Mental illness ruined eight years of my youth, and life is worse than death

Updated on healthy 2024-06-13
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You already have signs of faculty, don't hesitate to seek medical attention!

    Based on your statements alone, it seems that your body has developed general discomfort due to severe anxiety and has even experienced deterioration of some bodily functions, so this is no longer a simple depression or anxiety symptom, and the condition must be improved by physical therapy and medication. This is not alarmist, if you continue to let it go like this, your bodily functions will be further degraded, and the consequences will be unimaginable.

    You have to understand that modern medical perspectives have taken a holistic view of physical and mental illness, when in fact modern "psychological" disorders often interact with the physiology and the mind. In other words, mental illness is a physical illness to some extent, but the first thing to solve in such a condition is a psychological problem. And psychological problems, to a large extent, stem from your self-deceptive idea that "psychological problems are shameful".

    In fact, for you, such a condition is not much different from cirrhosis and tuberculosis, in any case you should seek medical attention, since your parents can bear the financial pressure of not working, they must be able to afford the cost of your condition, generally speaking, this is always much cheaper than surgery, and the key problem is that even if you only accept a small amount, you can get the right advice and advice, which is in any case better than sitting back and waiting for you to sit cranky like now!

    You have been delayed for many years, don't let it go any longer, you can start with a psychologist, if there is any organic problem, they will also give a reliable opinion, don't run away! Think about it, if you can improve significantly, there is hope in your life again, you must try!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You have a lot of things that are pressed in your mind, and that's it, and it's comfortable to say what you don't want to admit!! In the future, if you vent in this way, a real friend will not care about this, because if you are a real friend, your experience is very similar.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    According to what you said and the physical symptoms you exhibited, they are symptoms of depression, I don't know if you have seen a doctor [sleep department], and I don't know if you have finished talking about the symptoms, such as whether you are nervous when it is severe, whether you can concentrate your thoughts, etc. Even then, you don't have to be nervous, if you are financially old, you can take some sedative medicine [doctor's advice], but the key is to insist on exercising every day, and the second is to find someone to communicate, if you don't have good friends, find your relatives, get their care and cooperation, don't be embarrassed, this is very important. Don't suppress your emotions, learn to vent, such as exercising, finding a place where no one is screaming to exhaustion, etc.

    I wish you good health.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's a bit like my nervousness, when I first started working, I told myself every day not to make mistakes, and I ended up making mistakes for the first month, and then I learned to relax and get things done.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You are not mentally ill or obsessive-compulsive, and you can slowly control it a little bit to get better. A lot of people are just as fine as you are.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Your symptoms are a bit like depression, first you can go to a psychiatrist, and then spend more time with friends, I think you have a very serious psychological problem, oh, you need to be enlightened. You're putting too much pressure on yourself, so relax.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't think there should be much of a problem with your ability to express yourself, it may be that you are in this state of mind now, you really want to find someone to talk to, but you lack the person to talk to, there is no need to be so nervous, exercise more, exercise in front of the mirror, I hope you come out early.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, every time I see someone else introverted and shy. I really want to help others. Because I am too.

    But my situation was the worst in school, and I was able to basically express myself outside.

    Take care of you first.

    You can let go and mentally accommodate others. Sincerity is important. It is necessary to accept each other psychologically.

    If you don't have someone in that place that you deserve to be sincere to her, you can change it. The most important thing is that you have to open your mind to everyone. It would be nice to try a few more times.

    First of all, you don't run away. To be faced. Try to solve the problem head-on. You have to make up your mind and don't hold back anymore. Whether you are a man or a woman, 27 years old should be considered an age of physical and mental maturity. You have to work hard!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You're suffering from neuropathy and you're out playing around.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's normal for you to think of this like a patient

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Eighteen years ago.

    Singing: Wang Biao.

    Lyrics: Luo Wenguang.

    Composer: Luo Wenguang Sun Mu.

    Publisher: Leyue Media.

    Look at your face as if you are in a different world.

