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The personality is full of introverts, from childhood to adulthood, and there are few friends. "Is introversion due to shyness or autism? Is it because of low self-esteem or conceit?

Usually we understand people who are usually less popular and more lonely as introverts, which is too general, do you think you are because the crowd does not accept you, or are you unwilling to accept the crowd? There is a difference, that is, you don't have friends, do you subjectively want to do this, or is it the environment?。。 And the character is not particularly good, but also with the eldest lady's temper and a little selfish atmosphere", the eldest lady's temper, will think so, indicating that the family is good, as for the understanding of character, there may be defects in consciousness, feel that their character is not good, at most reflected in selfishness, generally think that they are selfish, that is more selfish to the material?

Or is the spirit more selfish? That is to say, you are selfish with money or feelings?。。 Because I didn't get much love when I was a child, I didn't feel very enthusiastic about others in the future" This may be your fundamental problem, a person's personality tendency is determined by the growth environment from childhood to adulthood and the marriage environment after that, your personality is so, the growth environment must be the biggest problem, want to deal with emotional problems, first realize the problems of your own growth environment...

Failure in study", and then being dropped out of college, these two points can be analyzed, your introversion is because of conceit, you have few friends, because of your pride, you don't cut down on communication, and you don't cut those so-called friends, because you think that even without those people, you can still live well, until you get older, you find that you maybe, maybe, maybe you have to have a boyfriend...

You're very confident.,Otherwise, you wouldn't say that you're a simple and cute type.,Or it's not an article written by me.,No one will entertain the public with a description of yourself.。。。 In the same way, you also add a side description for yourself, saying that the school grass is chasing you or something... Your problems have been preliminarily analyzed for you, if you want to solve the problem, you should first change your conceit or pride, your passivity, because you are used to passivity, let others approach you close to you, so that you feel that people should respond to you, and you should be pursued by the crowd.

You are overconfident, perhaps because you have never been hurt in this regard, and the harm can be understood as that no one will target you in this regard, or that you do not care if anyone will target you ... These things don't mean much on the surface, until there is a specific event, you will experience serious, for example, you just haven't touched what makes your heart temporary, once you do, if you don't get it, you will be hysterical.

Emotional passivity, you must first understand that beauty has a time limit, as you get older, feelings are passive, you will be very painful, and now there are suitors who make you vain and vain, what will happen in the future?。。

To sum up, try to change your personality, start from the environment, see what kind of environment you need to pave for your own change, of course, if you don't think you need to change what conceit, what passivity, as it is, then when I talk nonsense...