How should we face up to what others think of us? As the title suggests, thank you

1. Learn a little dialectics.

The fundamental viewpoint of materialist dialectics is to admit contradictions and to look at problems mainly from a linked, developmental, and comprehensive viewpoint. In the process of growing up, young students should learn to look at problems in a comprehensive way, that is, to use a two-part perspective, to see both this side and the other side. We should also divide ourselves into two, not only to see our own advantages and strengths, not to be arrogant, but also to see our own shortcomings and shortcomings, and not to be blindly proud.

Only by looking at oneself dialectically can we truly grasp oneself.

2. Learn to know yourself correctly.

We must not only understand our own strengths and shortcomings, but also not be overly self-blaming and boasting, but also not self-centered, not to pursue excessive praise, not to arbitrarily echo or blindly follow, and not to be bent by others to please ourselves. People who overestimate themselves often have too high self-esteem, are prone to vanity, and become self-satisfied and self-absorbed. This kind of person often compares his strengths with the weaknesses of others, thinking that he is better than others everywhere, and is unhappy once others surpass him, and then he is jealous.

The happiness of others and his own misfortune will also make him unhappy, so that he will be depressed and grumbling.

On the contrary, people who underestimate themselves often have an inferiority complex, feel that they are not good at everything, blindly self-deprecating and evading and withdrawing. Feeling too short, fat or too thin physically, doubting one's health and feeling depressed; There is no enterprising heart in learning, and he is willing to live in the middle and downstream; In interpersonal communication, he always looks ashamed, shy, cowering, and inferior. This kind of person is very sensitive to the reaction of the outside world, and the slightest setback will cause discouragement, and even have thoughts of misanthropy and suicide, and the final result is unimaginable.

3. Learn to treat grades correctly.

Humility benefits, full of losses". When we make some achievements in our studies and work, we should not only affirm the efforts we have made, but also see the cultivation of the party and the Youth League, the teaching of teachers, the care and support of parents, and the help of our classmates, so that we will not be in a state of blindness and self-righteousness. It is best to review and summarize your current achievements and the reasons for receiving honors, and draw the right conclusions about how to do it in the future.

As the saying goes, a hard work, a harvest, the current glory must be because you have paid a lot of time, energy and sweat to get. Were you intoxicated at that time? Correspondingly, if you indulge in glory now, you will no longer be brilliant in the future; Only by continuing to work hard as before will it be possible to usher in new glories.

Think less about yourself. It's useless to think too much.

Self-esteem, self-love, self-reliance, self-confidence and self-improvement.

Everyone has shortcomings and strengths, to face their own shortcomings and strengths correctly, this is not a rare thing, but a very common thing, we are not perfect, because imperfection has made us, there is no in the world, there are no exactly the same two leaves, only two similar leaves, really look at yourself correctly, is to do your own thing, do your own things, maintain objectivity and rationality to evaluate things and treat things, do not follow the clouds, to have their own correct judgment and thinking ability.

Look at yourself correctly, understand your abilities and needs, and take every step steadily.

Looking at yourself correctly is easy to say, but it's not easy to actually do. Once a person has some achievements, it is inevitable that he will his tail, and if he makes some mistakes, it is easy to fall into the bitter sea of inferiority. To see yourself correctly, you must correctly evaluate your achievements and strengths.

A person can achieve something, must have their own unique ability, but ability is one thing, opportunities are also very important, subjective factors and objective opportunities exist at the same time, to create the current achievements, so we must not simply emphasize their subjective ability, forget others and society, create conditions for you, must be modest and cautious, honest and diligent, otherwise, success sooner or later throw away your piece of [material]. To look at ourselves correctly, we must correctly evaluate our own shortcomings and shortcomings. There are shortcomings and deficiencies in a person, and even mistakes, which is not to be feared, but what is terrible is that they are completely unaware of or turn a blind eye to this, and some people formally do not pay attention to these small things, and eventually cause big mistakes.

If you look at yourself correctly, you must also find your own position, and some people may not be so convinced by this, and they don't even know what to do? Yes, of course, people who understand account for the majority, but [confused worms] are not uncommon, and there are people who pretend to be confused with understanding, and some people are successful and have some achievements, but it is easy to be confused. To look at yourself correctly, you must always pay attention to yourself and respect yourself.

The so-called self-respect is nothing more than self-restraint and self-cherishment, in other words, not to spoil oneself. There is nothing upright about a person who does not value his own name, but only those despicable villains who are morally defeated do not attach importance to being spurned by people. Learn to look at yourself correctly, in order to correctly analyze your own strengths and weaknesses, find your own position, and the position that suits you.

This question is a good question, but it is not easy to answer, people should indeed look at themselves correctly, give themselves a reasonable positioning, behave and do the same, and have to consider from many aspects. Think more from someone else's point of view ...

Divide things into two, we must see both the good side and the bad side, no one is perfect, and strive to improve ourselves!

Just look at yourself from the positive and stupid.

Hehe: Of course you have to look at yourself rationally.

Only after experiencing it will you understand which one of the things you have done is right, which one is wrong or not enough, and the person who can correctly look at his past must be a successful person, and a successful person is not necessarily empty of any big deeds.