadays, there are many examples of relatives and friends being estranged because of lack of money.

It is difficult for everyone not to borrow.

Judging from my current financial strength, it is estimated that it will not be in the five figures for borrowing it all.

Never overestimate yourself, I can borrow only one or two thousand, when I didn't encounter a low point in my life, I thought I could borrow 100,000, but the reality hit me a big mouth, because borrowing money, changed my values, never make deep friends with others, I now go out to play with my former friends, Lao Tzu never takes the initiative to pay money, I don't borrow a penny from others now, those I have borrowed money, when I have difficulties, who has helped me, will always be some dog things that take advantage of others and do not remember others.

In a fifth-tier city, I think I should be able to borrow 500,000 yuan from my relatives and friends. After all, usually my mother's relatives buy snacks for my daughter for 1200 after two or three months. Then he asked me if I wanted to buy a house, and each of them left me 50,000 yuan.

Reluctantly borrow seven or eight hundred thousand.

is 28 years old, and has borrowed less than 20,000 yuan in total. There may be another 10,000 for the sake of my parents' face

My grandmother's side borrowed less than 5,000, and my grandmother's side could borrow 100,000, either on the one hand than on the other, or on the other hand, it was a human problem, my aunt's family didn't have much money, but as long as he spoke, his family would take as much as he wanted.

I've borrowed it for 13 years and I've been able to borrow six figures. It was only then that I saw clearly what a true friend ...... was

I haven't borrowed it, but I can't borrow a dime if I know them, and my friends will be generous.

If you really get into trouble. Relatives and friends will do their best to help, five or six figures is no problem. It's best not to open your mouth.

Most relatives are not as good as friends! Agree with the backhand a thumbs up!

For people with average relationships, they are not close to each other and are not too distant, and you are embarrassed to refuse these people directly. I usually say that I've been saving money lately, and I want to buy a car or something, so I have saved all the money for a fixed period and can't withdraw it. In this way, it will not hurt your face and you can also reject them tactfully, after all, the relationship is not so good, it is impossible for you to take it out.

Mao can't borrow it, only Ma Yunken lends me 10,000 yuan.

At that time, the salary of a truck driver was 1,000 yuan per month, and now the salary of a truck driver is more than 6,000 yuan, and now I dare not ask a friend to borrow 10,000 yuan if my business fails, why is this?

I just tried to buy a house and borrowed 700,000.

In real life, it is very difficult to borrow 10,000 yuan from relatives, most relatives will shirk it, and those who can't shirk it will only borrow a few thousand yuan, not a whole 10,000 yuan. The main thing is to look at the character of the borrower, if the reputation in the circle of relatives is relatively poor, relatives are unwilling to borrow money. Most people are reluctant to lend money to their relatives, and if the other party does not repay the money, the relatives are embarrassed to ask for the account.

It is not easy for everyone to make money, it is all hard-earned money, especially some older people. These people are also very face-loving, and they will not borrow money from their relatives until they have to. But borrowing money is really not easy, basically you can't borrow money, especially in today's society.

Nowadays, human affection is relatively indifferent, and everyone can only take care of their own lives, and they don't have so much energy to care about others. If a person has a lot of poor relatives and lends money to one of them, he will have the others borrow money from you as well. It's like an animal that has been sucked by a locust, and it can't get rid of it, and it will make you very uncomfortable.

Many people feel that it is difficult to borrow money and it is even more difficult to get others to repay it, after all, they feel very embarrassed. Because the person who borrowed the money may be thicker-skinned, and the person who is borrowed will have a better face. If you want to start a business or build a house or buy a car, don't borrow money from relatives, you can go to the bank and apply for a loan.

It's simpler, you don't need to owe favors, and you don't make your relatives think you're a useless person. Borrowing from the bank is to repay some interest, but the interest is not particularly high, and it is within the scope of your commitment, as long as you work hard. Some people will make fixed deposits or financial investments with their own money, and there is no way to withdraw it until the deadline.

So many families don't have much cash and can't lend their money to others.

There is a difference between not being willing to borrow money and not borrowing money, and sometimes you are reluctant just because you think the other person can't afford to pay it back. But some people are obviously rich, but they are not willing to help their friends or relatives, which is very indifferent.

Because 10,000 yuan is not a lot, it is not very difficult to borrow 10,000 yuan from relatives in real life. I would lend money to relatives because they needed it very much, and I had the ability to do so.

I don't think it's too difficult to borrow 10,000 yuan from relatives in real life, but if you don't have the ability to repay, it will be very difficult; If the other party has some emergency, I will consider lending it to the other party, and if the other party does not have any emergency and just uses the money to eat, drink and have fun, I will not lend it to the other party.

The other party may find various reasons to refuse, and will talk about their own difficulties in life, and it is quite difficult to borrow money from relatives. No, the friendship between relatives is getting weaker and weaker.

1. If you plan to borrow less, it is better not to borrow.

If it is their relatives who mention borrowing money, I think most of the people's first reaction is to ask how much to borrow? Because you can't directly promise the other party, you have to see the specific amount that the other party wants to borrow, so that you can have a bottom in your heart. In fact, before we get the answer from our relatives, there is a "balance" in our hearts, because some relatives are closer to themselves, then the amount they are willing to borrow will be higher, on the contrary, some relatives are tepid and estranged from themselves and are willing to borrow a little less.

In fact, no matter what the reply from your relatives is to you, how much money the other party wants, you have already "taken the bait". Because when you ask him how much he wants to borrow, he will assume that you are willing to lend to him. If the amount he opens up exceeds your expectations, you will definitely be very embarrassed, and then tell the other party that you can't lend so much, so you can only lend him less.

It's okay to meet a reasonable relative, he will accept your affection. If you lend him money, he will complain about you and dislike you for borrowing less.

Therefore, if you don't want to lend money to relatives in the first place, especially the kind of relatives whose relationship is estranged from you, you simply say that you don't have money to borrow at the beginning, maybe your relatives will complain about you and say that you don't talk about family affection, but it is better than lending money and being complained about by the other party as "cost-effective". In short, if you plan to borrow less, it is better not to borrow, "long pain is better than short pain". Grinding stupid staring.

Second, emergency money.

If your relatives come to you to borrow money, especially the kind of relatives who have a bad reputation and ask others to borrow money at every turn, this kind of relative is the most difficult. Even if you use the previous trick to directly refuse, he will most likely "stalk" and keep annoying you. You are not in the way of kinship, and it is not good for you to say nasty things to him directly.

Then you might as well give this trick a try.

You can tell him that you are not in good health, or that your parents are not in good health, and that you may have to spend a lot of money recently, which is for emergency relief and must not be lent out. Of course, the so-called poor health is just an excuse, but it can also make people retreat. If the other party is still obsessed and wants you to lend him money, then you don't need to tell him about the relationship.

Don't want such relatives, even if you have to borrow money from others to save your life and save your life, is there still humanity?

You don't have to worry that this relative will speak ill of you, because you are the one who is on the right side, and if he gossips about it, it will only ruin his own reputation.