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social progress, and people are becoming more and more irresponsible. There are too many people who get married in flash, and women are no longer men's belongings.

I think it has a lot to do with the change in people's minds now.

I think it's because of personal perceptions. After all, the current era is different from the previous era of parents' orders and matchmakers' words, so it is more common for two people to live a life that feels inappropriate, divorce when they say divorce, and break up when they say they break up. It may also be that everyone is more educated now, so they pay more attention to their own feelings and will not wronged themselves for the eyes of others.

The previous marriages were all about getting married first and then falling in love. It may be that there is no love for two people, or that when they get married, it may be the first time that two people meet, and they don't know each other enough, it may be a commanding marriage. Therefore, I think this kind of marriage has a certain purpose, so when you divorce, you should consider whether others will gossip about something.

And none of the people around are divorced. Especially in the traditional concept of the older generation, if you get married, you must live with this person for the rest of your life, and it is impossible to say that there is another person in the middle, or that you don't want him to be in this situation. Unless you are widowed, you can live alone, and you can't find a new partner after losing your spouse, otherwise others will think you are unfaithful.

Therefore, if the older generation wants to divorce, they still have a lot of concerns.

Nowadays, there are more only children, so they care more about their own thoughts. After all, if you have wronged yourself for a lifetime, it is better to cut off contact with the other party directly. It's not that the current relationship is not as good as in the past, but that there is more room for emotional choices now, so I think this is the progress of thinking.

After all, if it's really inappropriate, if they make do with each other, both of them will feel very uncomfortable.

Moreover, freedom of thought is also an inevitable consequence of social development. After all, life is not easy now, if you still make yourself very uncomfortable in terms of your partner, it is better to separate, and both people choose a life that is more suitable for them, which is the best result.

It is that people nowadays rarely maintain their feelings and consolidate their feelings, and love in the era of fast food comes and goes quickly.

Because the concept of the times is different, people today will not be as improvisable as before.

The new generation of young people and the older generation have a very different view of marriage, the older generation is looking for someone to live well for a lifetime, the kind that can make up a family, appearance or money or something is put in the second place. The new generation wants a car, a house, and a high-quality life, and their concepts are different.

Because modern people's views on feelings are different from those of the older generation, modern people are more self-conscious.

The main thing is that people's minds have changed.

In the past, people's thinking was more feudal and conservative, and most of the marriages were based on the instructions of their parents, and whether a couple divorced later determined the reputation of the two families. Because at that time, it was a minority who divorced, and if they left, they could only be blamed by people. Now, the economic boom has led to a shift in people's minds, and people's minds are no longer the same as before, but open and inclusive.

There are many reasons for the high divorce rate today, and in my opinion, the following are the following:

The first point: In some rural areas or relatively remote places, the age of marriage is generally young. If you are a little older but not married, you may be labeled as "no", "immature", and "unqualified", and others will constantly point fingers behind your back.

The other half of the marriage is also seen through the rural "look at the object", the contact time is short, the emotional foundation is poor, they get married early, and after getting married, they find that they know too little about each other, and the trivial things in life are easy to make them have the idea of divorce. Almost no life experience makes them regard divorce as a quick knife to solve the problem, but as everyone knows, some problems are actually not enough to use a knife and a gun, and a little anti-inflammatory plaster can be solved.

Second: Don't you need a material basis to get married? In fact, this question is really difficult, when you say you need it, others will say "you are too materialistic, you know the money" and say that you don't need it, and some people will say "are you stupid, what does he want, what does he have, you are still married to him, wait to drink the northwest wind".

Self-made marriages, there are still few, the general marriage is the parents of both parties, how much to take care of, "no money, get some for you, buy more for the children, delicious, fun" This is a portrayal of most people in the early days of marriage, young people want to save face, all say "no need, the family has money" The pressure of slow life makes them quarrel because of some trivial things, and slowly get tired of each other, leading to the road of divorce.

Nowadays, most young people live under great pressure, that is, they have no money and do not have a good material foundation, which leads to a high divorce rate.

Most of the current relationships are fast-food love, and they are not fully prepared before getting married, and now people have a stronger sense of freshness and more realistic, which is not easy to satisfy, and is easy to be impulsive, not as stable as the older generation.

Because people nowadays are reluctant to settle on marriage and have their own ideas and pursuits, the divorce rate is particularly high.

Because at that time they did not pay attention to some ideological unity, and most parents were together for the sake of their children, now people pay more attention to themselves.

No matter how powerful a person is, he can't resist the torrent of the times, and we live in the times, and we will be coerced forward, take divorce as an example, in our parents of the previous generation, after everyone gets married and has children, there will rarely be divorce. Nowadays, not only is the divorce rate high, but even many young people are reluctant to get married and prefer to live alone, believing that this lifestyle will make them easy and comfortable. <>

This also shows once again that today's young people have begun to change dramatically about the phenomenon of marriage, no longer thinking that marriage is a kind of protection for everyone, and that both parties form a small family to resist the risks in life together. Today's young people prefer to talk about the comfort of life and the freedom of individual human rights, they don't want to be bound by the traditional ideas in marriage, so as to do something they don't want to do, which also violates the original principle of their own life plan, as an independent individual, they just want to enjoy their life in this world, not for anyone to live. <>

So why has this thinking changed dramatically in just a few decades? Mainly due to the fact that, on the one hand, the rapid economic level, after the so-called food and clothing, we have more ideological awareness, we are no longer just about food and clothing, but I pursue the enjoyment of personal freedom and the breadth and depth of thought. <>

On the other hand, the Internet has entered everyone's life, making the speed of information spread between people very fast. There are no more unknown things under the sun, as long as they are transmitted to the Internet, they can be spread all over the streets and alleys immediately, so those independent individuals, their individual thoughts will instantly spread all over the network, and attract a large number of people of the same kind as themselves, forming a small collective. And the ideas of these small groups can be infinitely expanded, thus pushing more people with personality to try a variety of different lifestyles.

First, today's young people are more frivolous and do not pay as much attention to marriage as the older generation before. I feel that I don't have the concept of home, even if I marry a man, I always think that it is my own home. No matter what you do, you feel like you're giving too much.

I also think that I work for the man, and I only see that I pay too much, but I can't see how much the other party has paid. Second, today's young people love to compare, and the gap between the rich and the poor in the family is relatively large, and some can't stand the family conditions, so they are picky about the man in every way, and choose to divorce when they encounter good material conditions.

The reason why there are more divorced people now, in addition to not wanting to continue to make do with it, the gradual increase in mental pressure is also a very important reason, which eventually leads to people wanting to change their living environment through divorce.

Because the people of my parents' generation, they are very traditional and care about other people's opinions, and they will not get divorced easily, but now everyone can see it, since it is not suitable, then don't be together, plus some people get married impulsively, which leads to more and more wrong marriages.