How can I deal with the relationship between my friend and my lover?

Do you mean the boundary between your friend and your lover and his or her lover, or do you simply want to know about the problem between your friend and your lover? If it's the former, you have to understand two things for yourself:

First, you and he (her) are just good friends, but not to the extent of lovers, if you have a good impression of him (her) and think that the other party is good, you can consider further relationships, otherwise, then just be calm, don't let the other party think that you are giving opportunities, and will cause unforeseen troublesome results in the future.

Second, you and him (her) are just friends, but the other party is pursuing you, and you just want to be friends with him (her), not to the point of being a lover, then, directly explain to him (her) that if he (she) is sincere to you, you tell your intentions so clearly, he (she) will give up the emotional entanglement with you, otherwise, the person is not infatuated, then the possessiveness is too strong, whether it is worth continuing to be friends, you will know.

If you're asking about the relationship between treating this friend and treating a lover, it's complicated and complicated, simple and simple. For example, some people can talk about their hearts with good friends, and they can also talk about their lovers, but they don't talk about their hearts for people outside of the two, and some people can talk about their hearts to good friends, but they can't talk to their lovers, and there are also the opposite (you can talk to your lover but not to your good friends), these people are common in this world, so when you treat friends or lovers, I personally think that as long as you are attentive, Treat sincerely, whether it is a friend or a lover, you will get along very well.

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Leave the rest alone!

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This is indeed a problem, and it is not pleasant to make sandwich cakes.

It's actually quite simple. Keep your distance and don't cross the line.

Find a friend who knows what's on your mind, a friend who knows what a light bulb can't do, a lover who is okay when they are separated once in a while, and a testimony to faithfulness. Occasionally go shopping with friends or something.

It is very important to ,,, follow your heart 、、、 not get carried away by things ... It's best to do whatever you want.

A male (female) friend is not a friend

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How do you think you should handle the relationship between friends and lovers?

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<> friends are friends, lovers are lovers, friends don't need to know lovers, lovers don't need to know friends, friends are friends on the road to career, lovers are lovers in life, and there is no existence that you have to know. A person is indispensable to the world of friends, and a person will have the world of lovers, these are two important characters.

Don't create a confrontation between your friend and his lover, for example, if you don't drag your friend out to drink and get drunk late, you don't shout at your friend to play a game of filial piety all night, you have to ask your friend to go shopping together, etc. Friends can play together, but please also respect the feelings of your friends and lovers.

I think there are a number of aspects that need to be considered before a decision can be made. Depending on the relationship situation, my answer may be different. Here's my personal opinion:

First of all, if my good friend wants to date my ex, I may feel a little uncomfortable. Because my relationship with my ex has a history, and there are probably some emotional entanglements, I am uneasy that my good friend's relationship with my ex may be wide.

However, if I had a clear and perfect breakup with my ex and I, I might find it acceptable for a good friend to have a relationship with an ex. If my best friend has genuine feelings for his ex, I want them to be happy and happy.

At the same time, I also think about the importance of this good friend to me. If this good friend is a very important person in my life, I may try to accept their relationship because I don't want to lose this good friend because of it.

However, if my ex and I have a very deep affection and I don't value this good friend that much, I may refuse to accept their relationship. In this case, I may feel sad and painful because the emotional entanglement between my ex and me has not completely dissipated, and the behavior of this good friend may make me feel the pain of losing my lover again.

To sum up, I think it is a very personal question of whether or not you can accept a good friend in a relationship with your ex. Different people will have different views and ways of dealing with them. For me personally, I consider a number of factors, including my relationship history, how much I value my good friends, and the relationship between my ex and good friends.

After all, the world's couples fall in love at first sight is a minority, most couples develop from friends to lovers, for friends who have understood, since Lang has a concubine intention, then be generous together.

Some people feel that since they are good friends, there is no need to develop into lovers, and they are so afraid that they don't even have to be friends. This worry is completely superfluous, and for love, it does not necessarily mean that you have to become enemies after a breakup.

Even if they can't be together anymore for various reasons, it doesn't matter. The more familiar you are, the more you will understand and understand each other's personality, temper and character.

If it's really not suitable, retreat to the position of good friends, even if it may make each other a little embarrassed, but just get used to it.

Even if they are good friends of the opposite sex, when they have a significant other, their feelings will become weaker and weaker as the contact decreases.

So, for those things that don't know, don't set limits for yourself, let him go with the flow. The fate between every two people is different.

That's why there are some feelings, you hold on tightly, and you're afraid that he will slip away, but it turns out to be a stranger.

Since love is coming, let's enjoy his process and leave the rest to time to decide. After all, it's not something I can control.

Can you stay together for a lifetime, in addition to the persistence of two people, there is also a little luck and fate to promote success, otherwise, how can there be so many crazy men and women in the world?

So, when there is a love affair between good friends, just accept it generously and start with it.