I met a male friend, but I like him, but what if he s in debt?

There are two reasons to be in debt: good reasons and bad reasons.

Good reasons such as starting a business, encountering accidents or changes, need to spend money, and the amount is too large, resulting in debt, which is often impossible and inevitable.

Bad reasons such as liking to spend money, like gambling, or lazy to eat, or like to do something unreliable, this is often avoidable, which shows that people have problems, do not know how to control themselves, and increase the brain's ability to think.

Therefore, if it is a bad cause, it is resolutely necessary to stay away, unless he can change it, but most of them cannot be changed all at once.

If it's a good reason, as long as people are willing to work hard, they can actually face it together, and for some people, they are more grateful for helping him when he is in debt!

In addition, in this case, you must be psychologically prepared, in addition, the key is to look at the person, to be practical, hardworking and reliable!

If he can afford to pay it back, that's not a problem. If you are willing to be desperate, this is not a problem, but women, you should be mature, realistic, some people and things you like, you just can't touch them, and you will regret them for life. If you can't help financially, I advise you to forget it, poor couples mourn everything, not to mention being in debt.

For the situation you said, as well as the problem of your male friend being in debt, it does have a big impact on you, if you are really entangled, it is better to think clearly, after all, economic problems are also a big problem, which is the foundation of love.

If you like his appearance, it's better to be realistic.

You're thinking too much.

Since it's not you that she likes.

The person you want to introduce.

There are also already goals.

You're going to have to talk to the girls.

No, why did he spend so much money, he spent it himself, I have to bear it for him, I'm just his girlfriend, I still have my own life.

Personally, I think if I loved my boyfriend very, very much, I would have stayed with him if he had suddenly been in debt.

If I really love my boyfriend, I will take on this debt with him. But if I had been disappointed in him, I wouldn't have been with him.

If my boyfriend suddenly goes into debt, I will figure out why he is in debt, if it is because of a failed career, I will choose to stay with him and take care of him, if he is in debt because of gambling or something, I will choose to leave him, because gambling boys cannot be relied on.

I don't want my boyfriend because he doesn't have money or debts, and for me, the reason for breaking up is either that I don't love him anymore, or that I don't get along with my habits.

In my own opinion, I think if my boyfriend suddenly goes into debt, I will continue to be with him, because I don't think these are important things, money is something outside of the body.

I think my boyfriend will definitely continue to be with him when he is suddenly in debt, after all, his conditions are still okay when you are with him, and you like it. And then he just went into debt all of a sudden, and I felt like I was gritting my teeth on the path I chose.

As a wife, she said she had to step up and take responsibility with her husband. Many girls feel that if they love someone, they must love everything about him, especially when they meet such a man with hard injuries, they will be inexplicably stimulated to protective, and feel that only they can save him. This is the typical Virgin Heart, the adult world is not a fairy tale, in the modern society where the pressure is already so great, everyone has the right to live a little easier.

I think if my boyfriend is in debt, if I really like it, I will definitely continue to be with him and face these hardships with him.

I love my boyfriend so much that I choose to stay with him even though he is in debt, because love is about having two people take responsibility together.

If he can cheer himself up and not be decadent, I am willing to continue to be with him.

You can get to know him first, start with his hobbies, and then communicate with him more, or you can directly invite him to dinner or something, the most important thing is that you have to interact with him, or you are dreaming, and then you understand his habits, from time to time reveal that you care about him very much, and want to be with him, after all, women chase men, and one day they will definitely catch up.

The only obstacle between you is his parents, who have made your opinion very clear about what they say, and you can make a change.

But whether they can reverse their first impression of you is not certain.

You need to be reserved, even if it's pretending. Speak quietly, don't exaggerate when you talk and laugh, don't show your clothes, don't be too fancy, just be decent.

The rest, in fact, the main thing is your boyfriend's thoughts. If you get him done, he'll get his parents done for you.

Let him say good things about you in front of his parents. And you go to his house more often, pat your parents' ass, help them do something, do more and talk less. You know how virtuous and virtuous you are.

The two of you belong to the kind of person who complements each other in personality and family life, and you are attracted to each other because of curiosity. You are more open-minded, and he doesn't like to talk much, so there must be a difference in family education. It is reasonable that the boy's parents can't accept you for a while, and the parents must be reasonable, as long as you stick to it and let them see your sincerity and know that you are not a random girl, they will agree to you being together.

You love each other with all your hearts.

Don't care what people say.

As long as your heart is real.

Go for it.

Lovers eventually become married.

You love her very much, you work hard with him, this is a good girl, she knows that she is in debt and doesn't want to affect you, so she seizes the opportunity.

Your loved one is in debt, why does she owe so much debt, you must figure it out, and do you have the ability to help her repay the debt, if you can't do it, stop it, it's not that you can't find a partner, why do you have to get a big burden on your back, tired or not?

It's very realistic. After all, life is cruel. It is true that love cannot be eaten, but it can be used as the motivation for our lives.

If you love her very much, then learn to bear it with her, and feel that she loves you a lot, and you can think about it again.

If you have this ability and this energy, you should be brave. If you can't take it, it's better to retreat in the face of difficulties.

It is difficult to be compatible with the three different views.

The important thing is that you can give her help within your ability.

can accompany her through this low point of life.

She said she didn't want to delay you.

Although I don't know if I think so in my heart.

But if you will.

I can accompany her for a while as much as I can.

If it's a good fit, congratulations.

If it's really not suitable for this journey.

Then I wish each other more happiness.

Love can't be eaten. Bless each other.

Play silly and try to keep your original distance.

Hehe, if he is good in all aspects, then you agree, after all, he is so good to you.

Explain and explain, don't let him sink deeper, otherwise what will you do in the end?

Looking at what you said, there are many possibilities if you have explained that the other party still thinks so: 1. The other party is more narcissistic and thinks that your explanation is a cover-up. 2. There may be ambiguities between you.

3. The other party likes you, but has no self-confidence, is stubborn and secret, and does not accept reality. 4. The other party may lack love and want someone to like him.

Summary suggestions: 1. Find an object. 2. Keep an appropriate distance. 3. Cold treatment. 4. The best way to deal with both parties is to make it clear face-to-face, and you must be calm and rational, but it may be a little embarrassing.

So what do you really think? Like him?

Explain it clearly, otherwise your friends won't be able to do it.

Love triangle, though, if you don't like the guy, keep your distance from him. If you like another guy, you go for it, and I bless you.

Like and loving are two completely different feelings that come from self.

If love is compared to clear water, then love is like warm sunshine, which can always illuminate people. Like is the joy at first sight, but love is a long time to never get tired, truly love someone will never feel tired. As the loved party, we should know whether the other person really loves us, and as the lover, we should also cast our own 100% love.

You like him, he doesn't like you, that's his business. He can't be the only one you like in your life. People who like you and you also like will appear dripping.

It's normal for you to like a guy and like someone