Sometimes, I feel that I am not my true self in a relationship, and I can t let go of it, what shoul

I think it's normal if you can't let go of the first three months of dating, and it's not the same as getting along with friends in front of the people you like.

First of all, it's normal, and secondly, you have to get used to it, and then you have a little bit of communication and understanding between you, and the problem will be solved.

In fact, a person has multiple faces, no matter which side is yourself, it just depends on which side you prefer to live on.

You like him, but he hasn't said anything yet, or he has too little contact, and he only shows the best in the short term.

Normal, so do I. But after experiencing more, the naturally embarrassing situation is gone.

This is what it feels like to like someone, and when you have a deep relationship with him, you will be able to let go, and let go quickly.

That's what liking is, it's pure liking. I'm the same as the landlord, I can't let go at the beginning of every date, he keeps talking to me, and it'll be fine after a while. We've both been over three years old.

It's good that the time is long, and I have nothing to talk about.

It's too much to gain and lose, some couples are like this, everything is in plain sight, it's not good if it's too pretentious, it's meaningless.

That's because the two of them are not very familiar yet, and it is natural to wait for them to get acquainted.

Be true to yourself so you can know if he likes you or not.

Relax a little, or both parties will be embarrassed and have nothing to say.

Do something you like together, singing, hobbies, entertainment, activities, traveling.

Let it be, don't deliberately, otherwise it will be more old-fashioned, you must learn to treat her as an ordinary friend, otherwise you will be further away from him.

Only with strangers can there be endless words!

To let go, then the two people will have a sense of distance.

Go out more, debate and talk with people more, let others know you and recognize you, your communication skills will improve, and your social skills will be very good!

Don't take it too seriously, sometimes the more you care, the more counterproductive. Every familiar friend starts from unfamiliar, sometimes you are with someone you don't know, it's okay, don't keep thinking that you must be very familiar with him, after all, there are a few people who can become friends. As long as you treat others with sincerity, even if you don't talk much together, others will appreciate you very much.

Then sing loudly from a crowded place.

Practice speaking. I used to be too open, but now I'm so ruthless.

Listen attentively to the person you are talking to, and do not neglect or stay out of the way

Hehehe. I feel that the main problem is that you don't know how to communicate with strangers, what to communicate, and there are many people like that. I feel like I want to open up communication with someone, first of all, you have to discover the commonalities between you so that you can have something to talk about.

You can also do what he likes, talk about something that he is interested in and you know better, so that you can communicate harmoniously.

Hope it helps.

I wonder if you have a history where you have experienced something that you can't afford to bear

Because you and he are not familiar with each other and don't understand each other, it's not that you can't let go, but you haven't found your topic, which is the so-called common language, and when you find a topic, you will naturally talk. If you can't find a topic, you will always talk about it, and it will make you feel that you can't let go.

Turns out I'm just like youMaybe you can't do anything because people you don't know well are not worth your heart.

The first thing you have to ask him this question is: What do you think of me to let go? What do you think of me as who I really am? 'And what I can do to give you a sense of security. With the answers to these three questions, everything will be solved by people.

I think it may be that she accidentally learned something about you from someone else, and you didn't tell her about it, and she felt that you had some scruples. If you think about it, is there such a thing, she recently got in touch with that friend of yours, ask the friend.

Tell her, confess to her! Seriously, if you can't be your true self between couples, you will be very tired...

It depends on your side that you can't let go, generally you should be very happy when you are with your girlfriend, and you will become natural without worrying about people!

Then spend more time with her, prepare some small gifts for her from time to time, surprise her, girls all need romance the same.

It's very simple, give him warmth, a**, a text message, etc.

You can try him as if he were your own family.

It's you who care too much and can't let go, just become your true self, try him, show him your ugly side, and try your heart.

Then you just let go and eat whatever you want, do whatever you want.

What's wrong with eating, is there anything to see?

This is a common cowardice in children who grow up in a repressive environment, and it will gradually change as the contact area expands and the world increases.

Mu Youshi has something to do with a serious attitude to talk about a love with a result! Because there is a successful love in society now, it is necessary to prepare for the worst before talking. Because love is not what you imagined, you have to be suitable for the two of you to be able to separate sooner or later if you are not suitable.

Love is like a marshmallow, one word - sweet! If you can't let go of the pursuit, there is only one person waiting for ...... stupidly

Find any person, it's unrequited, and then you know what it's like.

The first love is the most beautiful, and the rest of the later ones don't feel anything.

It's good to find someone you love and love someone who loves you.

It's okay, love will always come.

When you come across something you like, you'll know.

When you first arrive at a work unit and meet unfamiliar colleagues, you are advised not to be shy, and to talk to them with a generous smile: "Hello! "Immediately closer!

After getting the other person's response, you can get into the conversation smoothly. The next thing you can do is ask, "What's your last name?" Where is my hometown?

Have you started a family? ⋯⋯

When you first arrived, your colleagues tend to talk to you politely, and after a while, you are already familiar with everyone! You're going to let it go! If you have any questions at work, you will be happy to help you!

That's because your performance has earned you the respect of everyone.

I'm the same as you, I won't pay attention to strangers unless**I have to help him More passive If you feel pressure, you don't have to worry about him After a long time, you will be familiar with it No need to embarrass yourself.

Get along well with your colleagues, and you will become familiar with them after a long time.

The easiest way is to force yourself to talk to people more, talk about everything, and talk casually if you don't, otherwise you will always be afraid. After a period of time, when you get used to communicating with people, you will think back to the present, and you will feel that the problem you encountered is not called a problem at all, come on!