    Still flickering with misty flames.

    Who promised me tomorrow.

    Give me the marriage I look forward to.

    Release your hand like a sea of vicissitudes.

    There was an immortal love flashing in his eyes.

    Don't promise me today.

    I just hope to see you again tomorrow.

    That stormy night eighteen years ago.

    Champagne and beer were only half drunk.

    Your body fragrance is permeated in the night.

    In my panic, I sought the depth of your love.

    Release your hand like a sea of vicissitudes.

    There was an immortal love flashing in his eyes.

    Don't promise me today.

    I just hope to see you again tomorrow.

    That stormy night eighteen years ago.

    Champagne and beer were only half drunk.

    Your body fragrance is permeated in the night.

    In my panic, I sought the depth of your love.

    That stormy night eighteen years ago.

    Soul Youth is only half prepaid.

    Your murmur trembles in the rainy night.

    The grievances and grievances disappeared that night.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, you don't have to look down on yourself. There is no need to belittle yourself, who has not had youth. It's just that some of the youth is tortuous, and some of the youth is bland, and you don't have to cater to others for the sake of human feelings, which will only make you moved, disgusted and ashamed!

    Second, you have to set new goals and directions. Even if it is a small goal and a small direction, if there is a goal, there is motivation, and there will be nothing to do. Finally, be yourself and keep your original intention.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Take care of your illness first, you will be fine, don't give up on yourself.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Overcome it slowly, don't look at people's eyes.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Psychological problems are not a big deal.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'm the same as you, can you talk about it?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First of all, family members should have a correct understanding of mental illness, people have all kinds of prejudices against mental illness, in fact, mental illness is just a disease, like other medical and surgical diseases, such patients show abnormal thinking, emotion, and behavior in a sick state, rather than any ideological problems. The difference between mental illness and other physical diseases is that the patient does not know the disease and does not realize that he is sick, so he does not take the initiative to seek medical treatment and refuses, which requires the family to care for the mentally ill patient, respect their personality, and give them emotional and psychological support.

    If there is a mentally ill person in the family, they should go to the psychiatric department for treatment as soon as possible, but some people are reluctant to go to the psychiatric department for a long time because they are young and are hospitalized for fear that it will affect the patient's future life, such as love and employment. Some people think that the mentally ill are obsessed with the devil's way, especially in rural families, burning incense everywhere, praying to God and worshiping Buddha, and as a result, they lose money and money, and miss the best opportunity.

    1. Patients should pay attention to the simple and tidy room setting at home, and there should be no dangerous goods such as knives, ropes, pesticides, etc. In particular, people with depression should be on high alert to avoid accidents. Some patients may injure others or destroy objects under the control of mental symptoms, and guardians should pay attention to self-protection.

    2. In order to develop a good life rhythm for patients, they should set a work and rest time, rest regularly, and get up regularly. After the condition is stabilized, cultural and sports activities can be appropriately increased to mobilize the enthusiasm of the patient. For lonely and lazy patients, they should be urged to participate in simple labor and avoid bed rest all day.

    Since the mentally ill do not admit that they are sick, most patients are reluctant to take medicine and often hide medicine, so it is necessary to urge patients to take medicine to prevent losing medicine, hiding medicine, and adding or subtracting medicine at will. In addition, the medication should not be kept by the patient to avoid overdose or poisoning.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    (1) In order to treat the mentally ill correctly, it is necessary to have a correct understanding of them. Psychosis is a disease like any other disease, but the cause of the disease is not as clear as that of other diseases. Abnormal manifestations of mental illness, such as abnormal behavior, emotion and thinking, are caused by illness, not "ghosts" or ideological problems, and patients are also tormented by illness, and should also be treated by patients, but the general mental patients do not think that they are sick, do not take the initiative to seek medical treatment, or refuse to **, which requires family members to care and love the mentally ill.

