What do you think is the most effective way to educate parents?

When I see this question of the subject, I will think of my parents' education for me, and a few things will flash into my mind in an instant.

1. Routine neutrality rules. When I was a child, every time I ate, my parents would say that when eating, I couldn't turn the chopsticks around on the plate, and when the food was not in my mouth, I didn't open my mouth, and I couldn't use the chopsticks to knock on the bowl or plate; When pouring water for someone, don't use the spout to face the person; When you see your elders, you should take the initiative to say hello ......Now that I think about it, although there are many rules and regulations, it has laid the foundation for "courtesy" for me to get along with others in the future.

2. Cultivate morality in labor. Because when I was young, I was catching up with the delivery to the household, in order to make the family live a better life, my parents often went out early and returned late, and there were no grandparents at home to help take care of them. My parents arranged for my brother and I to help boil water, make shabu-shabu, wash dishes, sweep the floor, feed the chickens and pigs.

Maybe they had to do it at that time, but they made us develop the habit of hard work and frugality. "Laziness is the root of all evil", countless facts have proved that there are few people who are lazy and do not go astray.

3. Be reasonable in life. I remember one time when we were steaming steamed buns at home, my brother and I helped my mother to light the fire, and in order to make the fire more prosperous, we kept putting corn cobs into the stove and stacking them neatly, and the smoke in the kitchen became bigger and bigger. After my mother found out, she took out some firewood from the stove, but the fire became more vigorous, and then my mother said a sentence that I will never forget, "Be a real person, burn the fire to be virtual", both to be honest and honest, to burn the fire to be empty.

Fourth, the ideal in the parable. Once, my parents asked me what my brother and I wanted to do when we grew up. When I said I wanted to be a soldier, they encouraged me and said, "A good man should be ambitious."

You see those chicks and eaglets are birds, but when the chicks grow up, they will only run around the yard, while the eaglets can fly in the sky and see farther when they grow up. When I grew up, I became a soldier, took the exam, and became a "little eagle" in the eyes of my parents.

Parents do not need advanced theories or deliberate skills in the education of their children, but they need to water them bit by bit in ordinary life, so as to moisturize things silently.

Parents should lead by example, such as telling children not to play with their mobile phones, and parents should never leave their hands. Parents accompany children when they do homework, don't look at mobile phones or TV, and find some idle books to read.

In fact, the most profound influence of parents on their children's education is to teach by word and deed. Parents' behavior is the best tool for educating their children, and it is also the most influential for children.

I think encouragement is the most effective. If parents are very encouraging about their child, then the child will be very confident and will make great progress. But if parents often discourage their children, it can make them very inferior, and it can also make them very rebellious.

So I think encouragement is the most effective.

In the process of home education, parents are prone to the following problems:

1. Biased belief books, biased belief theories, and biased belief experts do not pay attention to teaching in combination with the actual situation of their own children

Many parents are first-time parents and have little experience in education, but the degree of attention is sufficient. I read a lot of books, learned a lot of theories, and listened to a lot of lectures by experts. He is convinced of the theories, experiences, and guidance of experts in books, and copies them, and does not pay attention to the actual situation of his or her own children.

In fact, each child is unique, personality, habits, learning progress, emotional dependence, etc., are different, while learning from the experience of others, we should combine the actual situation of our own children, and pay more attention to observing our children's acceptance of education. Adjustments to training and education methods are made at any time.

Second, extreme free-range, just eat and drink without teaching, children's education depends on school and free growth

Other parents are at the other extreme, their children don't care about eating and drinking, and they always feel that education is a matter of school, and they will know the truth when they grow up.

In fact, this is also an incorrect method of education. Parents are the first teachers of their children, and their words and deeds are very important, and it is irresponsible for children to push all their children's education to the school.

The correct method should be to focus on family education before entering school, and take the initiative to cooperate with the school to carry out various ideological, moral, intellectual and other education after enrollment. Cooperation is not to supervise and monitor at all times, but to understand and assist appropriately.

