Can I put my mother in law s main house when I die?

This is a no-no. Because your mother-in-law's family is not the younger generation of your mother's family, there is no obligation to give them a funeral. This is also not in line with the folk customs of our country.

If you do this, your in-laws' brothers and sisters won't agree, and your uncles won't either. You will be independent at your in-laws' house, or even swept away.

According to the tradition of our country, not only can it not be put in your mother-in-law's house, but also it cannot be put in your house, but the situation has been different in recent years, some of them are only children, and you have to ask your husband's opinion when you need to put them in your own home. It's immoral to put it in someone else's house, and if you think about it, you're wrong.

Maybe the customs are different in each place, the old man on our side must return to his own house when he dies, or the son's house must not be at the girl's house.

It shouldn't be, it doesn't seem to have such a custom, it's best to put it in the mother's house, the parents-in-law will be very concerned about this matter, pay attention to the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law.

This is not allowed, the main house is where the owner lives, and it should be placed in their own house, which will affect their luck.

Personally, I don't think it's okay to do this, there has been no such custom since ancient times. And if you do this, it will cause dissatisfaction among your in-laws, so it is recommended that you change the way.

Do you think it's appropriate?

It depends on your customs and habits, the habits of each place are different, under normal circumstances, you don't have to go back to report the funeral, just call ** to inform it, the old people of the in-law family will understand the mood of the daughter-in-law, their parents have passed away, the children must be very sad, then there is time to go back to the mother-in-law's house to report the message in the return with filial piety, call ** to tell, let the in-law and the husband know it, the mother-in-law should understand the mood at this moment.

Yes, the customs of various places are different, in our place, it is better to go to your mother-in-law's house to kowtow and then come back to bring filial piety after the death of your parents.

I don't think so! The world is big, my parents are the biggest, my parents are gone, do you still care? What are so many processes for?

No, you don't. As soon as your parents pass away, you can bring filial piety, and you don't need to go to your in-law's house to report the funeral, unless of course your customs are different.

This is the rule left by the tradition, it is correct, you can't take filial piety, enter the door of someone else's house, kneel down and kowtow first, explain the intention and then go back,

This should be done according to the local customs, and what are the local customs?

Why not?

The decoration of your mother-in-law's house is one thing, and the death of your mother's relatives is another thing, and the life and death of people are always greater than the decoration.

You actually asked this question, you can feel that you attach great importance to your in-laws' attitude towards you, and you also care about your in-laws' evaluation of you, but marriage is not like this, if you marry into your in-laws' family, it is equivalent to selling yourself to your in-laws' family, so what is the difference between you and the old society? Your maiden home will always be your maiden home, and it will not be alienated because you are married, but should be your spiritual strength and spiritual pillar.

If you blindly go to see your mother's relatives and are blamed by your in-laws, then this in-law's family is very problematic, decoration is a living person's thing, and your mother's relatives have passed away, this matter is more important in terms of reason and ability.

Of course you can, the world is great, this has nothing to do with whether your family is busy or not, you have to go at home, otherwise the relatives in this room will be cut off.

This must be checked, after all, it takes a long time to renovate. , it doesn't affect anything, and you have to go if it's reasonable.

Of course you can, and it is necessary to visit him and see him off for the last time. If there are customs and habits in some places, there is always a time to break them, there is a saying that "if you believe, you will have, and if you don't believe, you will not", just don't believe in these.

Birth, old age, sickness and death are normal things in life, and your mother-in-law's decoration has no effect, your mother-in-law's decoration you go to your mother-in-law's house will not cause anything bad, there is nothing that can not be seen, you can go to see, some things you don't have to think too much. The more I think about it, the more things happen. Birth, old age, sickness and death are all normal.

No one can avoid it. So it doesn't have much to do with you going to your in-laws' house. Don't overthink it, it's time to go for yours.

I think my in-laws will understand. It's not a personal thing either. Isn't it right, it's time to go, what to do and what to do, normal is just aqui te amo.

You can go to the deceased to decorate the family for the big family, which has nothing to do with this, don't be superstitious, if the department has time, don't send relatives on the last trip, his family knows that there will be opinions, so go right.

I think you can go to see it, the size of the thing, the severity, I don't think there is so much attention to decorating the house, don't believe too much in superstition, relatives have died, the last journey, you should go to see, wait until the house is renovated and then go, you can't see anything anymore, you will regret it, I think you should go, don't pay attention to it so much.

Decorating a house has nothing to do with the death of a person, don't talk too much about superstition.

The decoration of my mother-in-law's house has nothing to do with going to mourn my relatives, it is normal for my relatives to go and see when they pass away, and you should have go, no one will stop you.

Of course you can go, people have double layers, parents are both relatives, there must be a priority, isn't it, you can do the work at any time, but you can't see it if you don't have people.

You can go to see it, your relatives have passed away, and going to your relatives' house is also a comfort to your relatives' families, and it is also a courtesy to go and see it, and your in-laws will understand you, human nature.

I think it should be to go and go to the memorial service where a relative has died! People know the common sense! Come back and continue to decorate! The decoration is much smaller than the death of a person!

Yes, it has nothing to do with decoration, and you should go to squeeze time.

I think what you said is a matter of superstition, I don't know where you are going, your mother's relative has died, if the relationship is very good, you still have to go over to mourn.

Regardless of the death of the in-laws or the relatives of the mother's family, they should go, which is also a respect for the world, and has nothing to do with home decoration, which is also the last way to the world.

Many things have their two sides, when you ask the phrase "I can go", it means that you want to go, but for family reasons, you have concerns after you go, for fear of affecting the relationship between your in-laws. This is very good, it shows that you are a more rational and reasonable and understanding person, if there is a problem, you will solve it, first disclose the death of a relative to your in-law's family, observe the reaction of your in-law, if your in-law does not respond, communicate with your husband on the side, and obtain his support, so that the matter is easy to solve, don't leave regrets, but don't hurt your husband and wife's feelings.

