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Then you have to think about why you got divorced, because the relationship between each other is not in good communication, or because you can't stand some small problems with each other, or because you don't love this person at all, and then you have endured it for so many years. These are not too big problems, as long as you open your heart and communicate with each other a lot, it will not be a problem.
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That means you're tired and unhappy, what are the problems, is it disharmony in the couple, disharmony in the family, or whatever, and you have to explain the problem, and then analyze the cause, find out the root problem, and then think about whether you want to get a divorce or not, and what you're going to have to endure after the divorce, and whether you can guarantee the rest of your life, or accept the impact of that outcome.
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It shows that your marriage has reached a tired period, and there is nothing new for both parties, so you can get along in a different way or find some hobbies, so that you don't keep thinking about divorce.
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It shows that you don't love your lover very much. There must be a gap between you, and in this case, it is best to communicate more, communicate more and care more about each other. A hundred years of repair can be crossed in the same boat, and a thousand years of repair can be slept together. It's not easy to come together, but it's also a kind of fate. Treasure.
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At that point, those things, make you have such thoughts, can't you communicate these problems with the other party?
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Because the marriage is not happy.
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Legal analysis: If you want to divorce, you need to be able to reach a consensus, and then go through the divorce procedures, if you can't reach a consensus, such as the custody of your children, child support, debt division, etc., if you can't reach an agreement, then you can only take legal means to solve.
Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China
Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.
The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.
Article 1077:Within 30 days of the date on which the marriage registration authority receives the application for divorce registration, if either party is unwilling to divorce, he or she may withdraw the application for divorce registration from the marriage registration authority.
Within 30 days after the expiration of the period provided for in the preceding paragraph, both parties shall apply in person to the marriage registration authority for the issuance of a divorce certificate; If the application is not made, it shall be deemed that the application for divorce registration has been withdrawn.
Article 1078:Where the marriage registration authorities ascertain that the parties have indeed divorced voluntarily and have reached a consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt disposition, they shall register and issue a divorce certificate.
Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court.
People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.
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Legal analysis: After more than ten years of marriage, if you want to divorce and the other party does not agree, you can only sue the court for divorce, and you can entrust a lawyer to litigate.
Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China
Article 1046:Marriage shall be completely voluntary between a man and a woman, and neither party shall be allowed to coerce the other, nor shall any organization or individual interfere with it.
Article 1047:The age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 years for men and 20 years old for women.
Article 1048:Marriage is prohibited for lineal blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations.
Article 1049 A man and a woman who wish to marry shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration authority. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.
Article 1050:After marriage is registered, the woman may become a member of the man's family, and the man may become a member of the woman's family, in accordance with the agreement between the man and the woman.
Article 1051:Marriage is null and void in any of the following circumstances: (1) bigamy; (2) Have a family relationship that prohibits marriage; (3) They have not reached the legal age for marriage.
In fact, quarreling does not mean that you do not love each other, it can only mean that you lack communication skills or need to run in, on the contrary, many couples or marriages that do not quarrel have hidden crises. A proper fight will enhance the relationship, but too many fights can also make the two people exhausted. Three years is enough time for you to get to know a person, you can calmly recall and think about it, how much do you know him in three years, if you feel that his character is very good, but when two people will have different opinions, you can solve it through communication; If you feel that you don't know much about him, you are a pair of familiar strangers, then you need to make a careful choice, you must be only in your 20s, although you have reached the marriageable age, but compared with him you seem more naïve and simple, of course, age is not an obstacle, but you have to judge whether he is the person you need, you are sure to marry someone, if you decide, don't suffer from gains and losses, two people will not abandon each other, his maturity will give you a lot of help; But if you're still hesitating, you should make a decision early, or the two of you should be separated for a while and think about it calmly.
True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), you will be excited when you see it, your heart beats faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, real love for a person will be willing to take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wants, Seeing the person you love happy you will also be happy, seeing him (her) troubled you will also follow the trouble, but you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy and happy, the real love of a person will want to grow old with him (her), and he (her) with each other, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness.
Then it's troublesome First of all, your hukou can be re-schooled, and he will be a little troublesome If you don't have a divorce certificate, your best way is to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to ask When I got the marriage certificate last year, it was also very troublesome to express the hukou from home and then go to Yangzhou School with him to transfer his hukou It is not possible to have a hukou If you have been divorced, you must have a divorce certificate Otherwise, it will become bigamy If there is a court judgment, it is also okay But you still have to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to ask.
Do you not have a good sleep time, it should be that you love to sleep in winter, according to the normal schedule should not be, or you insist on a while to get up at a fixed point every morning, and it will be good slowly.
You always want to cry when you listen to the song Penghu Bay, probably because this song evokes your childhood memories, and you feel that the memories of your childhood are particularly beautiful, and you feel sad for the good memories of your past childhood.