In the countryside, what about a single family family?

It seems that you have never lived in the countryside. Rural people are very united and simple. In one of their villages, it's like a family, you help me, I help you, don't collect money and don't talk about returns, there is one thing to carry together, and there is meat to eat together.

In the countryside, the pig will begin to be killed in the middle of every month, which is the best day of the year. After a busy year, the province has eaten inspection, may not have eaten fresh meat for a year, in order to celebrate Chinese New Year's Eve, pigs will be killed.

Usually, everyone is busy with farm work, and they don't care about food, when they kill the New Year pig, they will invite the people on the village, almost every family has to invite, kill a New Year pig, you may have to eat dozens of catties of meat on the same day. It was very lively, as if it was a banquet.

Do white things, the whole family is busy, busy in and out, in and out for three days, rural people do things, there is no routine, their hometown where they have lived for generations, customs and etiquette are traditional, everything they encounter knows what to do, what not to do, everyone seems to have a spectrum in their hearts. Everything is the same, as long as it happens, I will put down my work and help others deal with urgent matters.

Because in the countryside, it can't be a day, at least three days, and some may be longer. They will put down what they are doing and help with white things. I didn't have to ask for it at all, but I came after hearing the news.

Over the years, they will subtly acquiesce to a manager, and then when they encounter a white matter, this manager will also be present, and he will be responsible for deploying everyone in the village and arranging it properly. Regardless of the elderly and children, they will listen to the arrangements and deployments of the general manager and do things in an orderly manner.

The countryside has the simplicity of the countryside, the city has the rules of the city, and between people, as long as they live for a long time, they will naturally have feelings, and if there is anything around them, there will always be someone who will reach out to help.

Besides, as long as you have money and a company that specializes in handling funerals, as long as you negotiate with others, everything is easy to do. It's not that hard. In any case, everything is handled according to the principle of "entering the ground for peace", as long as the deceased is buried smoothly.

If there is no funeral company, you can also find a few people nearby to pay for help.

If it is a single-family family with no children or something, then the village committee will organize, for example, the village committee will pay for a coffin and other supplies, and then arrange for personnel to bury the old man.

Everyone will do it for him together. The villagers and his own relatives recalled that they would help each other when they did it for him.

They all invite the villagers to help with white things, because the villagers in the countryside are simple and kind, and they all help each other, unlike people in the city who only benefit themselves.

Let's do it for him. For such people, usually the villagers with whom they have a good relationship will spontaneously organize and do white things.

Invite some people from the village to help serve tea and pour water, hand out cigarettes and the like, and send some things afterwards, and my family will send some tea food; The chef who runs the wine can ask the more traditional one in his hometown, which is basically a one-stop service, and the tableware is also what they will bring; Please be sure to come to your door in person.

You can cook your own food and cry for mourning, so you can invite some relatives to come over for a meal, it's simple.