The boy had to pay for all the food during the relationship???!

Updated on educate 2024-06-05
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Nowadays, love is basically AA system, if there is something to celebrate, it will be treated by that party.

    Same as a virgin friend. Good girls don't want you to be treated. Don't feel that the girl will lose face if she pays the bill, only getting along well is true.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Mutual understanding is the most important thing.

    If the male allows, he can give more appropriately.

    When women can understand men's difficulties, they can stand up and give more.

    In fact, if you can think about the other party, everything is easy, after all, money sometimes does not need to be so important. If it's really just about the other party's money, you can do whatever you want.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you want to distinguish clearly, the man will pay this time, and the woman will pay next time.

    If it doesn't matter, let him pay, you buy him gifts for the New Year, it's not the same to buy clothes! (Huh).

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I'm all girlfriend pay.

    Because all my money is paid to her.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Whoever likes to pay can pay!! It's so clear.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It doesn't matter, whoever has it pays for it! The law doesn't seem to say that boys have to pay the bills!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In general, this is the case.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I've been in love for three years. Meals have always been paid for by boys. I think that's a bit out of the ordinary.

    If yes. Most of the boys are paid by the boys. Girls occasionally lose a once or twice.

    Then it's normal. After all, it is both men and women who chase women in the process of dating. Men should pay more.

    But if it's three years of love. All paid by boys. The girl did not make any payments.

    So obvious. It's not normal for men and women to fall in love. Patterns of interaction with each other.

    Actually, this is not the main thing. The main thing is in these three years of relationship. How do girls do boys?

    Is there any? The giving of love. Or for boys.

    There is no gratitude for such a way of payment. Say something thanks. If the girl also expresses something in other ways.

    It's still understandable. Although it doesn't feel very normal.

    In fact, in the process of getting along with each other. The main one is that the boys pay for it. Occasional girls also pay for it. In this way, both of them will feel more comfortable. At least not absolute equality. As long as there is equality in the school, it is enough.

    So the two eat in love, and this kind of appears. All of them are paid by boys. It could also be a case where the boy is trying to save face.

    Boys are better off financially, while girls are less economically off and have become accustomed to accepting payment from boys. Emotionally there is no problem, then as an outsider. Although it doesn't look normal, but the two of them think it's normal, that's no problem.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Generally speaking, when it comes to falling in love, the boy takes the initiative, so as to show the independence of manhood and the responsibility to protect his girlfriend. Therefore, it is normal for boys to pay during the relationship, and if girls often pay, the relationship is afraid that it will not last.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The boy can eat and pay all the time, which means that he loves his girlfriend very much, he is willing to pay for his girlfriend, and he will not take advantage of his girlfriend, he thinks that a man should pay for a woman to take care of a woman, such a man is very down-to-earth, very reliable, will not care about money with women, will not be careful, will not hide.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    During a relationship, it is also normal for a guy to pay. But girls also have to pay a little bit of politeness, so that they can make the other person feel better.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't think it's good for this, although there is no problem with the boy's payment, but if the boy pays all the time, it always feels like he is taking advantage of him, you can pay for him in other places, you can give him a gift as a return.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think for most people, maybe the thinking is more traditional, so I think. If you fall in love, there should be a boy who pays for it, but I personally think so. Since it is a relationship, then the relationship is mutual.

    As a girl, you should pay for it once in a while, and don't blindly take advantage of others.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Or ......Hello, this is the first time a boy should pay, which not only reflects your tenderness, but also shows that you like her or love her. This may change in the future. If she likes you too, she will understand your difficulties and share them with you.

    If he doesn't understand or pretends not to understand, it means that he is not looking for you, he is looking for your money. In other words, he treats you like a meal card.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You think that no one has to pay all the time, of course, the premise is that he is willing and takes the initiative to pay, if you ask him to pay or wait for him to pay, and you feel that the man should pay, then if his family conditions are average, he feels more or less uncomfortable for a long time.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This is not good, because love should be paid by two people together to better maintain.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    My boyfriend and I have always been either he treats a guest to dinner or I buy snacks and pay each other. My parents' education for me was related to money, although I don't have to be very precise, but I also have to bear a little bit of each other's responsibility. It also has something to do with my family situation.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's a little unreasonable, for such a long time, the girl has been so at ease, and her heart is really big enough, at least she should ask for it a few times.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If we love each other, then I don't think it's a one-sided effort. It's both sides that will give.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I hope you are going both ways, not just one person paying, if you are adopted, I didn't say it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When two people are in a relationship, the payment method for going out to eat can be decided according to the consensus and personal preference between you. Here are some common options:

    1.AA system (respective payment): This means that each person pays their own share.

    This approach can be more financially fair and balanced, and avoid creating financial stress. Many couples choose the AA system, especially in the early stages or when the financial situation of both parties is relatively equal.

    2.Boys' treats: This is a common practice in the traditional belief that boys, as gentlemen, take the initiative to pay the entire bill.

    This way can express the man's care and care, and it also helps to create a romantic atmosphere. But this does not mean that the woman does not have responsibilities and can also reciprocate by expressing gratitude and care.

    Above all, communication and mutual understanding are key. Have an honest discussion with your partner about your preferences for how you can pay your filial piety, and respect each other's perspectives and financial situation. You can also consider taking turns for treats or deciding together how to pay for each meal out to achieve balance and comfort for both parties.

    The most important thing is to build on mutual respect and understanding, so that the payment method becomes an expression of mutual care and support.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I don't think so

    1.Personally, I don't think boys have to pay everything. But under normal circumstances, it is better for boys to take the initiative, at least to pay more than girls, if it is familiar, it is generally AA system, or take turns to please, so that two people are more acceptable.

    If it is always the boy who pays unilaterally, the boy will also be emotional over time, and it will also appear that the girl is misbehaving.

    2.Generally speaking, when falling in love, most of the cases are paid by the male ruler high shooter, that is occasionally as a girl, and you should also know how to share the cost of this love, boys can spend a little more, but girls also have to spend, not boys on the one hand, such a love is really undesirable in my opinion, and sometimes the two sides fall in love is to have a will of both parties, unilateral pay, sometimes it will not last long.

    3.When you're in love, basically the money is shared, if he spends money on shopping and eating this time, I will take the initiative to pay for it next time, because it's two people together, so there's no need to ask the boy to pay all the money, but for special holiday gifts, such as Valentine's Day gifts or expenses, it's better for the boy to pay.

    4.Personally, I don't think it's necessary. When you talk about love, you can occasionally create a little surprise for each other or eat and watch movies together, but if you put all your savings into it, it's still a bit too much, and it's really not advisable to build on material feelings!

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