3. In a hurry, I always feel that my child is a genius and over-educates before the operation

Another method of clearly over-educating is to rush ahead of time. Many parents are overwhelmed by the anxieties sold by various training and educational institutions, and at the same time feel that they are born smart and a genius. Enroll your children in various training and education classes as early as possible, and there is a posture of pulling out seedlings to help them.

Excessive advanced education is not advocated by the state at present, and the double reduction and the governance of training institutions are clear signals.

Children's happy and healthy growth needs the common care and attention of family, school and society.

Parents are prone to scolding and scolding, and then there will be spoiling of children, which has a great impact on children's development and growth, and there will be forcing children to do some things, which will stifle children's nature.

Parents are prone to quarrels, cold violence, disagreements, disputes, and deviations in education.

Many parents will educate their children regardless of the occasion or time when they have children, for example, they will educate their children when they eat, or when they are more emotional and happy, they will educate their children, and they will often compare their own children with other people's children.

It is easy to spoil the child excessively, or it is easy to be excessively strict with the child, there is no way to communicate well with the child, there is no way to understand the child's mood, it is easy to cause some misunderstandings, and it is easy to cause some misunderstandings.

1. Parents have high expectations.

Every parent has the expectation that their son will become a dragon and their daughter will become a phoenix, and they all hope that their children can become excellent, which is normal. However, many parents will show great blindness when actually educating their children, do not consider the actual situation of their children, and put forward excessive requirements for their children. This will not only take a toll on the child's interest, but will also waste a lot of financial resources and energy, resulting in the opposite result of the parent's expectations.

2. The educational content is one-sided.

When parents educate their children, they often only pay attention to their children's learning, and even make their children's education and learning equal, thus ignoring the cultivation of children's morality, character, and interests. In fact, the cultivation of non-intellectual factors often has an important impact on a person's success, and excessive attention to intelligence will only affect the overall development of children, and even personality defects.

3. Improper education methods.

Every parent becomes a parent after the birth of a child, and often lacks experience in educating children, so there are deficiencies in educational methods and it is easy to adopt wrong educational methods. Wrong educational methods can have a serious impact on children, leading to all kinds of problems and even extreme behaviors.

4. Indifferent parent-child relationship.

Modern life is stressful, especially for families with children. Many parents usually need to go to work and have no time to take care of their children, which leads to an indifferent parent-child relationship. If children lack the care and communication of their parents for a long time, they are prone to negative emotions such as distrust and hatred towards their parents, and thus become unfilial.

In homeschooling, it's easy for parents not to think about their children's true thoughts. It's up to your own ideas to determine the path your child should take. In fact, this is also wrong, no matter what, children can also have their own ideas, and should listen to children's opinions and suggestions.

It can be said that family education is very important, and good family education can make children form a good character. But parents must be careful that they cannot command their children in the voice of their parents. Rather, it is to follow the tone of mind to consult with them.

It is easy for parents to impose their own wishes on their children, and do not pay attention to listening to their children's inner voice, and often make decisions for their children.

I can't come up with a concrete solution to the situation of a person who is lacking relatives and is late. But in most cases, there are a few ways you can try to deal with it.

First and foremost, parents should do their best to maintain close communication with their children. In the process of children's growth, family education and parent-child relationship play a very important role, parents can better understand their children's thoughts and thoughts through communication with their children, help children correctly understand problems, and develop good thinking habits and behavioral habits.

Secondly, parents need to give the right guidance and encouragement at all stages of their child's development. Children of different ages need different educational styles and methods, and parents should make appropriate adjustments according to the situation.

Finally, parents need to reflect on their own education methods and methods in a timely manner, and appropriately stop and correct their children's inappropriate behaviors without hurting their children's self-esteem.

In general, the education of parents plays a vital role in the development of children, but children's behaviors and attitudes can also be influenced by external factors such as environment, education, society, etc., so they cannot be completely attributed to parental education.

My parents will indeed give me the right education, and use the correct education method to communicate with me easily, so that we can feel respected, and we can better understand the education of our parents, so this kind of education is more correct, and we can also get a good growth.

Therefore, as a parent, it is important to have an appropriate way to talk and educate your children.

1.Communicate with humility and honesty.

