Is marriage really a siege? Is marriage really like a siege?

It looks like your father-in-law is in charge of everything.

Look at what your mother-in-law is doing, it is estimated that his family needs you to be like your mother-in-law, I simply say, don't be sad, do a good job of confinement and take care of the child. Second, I haven't brought it to communicate with your wife and mother-in-law.

The child has not recovered and cannot be taken by one person, so ask your mother-in-law to help bring it to at least half a year old.

Third, the main reason why your husband relies on his parents is that he is not financially independent and has no ability to support you and his daughter independently.

Filial piety may exist, but if the bones are not hard, you can only play ruthlessly with your wife.

Four. Of course, you can't get a divorce, give your children a complete home, work your own, and think financially.

When the pillar of his family arrives, his family will be all stammering with you.

Fifth, his family doesn't seem to know etiquette, you have to find a way to live a good life and become independent as soon as possible, otherwise.

Influence your daughter's education. It's okay for a child to stay in the countryside for a while when he is young, and you want it when you are almost sensible.

Find a way to take it with you.

Six, he bullied you and had nowhere to go, and you yourself understand. Wait for him to sober up and try to communicate and let everyone.

Learn to communicate with each other and don't always attack weaknesses.

Be self-reliant and self-reliant. You're a mom anymore.

No. Because there are too many people who exaggerate the unhappiness of marriage, they all scare us who are not married. Don't worry, many happy people are enjoying their happy married life, but they just haven't taken it out to show it.

If you're always standing in it and looking at things after you're married, it's a siege, and if you can jump out and look at things, it's a safe haven! It's a cosy harbor! ~

No. It is the belonging of love.

It's up to you to deal with it.

Marriage and love are like a siege for many people, especially for many middle-aged people, when they have experienced the baptism of marriage, especially after the test of the seven-year itch, some middle-aged people often feel that it is good when they are single, so that they will not let themselves be bound by marriage, in fact, I have not felt like this.

Although it is said that in the days when two people are together, especially when two people have cultivated a positive result in love, and finally become husband and wife, it is a very happy thing, but when two people get married and form a family, they end their single life and face not only happiness and joy, but also face the relatively boring life of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea every day, and at the same time, the longer two people get along, the relationship will become weaker and weaker, and they will understand each other and say comprehensively, especially for each other's shortcomings, it is more in-depth, so in this process, the relationship between two people will naturally be affected to a certain extent, often allowing themselves to have a certain sense of loss and nostalgia for the days when they were single.

When the relationship between the husband and wife is not harmonious, there are a lot of estrangements and contradictions in the marriage, and in the case of which one is often quarreled about, I will be more emotional or single is good, more nostalgic for the single days I once had, but no matter what, life still needs to continue, I should still try my best to be a responsible man, therefore, this kind of thinking is just staying in the heart of a certain moment, more often than not, I still have to find a way to eliminate the contradiction and solve the problem with my love Li QishuAfter all, life needs to go on.

Marriage is like a besieged city, where the people inside want to get out and the people outside want to go in.

The once beautiful wedding of the century, 7 years later, ended with both parties announcing their divorce, and the 7 couples who attended their wedding were also divorced, maybe you may ask, what's wrong with this world, is everyone not knowing how to love, walking and walking and scattering.

Two people in marriage are like water and fish, you feel inseparable from each other and rely on each other, but the cruel reality is: fish dies without water but water clears without wishAfter all, not everyone can do it like water, although no fish will be clearer, but still don't let you go.

So you are still water.

We always think in our subconscious that the person you can't let go of will also not let go of you, but the truth is always the opposite, don't assume the one you can't let go of will treat you the same way

We think that the person who needs our own protection will never leave us, but if we continue to move forward, the person who is slow will be left behind, and the distance between the two people will gradually increase, and when the pace of progress is inconsistent, the scenery we see is different, and the person who sees the scenery will also change, because.

There is never only one way to be happy, and it is not limited to one person.

So when you don't get a response for your efforts, or when you're disappointed enough to save up, there's always someone who chooses to quit.

When we become strong enough not to be attached to anyone, we just pursue our own lifestyle and goals, if the other half can be on the same frequency as you, it is lucky, if not in a tall straight line, please turn around in style. We don't have the time and energy to change a person, all we can change is ourselves.

Letting go of others is also fulfilling oneself.

Life is like a train, when you enter the station, someone gets on the train, and someone has to get off the train ......Accompanying a journey, letting go when it's time to let go, this is the best end, because there is not only love between two people, but also responsibility.

When two people are together because of love, they are destined to owe each other, because no kind of love can be repaid, so debt is the way and power of love.

Therefore, don't forget to work hard when you talk about chaos, because when you shelter yourself from the wind and rain, you can also hold an umbrella for others.

A good marriage is like a fish in water.

The perfect marriage is one that knows how to accommodate and tolerate, and the other knows how to stop in moderation.

My married life is not what I once imagined. When we are not married, we always think that marriage is beautiful, and always think that we have found a companion to rely on in the second half of our lives, but in fact, marriage is like a "besieged city", the people inside want to come out, and the people outside want to go out.

Unmarried men usually smoke good "cigarettes" and occasionally go to the restaurant. On weekends, I go to an Internet café or a k t v with friends to play for the night, and the next morning I can sleep for the rest of the day. A woman who is not married, she can buy whatever she wants, and she can ask her girlfriends to go shopping for a day on the weekends in Huaichun, and occasionally take a trip that you can just go.

After getting married, I have to worry about this firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea every day, and I still have endless housework when I get home from work. In the face of parents who are getting older day by day, children who are growing up, and the exchange of human affection is heartbroken. The man has changed from a handsome guy to a greasy uncle, and the woman has changed from a beautiful woman to a yellow-faced woman.

My former friends had little time to keep in touch with each other and had their own families. Even the grievances suffered at work are not told by anyone, and they can only be borne silently in the dead of night.

In short, having an old life after marriage is completely different from what we thought at the time. If you want to live happily after marriage, you have to endure the ups and downs of life, and give each other a small surprise to your other half when you are busy.