What should I do if I make an unintentional joke angry with others?

Updated on society 2024-06-05
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    At this time, whether you are a handsome guy or a beautiful woman, no matter how proud you are, you have to put down the shelf and coax your friend, after all, it is your reason that makes him angry, so apologize and say something nice, and this matter will pass. So it's time to bow your head and admit your mistake and apologize.

    That's why I don't like to joke, because unintentional jokes can hurt others, but the better thing about a person who loves to joke is that he has a wider range of people. My male girlfriend is a person who loves to joke, he jokes all by mood and people, if he has a good relationship, he will not have a degree of jokes, the relationship between ordinary classmates, he jokes just to ease the atmosphere. There are times when people are angry, like me.

    I don't like to drink pure milk, but my mother loves to let me drink it, and every day she will let me bring a bottle to class, and my back table knows that I don't like to drink it, so I take it every time I drink some, and then he will take a lot of snacks and yogurt to exchange with me. We have always had a good relationship, maybe it's what people often call ambiguity, and then after the liberal arts and sciences were divided, we went to different classes, but he still came to me to get milk as always, and my male girlfriend once made a joke about the two of us in front of him.

    At that time, because I didn't realize that the feeling of each other was to like it, I always thought it was an ordinary friend, so this kind of joke would inevitably be a little abrupt between us, and as soon as the joke came out, the atmosphere between us was very awkward, so I was a little angry, so I went back to the class first, and my male girlfriend also saw that my face was a little wrong, and then ran to my seat to coax me, sat in front of me and grimaced me, but I really wanted to laugh, but I thought I was angry, so I held back.

    When he saw that I wasn't smiling, he thought he wasn't making me laugh, and then at the end of the second period, he ran to buy me a lot of snacks, and then those arms of mine were coquettish there. Then I forgave him, in fact, it was a very small thing, but if he didn't bow his head first, didn't come over to coax me first, I might not forgive him so quickly, but as time went on, I felt more and more angry. So when we inadvertently make someone angry because of some unintentional joke, it's not a big deal to lower our heads and say sorry.

    A word can make a difference, and a word can also fail. The same is true for friendship, a word can save a friendship, and a word can destroy a friendship. So when you make your voice angry because of an unintentional joke, go and coax the person you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Find a way to coax you, what else can you do. But I think if the relationship is really good, it's not a joke. My mom always said I didn't play with measure, so no one wanted to play with me.

    I was very angry when I first heard this, but in the end, I felt that it was not easy to accept my jokes, but I think it was quite measured to play. <>

    I've had so many friends, and I've never been a person I've ever joked about and angry, maybe the people I've met since I was a child should have been someone with a bigger heart. Just when I was making up for it, I met a girl who was my tablemate. I found that this woman is the kind of person who feels like she's going to heaven as long as there are a lot of people around.,Usually when we're in the class, we don't get angry no matter how we play.,Both of us have bigger hearts.。

    One time I remember calling ** to get me something from the supermarket across the street from our school, because I was so hungry at school. At that time, my table mate said that she had the ** number of the supermarket, and said that she would go to their dormitory to pick it up at noon tomorrow. When I went to their dormitory the next day, she gave me a ** number.

    I was happy to go back to the dormitory and called**, how to call and reply to my empty number, I saw that the **number was ten digits. So I went to the dormitory where I was at the same table and asked: How could a ten-digit ** be beaten, and people were very angry at that time and said that I could know!

    So I went next door and asked for a ** number, I felt that I didn't say anything, people were angry, and my face turned red and I said a few words and left. At that time, I was really confused, and I didn't fall asleep when I went back to the dormitory. In the afternoon, I went to class, and people didn't talk to me anymore and deliberately talked to others.

    I was really drunk at the time, and she was obviously wrong and put the pot on my head, but the thought of us having to spend a lot of time together at the same table. Hey, forget it, I'll take the initiative to make peace with her.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In my opinion, a person's interpersonal skills directly depend on the number and quality of friends around them. This includes not only friends and relatives, but also colleagues or leaders who will work together in the future. In modern society, the most important thing is not only a person's ability, but your mind.

    Some people know how to be flexible, and there is always a corresponding way of dealing with different people. They know what they should say and do, and they will be accepted and recognized by others. However, many people have a more direct personality and sleek shortcomings, and sometimes his joke, perhaps he thinks it is not a big deal, indirectly makes others frown, until finally he is also in a state of confusion, and I think I belong to this group of people before this.

    I remember when I first entered university, I felt that everything around me was much more complicated. At that time, I got along with roommates the most, and I felt very innocent at that time, always revealing to others, never having a little reservation, and speaking very directly. Once, in the dormitory, the four of us were sitting and chatting, and in the midst of the excitement, I casually said a joke about my roommate, maybe I didn't pay attention at all, but I could clearly detect the subtle change in her expression, and then I made an excuse to leave.

    Afterwards, I went to her in person to explain the matter one by one, and finally solved the misunderstanding.

    After that, I became very aware of my shortcomings in this area, and I was able to be more cautious in my dealings with others. Since then, I have truly understood that for the friends around me, you must communicate with your heart, understand with your heart, have a certain judgment ability, know whether some words should be said or not, even if it is a joke, you can't be too casual. We should understand that everyone has their own bottom line, maybe you don't know the so-called words, but you can pierce others.

    But in many cases, we often can't avoid joking and hurting others at the same time, so at this moment, we can't stop there, and explain it clearly in person is the best way to solve it, and take it as a warning. In this way, you can ensure that your friends have a wider and more solid social circle in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This happens very often in life.

