Impetuous, begging for comfort, being in a good mood, who can comfort me?

Listen** Relax, too much pressure, but you can't perform at the level of the exam.

You can go to some quiet places, it is best to choose a place with a better environment, listen to songs, see the scenery, think about the good times in the past, and calm yourself.

When you have free time, decompress yourself, let go of everything at hand, do what you like and do what you want to do, and don't force it. Listen**, drink coffee and see the scenery.

Do what you love, I think it's good!

Have a good talk with a psychiatrist.

Think about the worst that will happen if you continue to be impetuous, so don't ......^

You're a man, so go listen to DJs, leave your worries behind, or go for a strenuous workout, sweat it out, take a hot bath, get some sleep, and wake up much better!

Dream wedding! Richard Clayderman.

Piano music, among which the nocturne is relatively calm, is beautiful. Qing ** is also available.

It's better not to listen to words.

For serious ** people who listen to it for the first time, I recommend Chopin's nocturne, which is easy to accept.

I also recommend Chihiro's Moonlight Onisaki which is very good.

Waiting is the end of the world, hard work is the dance step towards success, waiting (time) + hard work = nothing is impossible.

The destination is the same, the means of transportation are different, he takes a plane, you walk, he flies fast, flies elegantly, flies enviable, and at the same time he sees the scenery along the way is not as much as yours, his experience is not as much as yours, and his journey is not as colorful as yours. Don't give up halfway, there will always be a day when the destination arrives, the result is not so important, the process is the most important. Don't be discouraged.

You can understand how you feel, people themselves live in groups, and there will inevitably be comparisons, whether casual or inadvertent. So there will always be moments, not only for you, but also for girls who you see as easily enjoying life and love, but in different ways. Listen to your tone should still be very young, the road of life is really, really, still very far away, what you value now, in fact, is really a little superficial, although the current society is noisy and impetuous, advocating appearance, but believe me, there must be something more important than that.

If you let someone look at everything lightly at your age, I also know that it is unlikely. However, try to be as sunny as possible. The mentality will affect the outside, even if it is not beautiful, it can be very cute and sunny, if you try to be softer, you can also be very gentle, these are what boys like!

A big sister in her early 30s.

I have also had such times, my methods: first, try to control yourself and not think about those things that you are not used to;

2. Try not to listen to the unfair;

3. Usually learn some Buddhism and know things;

Fourth, read more books, make your mind more open-minded, and gradually you will tolerate those things that you are not used to.

If you work hard, in 2 years, you will change yourself.

If you feel that you are ordinary and inferior, then there is no way, after all, reality is not a fairy tale, there is no so-called Cinderella. So you must rely on yourself, don't feel that you are not beautiful enough and not smart enough, there are no ugly women in the world, only lazy women, and success also depends on your own hard work, and the success of others certainly looks easy because you have no experience.

You should be proud of yourself. Other people's appearance is only available when you are young, and your experience will become your life's wealth, in fact, most people are ordinary and ordinary. Relax, keep working hard, what should come will come eventually. Don't rush it.

Behind other people's scenery is not necessarily without sweat. You say you used to work hard, but that's just once, that's just not hard enough. In pursuit of enjoyment, let's pay first.

Look at the point, everyone's experience is different, some people are born to be better than others, then those weak can only look at their own efforts to get what they want, I believe that through your efforts one day you will get what you want.

You have to believe in yourself, there is only one unique you in this world, you don't care what others think, it's enough to be yourself. Everyone has their weaknesses and strengths, learn to find out your strengths and avoid weaknesses...

1.Find your own points, personality, foreign trade, and material.

2.Everybody has it, but you don't know it, or someone else's is a little too strong, so strong that you ignore his shortcomings.

3.Appearance is very useful in the short term, but long-term relationships still depend on character.

4.A radish and a pit, Wang Ba is right on mung beans. You also have to find someone who can match your eyes, and what you think is not good for you, especially emotionally. It's a different story when it comes to work.

Hehe, it is normal for people to be confused, the key is that you have to have a plan, have a plan for life, think more about your strengths and weaknesses, which shortcomings must and can be changed, and then what path you are suitable to take, take your time.

You need someone who can be there for you.

I'm almost graduating, but I'm scared to go out into society and face everything as a real adult. But the road ahead must always be walked by yourself, and no one can help you, so don't be afraid. It's painful to grow up, but you have to grow up eventually.

Like you, you are an ordinary person, you are not as good as others, you feel like a failure, maybe the life you hate is exactly what others are pursuing, and being yourself is not a good one, just be yourself.

Indeed, oh, such a reality is like this, you can consider that you still have family affection, and it would be good to think about everything else as ruins.

There are more people in the world who are less fortunate than you. Compared to myself, I am still relatively lucky.