    2) Mental patients should be understood and respected Because psychosis is a disorder of brain activity, there are abnormalities in cognition, emotion, will, and behavior. Therefore, it is necessary to see both the side of their pathological mental activity and the side of their normal mental activity. Many of the patient's words, deeds, requirements, and ideas are reasonable, and we should try our best to meet or solve the patient's requirements.

    For patients who have improved or are in the recovery period, it is necessary to be more considerate, respectful and loving for them, and the society and family should provide patients with normal working, study and living conditions, so that they can maintain a good emotional state as much as possible, which is very important for consolidating the curative effect and stabilizing the condition.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think the most important thing is to let normal people live normally, and then if there are conditions, they can take care of the mentally ill, they are not ordinary people, no one can predict their next actions and thoughts, and no one can guarantee that they can hurt the people around them at any time, so send them to a psychiatric hospital. If there are no economic conditions, locking up is also an effective method.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I'm also in this situation, I was slandered by my parents as mentally ill, my whole life was ruined, life is better than death, and I was forced to take medicine for a lifetime, I can't drop one, a very smart person was killed, my mental illness is completely misdiagnosed, I am a normal person, I know in my heart, I am not sick, but they forced me to take medicine for more than ten years, and my mind is not as flexible as before, but I am not mentally ill, I have never done anything harmful to society, my parents are authentic psychosis, they themselves are unwilling to go **, The whole family forced me to die alone, they said that I was comfortable to live, and I was left alone with the pain, so it was better to shut me up with a shot, and I would be free.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Panpan Jewel is also a psychopath. You are typically mentally ill and should sue your father. Your dad is mentally ill.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The cultural level is so good, and I also bring people to write**, excuse me, take people to write**, shouldn't it be the word "generation"? Typos ......The last sentence is a powerful ...... of serious conceit

    Okay, to answer your question, you are obedient to everything, don't say that you are sick, do not say that you are not sick, what to do, what to do, you are concerned, you just find some books to read by yourself, you don't show irritability at all, there is no special reaction at all, it's like nothing happens, when you take medicine, see if the medicine has ***, if there is, you will secretly throw some, no, there is no ...... to eat some

    Be obedient to your parents, be filial, sensible, and learn to take care of people's ......Anyway, don't show mania, rudeness, and conceit ......Don't resist at all, let them think you're good, understand ...... or notThe more you have to prove that you are not a neurotic person, the more others think you are neurotic, so you simply don't say anything and live as a normal person!!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Go to the hospital for a check-up and make a report.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You can file for divorce as long as the woman is not pregnant, within a year after giving birth, or within six months of the termination of pregnancy! The woman has been mentally ill for seven or eight years, and this is a legal breakdown of the marital relationship, of course, whether it breaks down depends on your own marital relationship, and the court will generally support the man's divorce.

    According to the "Several Specific Opinions of the High People's Court on How the People's Court Determines that the Relationship between the Husband and Wife Has Truly Broken Down in the Trial of Divorce Cases".

    When a people's court hears a divorce case, whether or not a divorce is granted or not, the distinction shall be based on whether the relationship between the husband and wife has truly broken down. To determine whether the relationship between husband and wife has truly broken down, a comprehensive analysis shall be made from aspects such as the basis of marriage, postmarital feelings, reasons for divorce, the current state of the relationship between husband and wife, and whether there is a possibility of reconciliation. According to the relevant provisions of the Marriage Law and the practical experience of adjudication, in any of the following circumstances, it shall be deemed that the relationship between husband and wife has truly broken down.

    If one party insists on requesting a divorce, and mediation fails, a judgment may grant the divorce in accordance with the law. 1. One party suffers from a disease that legally prohibits marriage, or one party has a physical defect, or is unable to have sex for other reasons, and it is difficult to **. 2. Lack of understanding before marriage, hasty marriage, and lack of marital relationship after marriage, making it difficult to live together.

    3. Concealing mental illness before marriage and not being cured after marriage, or marrying the other party knowing that the other party is mentally ill before marriage, or one of the spouses suffering from mental illness during the period of living together and not being cured for a long time.

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