How parents should deal with scolding between their children

Loving children is not only an emotion, but also a kind of etiquette. Since ancient times, China has had a tradition of "the young and the young", which means that people should love their own children and extend this love to other people's children. The "child-friendly" we advocate is precisely this kind of benevolence that cares for the world, especially for the disadvantaged.

Persuade children to fight and not judge Children love to play together, but they often fight together. Watching children sometimes fight inextricably, or even make a big move, adults often don't know how to manage children: teach their children not to fight, they will feel wronged by their children, especially when their children are bullied; However, if you reprimand other people's children, you are worried that you will spoil your own children, and if you don't handle it well, the conflict between the children will become a conflict between parents.

When children fight, should adults care?

Caring for children is a traditional virtue in society, but while caring for your own children, you should also consider the children of others. Therefore, in the face of children's quarrels, the way adults deal with them is actually very simple: only persuade and fight, not judge.

Just pull the child away and don't let the intense scene continue. Regardless of which child is justified, adults should not judge on the spot whose fault the fight was caused, let alone criticize one of them in front of two children.

Quarrels are actually a "compulsory course" in the process of children's growth. It is in the process of playing together, arguing, and then getting back together that children begin to understand themselves correctly, experience their own relationships with others, and gradually master the ability to cooperate and tolerate each other.

In fact, it is normal for children to fight, after all, children are in the stage of puberty, and their sanity and control are not yet fully mature. Sometimes it's impulsive. Parents should be in charge, and parents should correctly guide their children to the right path.

In fact, you lose fights, you have to pay to accompany others after you fight, and if it is serious, you have to be punished, and if you lose, you have to be beaten. Hey, that's what my dad used to say about me.

This is normal. Don't worry. But don't be angry with your child for the sake of this.

In fact, siblings are a small society, and they continue to learn lessons from contradictions, and continue to grow up, which is an overrun to society.

Speak, if you don't listen, copy the guy.

I think mediation is more appropriate. If you are angry, it will increase the contradiction, after all, it is still small and ignorant.

If your child is beaten every day, you should talk to his parents, and if it is only occasional, start with your child and educate him well (not let you beat him).

No, children should be allowed to solve their own problems, so that they can deepen their feelings!

1. Of course, children beat and scold their parents, parents should be patient with their children, and they can't solve problems by beating, which may have the opposite effect.

2. Social changes and children's growth environment are constantly changing, so the natural education method should also continue to improve. As a parent, you have the obligation to take the initiative to absorb new educational knowledge. In the traditional parent-child education method, most parents educate their children with authority, and the punishment of the right to education is an important means of educational authority.

Assimilating new knowledge can help parents think beyond their own upbringing and adjust their educational philosophy in a timely manner.

3. If it is an angry parent, when facing a child who does not listen to discipline, the most direct reaction is usually to scold. At this time, it is recommended that parents calm down first, try to be more patient, and ask the child what is the reason for doing this. When parents have focused on understanding their children's thoughts and finding ways to help them solve problems, they may find that their children's behaviors are actually excusable, and they will release a lot of negative emotions.

When they were young, they were beaten and scolded by their parents because they were naughty, or because they were not serious about studying, or because they got into trouble, or because they had a stubborn temper, etc., which may be something that most children have experienced. But what is it? Parents do this, more out of strict love for their children and adopt a way of parenting (such as tiger dad, tiger mom); There are also impulsive actions taken in anger, and after that, there will be distress and repeatedly comfort the child; Others are influenced by the traditional thinking that "filial piety comes out of the head of the stick and a rebel son comes out of the head of the chopsticks", and they are strict and do not protect the calf.

All these cannot change the selfless love of parents for their children, nor can they change their confidence in hoping that their children will become successful dragons, still less can they change their parents' kindness to their children. As a child, what reason is there to be angry about being beaten and scolded by your parents when you were a child when you grow up? So, I don't understand why the questioner is asking such a question.

Personally, I think: first, as a person, we should always be grateful and not leave the seeds of hatred, especially to our parents, relatives, and benefactors. Second, always being grateful is the character that a person should have, the conscience that he should have, and the moral bottom line that he should abide by.

Not only to our parents, but also to the party, the motherland, and the people, we should have a pious and grateful heart, and we should not forget the people who dug the wells when we drink water, and we should not forget the Communist Party. Third, the benevolent love others, and the good remember the kindness. Benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom, and faith, benevolence comes first.

To establish oneself and others, we must know how to be grateful and learn to give back. The grace of a drop of water should be reciprocated by a spring. In this life, the kindness to parents is inexhaustible, and while the parents are alive, they should always think about doing things of gratitude, and do not leave a lifelong regret that their children want to raise but do not treat their relatives.

1. Don't "fight violence with violence". The child has done something to the parents, and at this time the parents must calm down and then deal with it gently. You can let the child calm down for a while, so that everyone has a "calm period" that slows down and reconciles, not only to let him see how parents deal with angry emotions, but also to let him know that not all angry ways are shouting, but also calm.

2. At the same time, it is also necessary to give the child time to think to digest Pei Rubei's emotions, and when the child finds that there is no reason to lose his temper, he will naturally calm down.