Sometimes life is indeed a little unfair, and it's good to complain once, and then continue to struggle.

Since you don't have anything, you can only study, at least now you can work hard to improve your grades.

Think about it, people are here to suffer in this life, either to pay off debts in the previous life, or to accumulate good fortune for the next life.

Look at those who work harder than you and don't have money, and you feel that you are happy, and there are no complaints.

Life should be calm and calm, brother, you are hurting now. I think I fell asleep on the final exam and got a score of 0, and now it's not in class, I should sleep, and I still eat what I should eat. Gods and horses are all floating clouds (o Ah! Give a bear hug.

I don't know how to comfort people, but I can tell you that there is an exam that is very important to me, and I haven't taken it for 5 years. I don't know if it can make you feel better...

Life is calm and relaxed, brother, your eggs hurt. At first I fell asleep, and the zero point tested in the final exam is now not class sleep and sleep, and still not eating. Shenma are all clouds ( ?) Yes! pro come with a bear hug.

If you feel important, if you think it's important, study! If it doesn't matter, then just give up and find something you like.

If you lose something, you will gain something, so let's do it another way.

Organised: Research shows that rigor has the greatest impact on success of all factors. The so-called "rigor" is the degree of organization of life, rigorous restraint, that is, the prudence and self-discipline of traditional culture.

This is embodied in the regularity of daily work and rest, and the planning of work - Kant can be said to be a model in this regard. His daily routine was quite regular, and it is said that the timing of his walks was so precise that he could be used to correct the clock. He strictly controlled his daily routine and lived in an orderly manner.

Overcoming neuroticism: "Neuroticism" is not psychotic, it is simply a term used to describe how emotionally stable a person is. The prominent manifestation of neuroticism is emotional instability.

The effect of neuroticism is also quite large, and neurotic individuals are usually very sensitive, and emotional instability not only makes people feel restless and restless, but also brings many physiological changes. For example, it can lead to a decrease in the body's immunity, which can make people more susceptible to diseases.

Mastering coping styles: Psychological research has found that there are two types of first reactions when people face problems and stress: problem coping and emotional coping.

Problem response includes taking action, making a plan, emotional support, instrumental support, rationalizing explanations, accepting facts, etc. Emotional coping includes avoidance, self-blame, emotional venting, hallucination, denial, and patience. Zhuge Liang in "Romance of the Three Kingdoms" is a typical problem responder.

He has a lot of stories in this regard, singing empty city plans and burning red cliffs. While everyone else was panicking about Cao Cao's attack, he offered to break Cao's offensive by burning Chibi. People who respond to problems with concrete solutions are more effective than those who deal with problems with emotions.

Reasonable satisfaction of needs: The famous psychologist Maslow proposed that everyone has basic needs, including physiological needs, security needs, belonging needs, and love needs. Understand your basic needs and meet them reasonably.

Don't overdo it when you play, there was once a person who loved to play Warcraft when he was a child, and when he grew up to become a professional Warcraft player, others were very envious, and then the reporter interviewed him, and he only said one sentence, when the hobby becomes a career, it is destined to lose the happiness in it.

Hope: Hope is not just an emotion, it's a trait. As a trait, hope has two ingredients:

One is the goal of willingness, and the other is the path to achieve the goal. Many people say that students in the third year of high school are very hard, but a survey shows that this view is wrong, and the vast majority of high school students report that they are happy, and the happiness appreciation of senior students exceeds that of freshman and sophomore students. The reason for this is that although high school students have heavy study tasks and high pressure, they always have hope in their hearts.

And for them, the goal is so specific, and the path to achieve it is so clear.

Realize the importance of learning, only through learning can you change your life, create a life, and have a material security for you and your family; The second is to find a way to learn, keep repeating, give one example, slowly build confidence from the foundation, start from your own conditions, do not be impatient, learn must be calm, please take a long-term view.

Actually, according to my analysis, you should be that the surrounding environment has a deep impact on you, including your learning environment, living environment, you know. As a normal person, it is normal to be affected by other factors, which is why many people who want to learn and are willing to learn like to go to the library or a place with a learning atmosphere, not only what places they really like so much, but they know that the atmosphere is also very fatal to them. Since you like to play, it means that you lack such an atmosphere, and it is recommended that you can find a place similar to a library, and no one will seduce you in a place where everyone is studying.

You tell me!! Hehe.

There's a scientific basis for this, because you think that learning is an unhappy thing, and when you study, your brain secretes an unhappy substance, and in order to moderate it, you have to secrete another substance that is similar to happiness, and you think it's fun to play, so the brain prompts you to do that thing to secrete the happy substance, so if you want to study seriously, you have to think of it as a happy thing -- I guess it's very difficult to do.