I just fell out of love and all my thoughts are lost, what should I do?

Face it, accept it, let it go.

It's good to know that this is a painful process, maybe you start to feel sad and want to cry and can't cry, and then you can cry and cry happily. Then take care of those around you who need help, or go to volunteer and experience joy in helping others. Don't let yourself be trapped in your own caution all the time.

After all, there is not only love in life, after all, there must be more than one person in life.

Looking back later, it really wasn't that much. But you've grown. Growing up comes with labor pains. This is life, a life that matures step by step.

When you can come out, objectively analyze this relationship and summarize it. Always have an account for yourself.

And then I turned the page.

Only when you come out on your own will you really grow, and you can't grow by using another relationship to alleviate the pain of a previous lovelorn.

First of all, congratulations, you have grown again.

Actually, you shouldn't be discouraged. Apathy? Want to die?

Who has a smooth road to love?

If you're a little frustrated, that's how you are.

I don't know if you're a man or a woman, maybe it's a bit heavy.

But that's just the way it is.

If they leave you, they don't know how to cherish you.

Don't punish yourself for someone else's fault.

If 2 people break up, there is no right or wrong. Just love and not love.

As long as there is love, no matter how tired you are, you can persevere.

Don't be discouraged.

Perk up the dots. Not for anyone else. For your own sake.

Cheer up, too.

Be strong. If you don't hurt yourself, who do you expect to hurt you?

Without further ado, think for yourself.

Time will make you forget everything, and it is very difficult at first, so try to divert your attention, go out and walk more, play with friends, and do everything you want.

If you have enough money, go out for a trip and relax. If you don't have a lot of money, then buy something delicious to take care of yourself and be kind to yourself! Hope you have fun every day!

The old doesn't go, the new doesn't come, it's always best not to get it, and when you get it, you find that you've lost the whole deep forest. Distract yourself and take a run to relieve some stress.

I've been through it too, but it's useless if you want to, it's good to have a long time, you have to remember that just because you're uncomfortable doesn't mean that people are uncomfortable, it's not that you can't forget, it's that you don't want to forget.

Be yourself Now social love is just talking about it It's too little, I loved it so much earlier, and it's nothing to think about it later, I hope you can listen to it.

Go on a trip. Look at the world out there. Giving up is also a kind of start.

I've fallen out of love with the same guy twice, and the second time was just a few days ago, and it's the kind of love I love, and I'm not alive and well yet, so you're a piece of, and you're going to show yourself.

What you hug doesn't necessarily always hug you You've asked yourself countless times What you want to give up It's all here in front of you "About I Love You" to listen to.

Believing that everything in life is good or bad has a meaning in its happening, try to think about what it will bring you after it happens, although I know that it is difficult to deal with emotional pain and regret guessers rationally, but sometimes it is precisely rational analysis that will make you understand a lot. It's also a good choice to vent and confide in a timely and moderate manner, don't be discouraged by this, believe me, sometimes it's better to get and lose than to get nothing, even if it's your own wishful thinking, but you do experience a series of emotional fluctuations, which is more meaningful than not going through Bishu, some things now seem to be a hurdle that can't be passed, and it will be nothing when you look back later, so, come on, go and see more of the other good things in life (although it is not easy to do so)

Those who are bold can die, those who are bold can generally chase it back, and those who are so timid that they dare not try, wash and sleep.

Don't be discouraged, just find another one.

Both parties are calm and calm, believing that true love will not give up easily, but there is a small misunderstanding or contradiction between you.

If you fall out of love, it means that you and he (her) are not very compatible, take this time as a lesson, and find someone who suits you in the future. Repick your purpose and don't give up the whole world because of one person.

It's just an episode in your life, and the person who accompanied you until the end hasn't shown up yet.

If you want to open it, there is no grass at the end of the world.

When the relationship comes to an end and breaks up, will you be in pain, or will you want to find death or life, or ......If you really do this, then please hear: it's just a breakup, don't exaggerate the loneliness.

"Inscription" people's feelings have come to an end, if when love comes to an end, you have to face a breakup, presumably you are really inappropriate, then shouldn't you let yourself accept it calmly? Too much dwelling will only make you stay in the past forever and will only make it more sad for both of you. Remember, you will always have your own happiness, and he can have (her) and his (her) world.

Why don't you let love a way to live, let yourself go a way to live. No one can live without him, and time does not stop for anyone. What we want is our own tomorrow, love love must be loved, and we must let go.

In addition, after losing love, please don't lose your confidence, don't cry in front of him or her, crying will only devalue your own value. Don't tell him or her when he/she is sick or in trouble, because he or she can no longer give you care and attention. The most I can do for you is sympathy and pity, and that's not what you want.

Remember to be proud, you have to have your pride, have the courage to stand up, let yourself work hard, don't feel that you have lost something, let him (her) feel that you have lost you.

The outcome of love is important to us, but its process is even more important. Because we will be happy when the result is good, but the bad result will make us more mature, and it has two sides. According to the relevant data:

90 out of 100 couples who fall in love with college students will eventually break up, and half of those who end up getting married will get divorced. Do you still feel like you're the unluckiest person in the world when you break up? Breaking up will make us experience the pain of falling out of love, but it is also a process of enriching life, just as human life must die in the end, we can't say that life has no meaning, and we can do it calmly to look at these is a kind of meaning, these processes make our lives more fulfilling.