Modesty and honesty in the process of communication is very important, to be humble and courteous, honesty is an important point for you to deepen your understanding and cooperative relationship through communication, first of all, you can make the other party believe in yourself through your own honesty, and then drive the other party to communicate with each other frankly, and then promote smooth and happy communication.

2.Listen when you talk.

Listening is also a point to pay attention to in communication, when talking to others, we must fully consider the feelings of others, but also listen to the content expressed by the other party, so as to better communicate in language, otherwise the communication will not achieve smooth results at all.

3.Keep your communication concise and to the point.

When expressing opinions and content, it should be concise and to the point, concise and effective narrative can better complete smooth communication, which is the performance of communication ability, and accurate expression can make communication more efficient and smoother.

4.Learn humor in communication.

Humor can shorten the efficiency of communication with others, but also to resolve a lot of bad situations, when the communication between each other has a misunderstanding of deviations, humor can change the atmosphere of unsmooth communication, is an ability that no one must master to communicate.

5.Pay more attention to praise in communication.

Praise others more can show that you are approachable, praise the good qualities of others, gain the respect of others, and at the same time allow yourself to gain friendship and respect.

6.Communication should focus on clear statements.

No matter what the problem is, be sure to fully explain it to the other party, even if it is an ordinary content expression, you must inform the other party of your own considerations and ideas, and get the understanding and support of the other party, which is a good help for smooth and pleasant communication.

Hello! According to the description of your problem, what are the parenting methods that are worth advocating, 1. Set an example. The child's ability to imitate is super strong.

According to incomplete statistics, generally during primary school, fathers are mostly idols of their children, and in the eyes of children, they are a symbol of "omnipotence". It is undoubtedly the most scientific and correct to grasp the specific period of the child and set an example. The power of role models is endless, and parents should make full use of the power of role models to guide their children in the first journey of life and establish a correct outlook on life and values.

Use more communication and less commands.

Second, use more communication and less commands. No one likes to be ordered by others, it's human nature, deep in the bone marrow, even children. Respect is mutual, don't just order your child to do anything just because you're a parent.

Maybe your child will do what you tell you to do, but most of them are disgusted. Parents can try to change. When some parents see their children playing, they often say, "When is it, don't go to do your homework soon."

If you say something like, "When it's time, isn't it time for you to do your homework?" I believe that the latter should be better expressed. Use more guidance and less reprimand.

The first step is to establish a harmonious parent-child relationship. Know how to praise and criticize children, and pay attention to methods when communicating with children. Pay attention to children's moral education, cultivate children's love and sense of responsibility.

Pay attention to children's intellectual education, cultivate children's intelligence, and cultivate children's good habits and character. Help children with sports, aesthetic education and labor education.

1. Be strict and benevolent. Too strict family education, will make the child breathless, has been in a tight state, careful work, the shackles of thought are too heavy, the mind can not fly freely, do things shrinking, some children will also be afraid of being trained, and timid, often in the past will be inferior, children's thoughts are imprisoned, naturally there is no development prospects. Too loving home education will lead children to be overindulgent and willful, like an unmowed lawn, overgrown with weeds and without any beauty, so anything beautiful needs to be taken care of and polished.

Family education should be strict and benevolent, and moderate education methods can allow children to get a good space for discovery.

2. Scientific and reasonable. Parents can read some educational books, understand some educational knowledge, to know how to educate their children correctly, education should follow the timeliness, do not let children get in touch with advanced education too early, for example, your child should not give him too heavy primary school knowledge tasks every day when he goes to kindergarten. Education too early will make children lose the joy of learning, and children of different ages have different receptive abilities, which also has a great impact.

It is recommended to read Professor Wang Qiang's education book series.

3. Be clear about your purpose. Family education should focus on cultivating children's good living habits. Some parents like to compare their children with other people's children when chatting with friends and colleagues, and watch other people's children play the piano well, cheering again and again, it is easy to send their children to the Children's Palace to learn piano, similar incidents occur several times, the child's time will be occupied by a variety of tutoring classes, the child is very tired, and the parents are under great pressure.

Therefore, when educating children, we must clarify the purpose of family education, develop according to the plan, and do not blindly follow the trend.