I don t want to live with my cousin and I don t know how to go about talking to her!

Updated on psychology 2024-06-26
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    First of all, since you and your cousin "can live together", at least have lived, then the most basic thing is to have a good communication, make your problems clear to her face to face, not that you don't want to live with her, but I hope that she can have a sense of proportion in all aspects, for the good of everyone. Secondly, if it is just a mismatch in personality and language is not speculative, it can still be saved, if there are other more excessive life complexes, then if you want to live separately, just say it directly, the more tactful, the more unclear it is, and it may even involve other things, and it will eventually turn into a quarrel. First tell your friend that you don't want to live with your cousin, and then tell your cousin that your friend wants to live alone with you, and your cousin and your friend should not have the same relationship as you and your friend, so it's okay to say so.

    Personal opinion: It is best to "value harmony" with the affection between relatives and be able to communicate as much as possible. My cousin shouldn't have intentionally attacked, maybe it's become a habit because you're familiar.

    If your friends ignore you because of "family fights", then these friends should be cautious. Maybe your cousin's words are very excessive, and you need to say her to her face once, and if you don't say that she won't change, think that you agree with her to do it. You can communicate first, and if it doesn't work well, then just confess.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Are you a boy? Isn't it simple if so? Find a girlfriend to take home to play, show it to your cousin and say it's inconvenient for you to live together? Do you need a separate private space? Didn't you just move out?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You can tell him that you have a very good friend who has a quarrel with the family and rents a house outside, and he asks you to go over and rent a house with him, and that friend is very important to you, and you are afraid that something will happen to him and you want to move there.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    People have to bow their heads under the eaves or go out and live alone.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Summary. What you should do: This depends on whether you want to go or not, or whether you find your cousin rude.

    What you should do: This depends on whether you want to go or not, or whether you find your cousin rude.

    1.If you want to go to Mu Ben, you can joke and say: Cousin, you are too partial, and you don't call me when you eat, and I am not your sister chain. In the end, it's better to be close to my sister.

    2.If you feel that your cousin is rude and unhappy, then it can be said that it is good to have a younger brother, especially a dear, who only has a sister in his eyes.

    The specific needs to depend on what you think in your heart, and the specific situation is analyzed and judged on a case-by-case basis.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I have some suggestions for dealing with family and kinship:

    1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

    2. A point of surprise and auspiciousness, creating a dramatic effect, often many contradictions disappear in jokes. Round.

    3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself. Tachibana stove let.

    4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

    5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hello, parents can feed their children some appetizing foods appropriately, or they can take their children to the hospital to check whether it is because of the lack of trace elements that cause the child's poor appetite. Most babies don't like to eat, which is related to poor eating habits.

    It is recommended that parents properly regulate their children's work and rest time, help their children develop good living habits, and secondly, ensure their children's water intake and exercise every day, because only when the child's exercise reaches the level will there be a desire to eat!

    In addition, parents can use a little time before the child's meal to carry out a simple pre-meal game with the child, or introduce recipes to the child to introduce the nutrition of vegetables, etc., to attract the child's interest, choose the baby's favorite tableware, and at the same time in the child's cooking, you can properly consider the color, flavor and shape of the collocation, improve the child's desire to eat.

    Of course, parents should also set a good example for their children, try not to talk when eating, and it is best to control each meal in half an hour, and then accept it, as a "small punishment" for children who do not concentrate on eating, and finally to give their children a meal before the meal, such as eating by themselves, concentrating on eating, etc.!

    Try to eat little or no snacks. The baby's diet should be light, and you can give the baby less and more frequent meals.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's just an ordinary gamble, but some people will take things seriously, and it's better to observe.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I forgot which one, you used the anonymous ......Is it a matter of a friend's mobile phone not being broken and still asking her boyfriend to cheat on her mobile phone? It's okay, I can help you. As an outsider, you can only give you advice, and in the end, you have to grasp it yourself.

    Did you really say the word if? Since she is a cousin, even if the relationship is not very good, you must also consider the relationship between the adults of the family, and if you say that she is not good, her parents must have opinions about your parents. But don't make this complicated, your responsibility is to tell your cousin that it's not always good, and you can soften your tone, even if you have already told her, you can calmly persuade her again.

    Then you leave her alone. His boyfriend is your friend, right? To your friend, you have to tell him that her phone is not broken, but ask him not to blame your cousin too much, as a man should be able to deal with these problems.

    In fact, in the final analysis, this matter is to tell the truth, avoid your friend's financial losses, and at the same time take care of your two relatives, and give your cousin a decent step. You don't have to worry so much about them, just do your part, maybe your friend will buy it for her after she finds out? After all, they are a couple, and they may not be as serious as you think.

    I fell asleep last night, and I have other questions to ask, and I don't know what your specific attitude is towards this matter.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    First of all, it was a bitter advice, but if you can't persuade it, you will have no way! It's going to rain, and my mother is going to get married, so let her go!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Just say it, what she does is her own business, she doesn't understand what you understand, she can't understand it if she hasn't experienced it, so you just tell her, don't restrain her, so the relationship between the two is not good.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    1. Find the crux of the problem and prescribe the right medicine is the best.

    2. As an elder, my cousin should take a step back first, after all, we are sisters and brothers, which is a rare fate. Your cousin is at a rebellious age of adolescence, and she needs to talk to him as calmly as she would a friend, and that should work.

    3. Since the ticket is set, otherwise we will be separated for a period of time, and everyone will calm down.

    Hope it works for you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Persuade your cousin to put him in his shoes.

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