It's not terrible to fall out of love, it's terrible to not be able to get out of the shadow of falling out of love. If you want to get rid of the effects of falling out of love as soon as possible, it is recommended that you first shift your attention to other places, such as fitness, running, and studying, and it is always yourself who can save yourself. 29 years old is a person's ** age, don't be afraid, breaking up may be two people with inappropriate personalities, you have to believe that there is always a suitable person waiting for you. Come on!

You are still very young, you can slowly find a common language, marriage is the arrangement of fate, falling out of love is human nature, a little forget, don't always remember to live in the life will be more tired, chat with friends, put into work, communicate with friends more, you will definitely find friends who are so emotional.

Don't deny the possibility of happiness in the future because of the loss of love at this time. Cherish every relationship, even if we don't get it in the end, we have grown in it. Meeting friends when we get angry, getting a new haircut, changing into new clothes, watching a nice movie, etc., will make us discover that life is so delicate.

You just went from a happy state to the normal life of most people, and there is no need to mourn.

Most people are lonely, hoping to be understood but no one understands, entertaining themselves, satisfying themselves, and comforting themselves.

The world is big, there are many unknowns, and feelings are just one of them.

Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower, what you lose means that it does not belong to you, in this case, why be sad for something that does not belong to you? The world is so big, if you have time, you can go out and walk more, everything is possible in a lifetime, so why should you be depressed because of a failed relationship? As long as you work hard to enrich yourself and make yourself good enough, will you still be afraid that you won't find a girlfriend?

Hehe, you're so decadent, you should feel lucky, what if this person marries and divorces you, isn't that even worse?

In fact, feelings are like this, it's good to get together and disperse! Sometimes true love is just a habit!

At least you've had a girlfriend ,......I haven't had a ......... for more than 20 yearsIsn't it comforting enough.

If it's a man, please look for me, I'm 92 years old, female, single for 9 days and a year.

Live yourself, no matter how busy you are, take care of yourself, love is a thing that can't be mentioned.

Male or female? She is not alone in the world.

Think about Yang Zhenning, not older than you?

From a male point of view:

If you fall in love with someone else, what else do you have to remember. It's not because of emotional discord or family reasons.

Love is originally a gamble, whoever pays true feelings first is the loser.

Summarize the reasons for the failure. If it is your own inadequacy, correct it.

If it's not your fault for this breakup, the most important thing is ......A year later, your ex-girlfriend comes back to you and wants to reconcile, don't be stupid.

From a woman's point of view:

When a woman falls in love with someone, no one can stop her. If a woman were to leave a person, the nine cows would not be able to pull it back.

When a woman leaves a man, she has been thinking about it for at least half a year. She won't stay any way you do.

The sentimentality of the soul is just a defect in the perfect life, now everything is useless to you, you will still remember when you should remember, don't try to forget, many things will not be forgotten, you need to adjust your psychological state, when you think about him, don't drink a little wine, turn on the stereo quietly, sing along softly, those old songs of Stefanie Sun don't prevent listening, although it will be more sad, but this process can heal your spiritual trauma, how many times this process, I believe that you will be happy to accept everything that happened, because you understand a lot of things in this process, a lot of truths, more truths in songs, sing love songs when you are sad, you can better understand the truth, in fact, people understand a lot of things, because of many reasons can not understand yourself and others, hehe, try it, find yourself in the question, find the answer in the question, so that you can really see it, in order to find the reason between you calmly, so that you know more how to love someone and be loved.

Alas, children trapped by love have always been so confused

Well, I remember a long time ago, I heard a story, like you, this man loves his girl very much, this girl, in the end, he still left her without looking back, not a world drama, but love is always just a person's business, leaving so carelessly, this man decided to sell his house, to travel the world to forget about this girl, after a few years of travel, he has been to more than 100 large and small peaks in the world, he likes to stand on the mountains and shout, Shouting until the brain is deprived of oxygen will be more comfortable, but he found that this girl has never left her mind, and finally he is relieved, feeling that since he can't forget, why be so deliberate, if he forgets, isn't it even the beauty of the past? In the end, he decided to remember her, remember her for the rest of his life, and never forget again.

Yes, she was hurt so deeply, so why should you forget her? Loss is loss, love is not a kind of love that can turn the tide, since you let go, then let go of the chic, all the grievances are let go, what you have paid, can not be used as your heart thinks "useless", not like this, love to love vigorously, let go of chic, this is a man.

Don't hold back at home every day, go out and relax, let go of everything at hand, go out and travel, nature is the best healing mecca.

Finally, remember to never forget to smile, even in the most painful times, maybe someone will fall in love with you because of your smile.

"What you can't get is always the best". So when you like something, getting it isn't the smartest thing for you.

Whoever says that if you like someone, you must be with him. Sometimes, some people, in order to be with the person they like, they do not hesitate to use the most primitive method of "crying, making trouble and hanging themselves", in order to keep their lovers. Maybe this keeps the lover, but it can't keep his heart.

What's more, he lost his young and brilliant life for this, maybe this will arouse a response from his lover, but it also brings him more guilt and self-blame, as well as uneasiness, and happily wave goodbye to him from then on. In fact, if you like someone, you don't have to be with him, although some people often say "I don't care about how long it lasts, I only care about what I once had", but not everyone will be happy. Like someone, the most important thing is to make him happy, because his joys, sorrows, and sorrows will affect your heart.

So there is also such a saying, "You are happy, so I am happy." ”

If you like something, you must learn to appreciate it, cherish it, and make it more precious.

If you like someone, you have to make him happy, make him happy, and make that feeling more sincere. If you can't, then you might as well let it go! So sometimes, some people also have to learn to give up, because giving up is also a kind of beauty.