It is a trivial matter for the mother-in-law's family to decorate the house, and it is a major matter for the mother-in-law to have a relative die, so you must go to pay tribute.

It should be okay, this is nothing special, it belongs to normal human relations, after all, the deceased is great.

I think you can look at this, it doesn't seem to be anything special.

When a relative dies, you should go back and see, and it has nothing to do with the in-law's family building a house.

My mother-in-law's family is building a house, and my mother's family has a relative who has passed away, can I go back and have a look?

This house and the death of your maiden relative are two different things, and they have nothing to do with it. If you are very close to your mother, you can go back and see if you pass away, which is also a reasonable thing.

Besides, I really don't know what the customs are on your side, and those in our northeast are not taboo. When a loved one dies, it is human nature to do it to the younger generation. If you don't go, you won't be able to get out of the country after the day before yesterday, and now the family relationship is already very indifferent, so it's better for you to go.

If your mother-in-law's house is busy building a house, you can go to that place and go back for a day or two. If you're not busy, you can stay there for two days. It depends on your local customs.

Because the customs are different from place to place.

One thing is the same thing, don't be blindly superstitious, let alone alarmist, think wildly.

Of course. This is the love of people, and I believe that no one will stop you. After arranging the affairs of the in-laws, let's go back and take a look, it won't take long. It's not easy for a woman. Good luck.

It is recommended to ask your mother what she said, don't go back recklessly, it's good to remember your relatives, but some things also depend on the local way of dealing with them.

Why not? What age is it now, you are not selling to others, your mother's family has something to talk to your mother-in-law's family, I believe that your mother-in-law's family will be reasonable.

Of course you can, why not? Your mother-in-law built a house, you go back and see what's wrong? No matter how uneven the countryside is, it is also important to pay attention to the dead. Young people should not believe in superstitions.

That is to say, your household registration has moved into your in-law's house with the application of the marriage certificate, and your household registration information is no longer displayed in your mother's household registration. And your mother's original land contract right is still in the hands of your mother's parents, and your mother's parents have passed away, and the land contract right is still in the hands of the heirs. Even the transfer of land has to be divided according to the actual population, and it is difficult for you to participate.

Your parents have died, and you have put the land in someone else's name, and it is almost impossible to transfer the land to your name. When the people are gone, how can you still have land.

Your mother's parents have passed away, and you already have an apprentice in your mother-in-law's family, then your mother's land is gone, and it will be inherited by your own brothers and sisters.

You already have land in your mother-in-law's family, and you can't ask for your mother's land anymore. Because one person can only occupy one side of land. It would be illegal to occupy it again.

If your land is in the past, it will not be able to be replaced, and if you change it again, you will be exposed.

It shouldn't be over, and if the land is divided again, your mother's land will be gone, because your hukou is gone.

If your parents have passed away, then of course you can transfer back your mother's land to someone else's head.

The pinnacle is actually in my mother-in-law's house, the land of the two apprentices' mother's family, and now I use it.

Such questions should be consulted by the local village committee, because many policies are in their possession, and the specific information needed depends on what they say.

You already have land in your mother-in-law's house, and if your mother's land is given to someone else, it will not be given to you again, because you already have land.

You can go to the township** to consult, and if the formalities are complete, you should be able to return.

The Yang family's parents died, and I have the statistics of my mother-in-law's family, and now I can still ask for it back in other people's homes.

You now have land in your mother-in-law's house, and your mother's land is already on someone else's head, and you can't get it back, and it won't come back to you.

My mother's parents died, and I had land in my mother-in-law's house, my mother's land, and now I have it in someone else's, my mother's land, you can defend others, or you can plant it yourself.

He passed away from his parents, and I had apprentices at my in-laws' house, and I feel that these apprentices are also for you.

Of course, this is the filial piety of children, and you can't go back to the grave just because your father-in-law has just died.

This is hegemonism and the idea of preference for sons over women.

So, don't worry about that, go back to the grave.

This aspect of the problem, in accordance with the local customs, ten miles of different towns and hundreds of miles of different customs, really help you look forward to adoption,

It depends. If the daughter's mother's family has no brothers, that is, there is no mother's family, of course, she can only worship at her husband's house.

Return, don't make any scenes in worship, just worship in a short answer, on behalf of the daughter to remember her parents. If your mother's family has a brother, don't worship your parents at your in-law's house, because according to superstition, your parents won't go to your son-in-law's house if they leave their souls. If the daughter is young and has not yet taken charge of the family, it is best not to worship her parents at her mother-in-law's house, which may lead to discord with her mother-in-law.

If you have only one daughter, then you can worship at your own house on the day of your parents' sacrifice, and if you have a brother, you can go to your brother's house to worship.

As long as your daughter-in-law's family doesn't have any complaints, it doesn't matter if it's okay or not. But normally, no one else does that, so what's that, you can't worship your parents in your own home? It feels like you're not sincere.

Why do you want to worship at your in-law's house, if you can't go to your parents' grave because you can't go far away, wait for the Qingming Festival or the Midyear Festival to burn some paper goods at the crossroads, and put your thoughts on it.

No, according to common sense, if it is in your daughter's own home, it is okay, after all, your daughter's mother-in-law's family is a foreign surname, and it is best to worship your parents in your own home or go to the cemetery, which is also a respect and filial piety to your parents.

It is particular about worshipping the dead, and it is not good to worship at the daughter-in-law's house.

If you have time, you should go to the cemetery to worship, it is more ritualistic.

I feel that my daughter's in-laws will be more taboo.