    Take the initiative to apologize and ask for reconciliation, explain that you are unintentional, and your attitude should be sincere.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Summary. Dear, if someone deliberately gets angry with me, I have to see what kind of relationship he has, ordinary colleagues, classmates, ignore it, and not arguing with the villain is the best way to protect yourself.

    What would you do if someone was deliberately angry with you?

    Dear, if someone deliberately gets angry with me, I have to see what kind of relationship he has, ordinary colleagues, classmates, and classmates, if they have a relationship, they will ignore it, and not arguing with the little answer is the best way to protect themselves.

    If it is a couple or a good friend, then clean her up, first pretend to be angry with her (him), and finally give her (him) a counterattack.

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  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    We've all been teased about in life, big or small. The key is to be inclusive. 1. What you say may not be malicious, but it doesn't mean that when others listen to it, there is no malice.

    Sometimes a joke can hurt people, if it's just a joke that the person in question thinks is funny. Otherwise, this is malicious attack or slander. 1. Excessive joking hurts other people's self-esteem, and I have been hurt by a sentence for a long time.

    So that's a bad thing. Some people think that others are making a big fuss and that others are too serious. Everyone's lifestyle is different, and they don't have the right to change it.

    2. Don't use jokes to pass the hurt away. Everyone has their own temper, and if you don't have a seizure when you imitate a sell, it doesn't mean it's okay, but because of a good upbringing, you won't turn your face at that time. When you want to do something to someone, first think about how you will feel if it happens to you.

    1. You can't speak and do things by your own temperament. After all, we are all adults. It is the bare minimum that an adult should be responsible for his or her own behavior.

    Of course, there is a responsibility to say the wrong thing, so it must be done because it is a duty. But that doesn't mean everything should be done by you. 3. A person can think for others, but he can think about everything for others if he is not prepared.

    You can be empathetic, but you can't be just empathetic. In fact, everyone has been hurt to a greater or lesser extent because of other people's words. They have also hurt others because of their own words.

    1. If it is an unintentional mistake, then apologize afterwards, and it may be forgotten after a long time, but this does not mean that anyone can talk nonsense at will. Whether it's in life or online. Think twice before you say anything, because the arrows of language can easily hurt people invisibly.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Summary. The reason why I'm angry is because it's a joke that is serious! This has something to do with a person's maturity, and if you see more and see more, you will naturally be able to distinguish what is a joke and what is serious.

    Others joke and never get angry.

    The reason why I'm angry is because it's a joke that is serious! This has something to do with a person's maturity, and if you see more and see more, you will naturally be able to distinguish what is a joke and what is serious.

    I've always been very talkative, soft-hearted and kind to people, and I found that I wasn't treated well, just because I never got angry, and some people didn't respect me when they spoke, although I really didn't get angry at the time, but then subconsciously remembered that incident, and then the mood would be bad for several days, but only in my heart.

    Say it. It's much better to have someone to talk to.

    I think it was ridiculous to talk to my friend a few days ago, and she got angry and talked when I accidentally said two words, and she didn't respect me the whole time, and she said repeatedly, hehe, it's funny to think about.

    So on these things, I came to a conclusion, that is, if you don't respect someone, you will be directly scolded, and it is right to be good to you, but I will definitely treat people and will not let them go again.

    Yes. You can't just put up with it.

    If it's true that I'm the kind of person with abnormal IQ defects, whatever they say, but I'm a normal person, just cowardly, and I think about other people's feelings in everything, but what happened made me feel so chilled.

    So a good temper is not necessarily a good thing.

    Blame me for being too cowardly, and now I'm going to be a grudge-bearer.

    Protect yourself.

    Now I know.

    Okay.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you make someone angry, then apologize.

    It's normal for friends to joke with each other, but sometimes when it's on, the joke gets bigger, and not everyone can afford to play it, and they won't care because of your so-called jokes.

    I have a group of friends, and we all meet up occasionally to get together, chat, sing, and eat. During this period, of course, all kinds of ridicule were indispensable. Once, Xiao Yu gossiped about celebrity scandals with everyone, and talked about a certain celebrity's involvement in other people's families as a third party.

    Unexpectedly, this topic stimulated everyone's interest in discussion, and they talked about whether a third party should intervene in other people's families. In the end, Xiaoyu also made fun of everyone, and laughed and asked everyone how they met. Then, in particular, he pointed his gaze at Xiao Yu.

    Actually, everyone has heard Xiao Yu talk about it before, but it is very talkative and brushed aside. Xiaoyu's classmates happened to be in the same class as Xiao Yu at the beginning, so they knew something inside.

    It turned out that Xiao Yu and her boyfriend met because of her small hair, and Fa Xiao wanted to chase the boy, but she didn't know what to do, so she asked Xiao Yu for help, and Xiao Yu helped Xiao Xiao pay a lot of attention and finally matched the two.

    But the good times didn't last long, a year later, the two broke up, just break up, but I didn't expect that three months later, the boy and Xiao Yu were together.

    Xiao Yu's joke now also alludes to Xiao Yu being a third party.

    Xiao Yu, who was very generous and could afford to joke, got angry this time, and left with his bag halfway, and the good party broke up unhappily.

    Actually, in my opinion, Xiaoyu's joke is too much, and we are not parties and have no right to speak. Secretly speculating about friends just based on some rumors, this is the friendship that only plastic sisters have.

    So, Xiaoyu sincerely apologized to Xiao Yu and bought her favorite strawberry cake to make amends, and the two reconciled.

    In short, jokes can be made, but you have to be in a good sense of proportion, and don't go too far.

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