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You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?

Love is not possession!

You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!

knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;

Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".

In love, one thing is said and another is done;

The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......

Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again...

Longing for a certain thing or person can be said to be self-imagining, and you don't have a lot of time and energy to get to know and understand carefully and seriously. You will regard the one or several aspects that you think are good as the whole thing or person you yearn for, with a certain subjectivity. So it's good.

But when you have time and energy, plus your level of insight and knowledge improves, your evaluation criteria are also changing, resulting in a change in your perception and evaluation of the person or thing you originally longed for. So the truth is a bit "cruel". As long as you can be objective and comprehensive when you know each other, it's good.

Time will make you understand love, time can prove love, and it can also overthrow love. There is no kind of grief that cannot be alleviated by time.

If time can't make you forget those you shouldn't remember, what's the point of the years we've lost?

How nice would it be if all the sorrow, the pain, the failures were fake? It's a pity that there are a lot of false feelings and false meanings in the world, and your own pain, failure, and sorrow are always true.

It's always nice to think! The reality is all cruel!

Is it too late to regret it, in order to avoid worse things, the moment is the brake, or give yourself a reason to try to go on.

Reality is always a lot of cruelty and hindrance.

It is necessary to overcome many difficulties and hardships to do it.

It takes a lot of courage and perseverance and perseverance.

Work hard, I wish you to do what you want soon.

I've experienced this kind of thing too many times, and I'm a little numb. Things in the world are like this, there are many helpless, the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment, it is better to think about the bad in advance, the gap will be smaller.

It depends on what it is, you didn't make it clear.

yes, how else to say that the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment.

It is still necessary to look at things with a normal heart.

Yes, normal mental manifestations.

Young people are like that.

Of course I am willing, the final ending is beautiful, and love that does not experience setbacks is easy to die Only in setbacks can we witness true feelings

No matter how people walk, it is a road in life, and it is their own choice to take the rugged mountain road or the bright road.

Yes, as long as what I get is true love, love must withstand the wind and rain.

I don't want to, enough frustrations and I can't stand it.

There are many things that can be met but not wanted.

Contentment. There's no need to ask for anything.

That will make you even more exhausted.

Take a step back and open the sky.

An optimistic and open-minded mindset is particularly important.

There is a lack of practical and effective methods.

Living in the present and being happy with the present is the king People and things in the past will change over time Yearning for the future with your current mentality is not enough When you are bored with the present, you always have a time when you don't work hard Take advantage of the present to work hard while you are young.

Most people are like that, they don't know how to cherish after they lose, in fact, the present is the future of the past, the past of the future.

The past is beautiful, there are not too many troubles in the past, there are not too many scheming, people live in the present with more troubles, too many unpleasantness, all we always miss the past.

Today's present is no longer what it used to be.

Man is a lowly animal, and you have to learn to accept yourself.

What you can't get is the best, don't you understand...

It's just that the imagination is beautiful, the reality is cruel, and the plan can't keep up with the fast change!!

The good times don't last long, so cherish the present.

As long as you are not very satisfied with reality, you will imagine a good scene. Hee Hee People can be content, but they will never be satisfied.

Everyone is looking forward to a better life. But be content and happy.

No, the future is bleak.

I have a beautiful vision of life, which makes me understand that life can have another kind of breezy beauty. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke revealed that he hopes to light up his life.