Make an appointment to eat every day, but always ask me to advance money, do such friends want to co

First of all, you can ask such a question, which shows that you don't agree with this kind of practice in the first place, but in fact, you already have the answer in your heart. But you are worried that you will lose such a person who may help you in the future, or that he himself is kind to you, so you are a little hesitant whether to continue like this, or tear your face, and return to the bridge and return to the road from now on. This situation can be described by a proverb - reluctant children can't trap wolves.

Having such concerns can only mean that you are a person who has no principles or no bottom line. Either you will be generous and invite him to eat, or you will directly tell him that there is no money to advance, so we either don't eat or let the other party pay for it. If you don't have the possibility of having no money to advance, then it is estimated that your friend also knows that you have money, then every time he looks for you, he will treat you as a wronged person, such a friend does not want, if it is in the way of face, then resign and do not go to the appointment.

It's also possible that your friend's practice is just a habit. I used to know a bunch of people, one of them was a game arcade, a little richer than the others, every time they got together, they ate and drank, and then they had a meal of nonsense, and after paying for the game hall, everyone went home happy. After a long time, it seems to be a habit, I think that friends who open a game hall should pay, and occasionally others will pay, but they all take the opening of the game hall behind their backs.

In any kind of relationship, if one party keeps giving and the other party keeps taking, then the relationship will break up sooner or later. In the case of the guy I knew who owned the arcade, he ended up losing his business and moving. Those so-called friends who used to eat, drink and have fun with him gradually stopped contacting him, and even when he was very difficult, these so-called friends who used to eat and drink him hid farther away than one another, and such friends should not come and go as soon as possible.

Don't, decisively give up, people who take the money and don't pay it back are really bad, and there is no need to continue to be friends with this kind of person.

You can't continue to do it, such friends are just taking advantage of you, taking advantage of you, not really good friends.

I don't think there's any need to continue. No one's money is blown by the wind.

You can refuse not to go, friends can do it, just keep your distance.

I rubbed your food like this every day, and I didn't say that I would take money once, I obviously wanted to use you and treat you as an ATM, so don't contact you.

Tell him that the money is all over and there is no money to eat. Let him lend you some money for food, and see if he will ask you back in the future?

In the future, you can refuse to eat with him, and don't be embarrassed. There's nothing to be embarrassed about with such a person, your concession will only make him gain an inch.

This is what kind of friend is bai, it's like someone's house.

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