Is there a moment when you suddenly feel like you can t find someone you love for the rest of your l

Updated on psychology 2024-06-14
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  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Yes. All the time.

    Analyze your own reasons:

    I'm so picky.

    Reject siblings. Refuse to be of inappropriate height. Refuse to be off-site.

    At the same time, I am a very good and strong person, and I hope that I can make new progress every day. Therefore, the requirements for the other half are also very high, at least they must be higher than me, and they are outstanding in all aspects, so they can lower me.

    If it weren't better than me, I wouldn't have considered it at all.

    And, if you want to fall in love, you must be with the person you like, and you won't expect someone to accompany you because of loneliness. Rather lack than excess. Unwilling to accept the so-called "attempt".

    is so cold on the outside and hot on the inside.

    So basically, there will be no small probability of love at first sight happening to me, seeing an iceberg face, it's too late to chase anything?

    My alumni were very cautious about talking to me at first, and they didn't dare to joke in front of me. Think I'm the kind of good student who is very serious and well-behaved (Khan, nerves up and scares you to death).

    Such a person can probably only eat grass on the edge of the nest, but I'm still a straight girl.

    If you don't like it, you don't like it, you just refuse it directly, and you can't accept ambiguity. Therefore, the people who chased me generally died miserably and would never be friends again. And I don't have the time or energy to raise a spare tire.

    Also, I'm a very awkward person.

    It is kombu that knots itself.

    Even if someone will tolerate me unconditionally, I may not accept it

    Objective reasons: Anyway, the current feelings are ambiguous, and the quality of life of two people after being together may not be as good as living alone, coming and going freely.

    What a man can give me, I can get it myself by hard work. Love? It's not a necessity of life, bread is.

    I think love is probably a luxury, but it is hard to find. I'm ready to wander the world alone, you, love doesn't come.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Yes, although it was not very long, it was the lowest moment of my life.

    At that time, because I liked a girl for a long, long time, the two of us have always been very good friends, and what we talk about every day is that the two of us are the purest friendship, in fact, I myself have long liked each other, but because once I confessed seriously she said a word, don't scare me, I play with you so well I don't want to become a stranger. At that moment, I really felt that I couldn't find the person I loved in my life, we were ambiguous in life, flirting, I thought I had hope and turned out to be just the best friend, and then I panicked in order not to lose this friend, saying that I made a bet with my friend, and I confessed like this when I lost. Because I'm at the same table as her, do you know the kind of feeling that looks at the person you like every day, sits at a table with her and plays with her, but knows very well that the two of us can't be possible?

    At that time, I was happy when I went to school every day, but when I arrived at home, I was a different person, and I really felt that the world was dark. He also seemed to know that I liked her, and he didn't make so many jokes, for fear that I would misunderstand, I knew it in my heart, and that feeling was really desperate. But luckily, she got along with me with an attitude that I liked her, and in the end she liked me, told me these things during a conflict, and the two of us ended up together.

    After that period of confession, I never thought about anyone except her, I was ready to be alone, and that feeling was really desperate, and I felt that I couldn't find someone I could love in my life. <>

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I have always felt that I may not be able to find someone in my life who I can love for a lifetime, and I will also feel that I will not find a person who loves me very much and he loves me very much, and we want to spend our lives together.

    Therefore, I feel that I am destined to die alone.

    There was once a beautiful love in front of me, I didn't grasp it, I didn't cherish it, or perhaps, it wasn't real love, because it wasn't a hand-holding agreement, but my dear one wasn't love, just like an elf living in the wrong forest, therefore, a person who played an indispensable role in my life for more than ten years left my life, painful, but helpless.

    Therefore, from now on, whether friendship is just like love, or really love, I don't want to touch it, and it is best to maintain a friend relationship, because in this way, you may be able to be a friend for life, and if it is love, you are likely to become the most familiar stranger in the end.

    Because I was afraid of the end, I refused the beginning of everything.

    And,I don't think I'm a long-term、Long-term person.,I won't like a person for a long, long time.,Maybe only like a few months.,After that, I'll forget.,Even if I don't forget.,I'm the kind of person who gets along with people for a long time.,Find out that there's something wrong with that person that I don't like.,It may be just a small shortcoming.,But I may magnify it infinitely.,And then I can't stand it.,And then I don't like him.。。。

    Or, I don't think I particularly like someone, or I can't love someone, maybe a person is "incapable of love", I have lost the ability to love people, I don't know what love is, I don't know how to love, I always feel that the kind of desperate for love is very incredible, I don't think I can do it, so that's why I've always been single.

    Also, it's good to be alone, I have so many little tempers and quirks, maybe no one can stand it, no one can live with me, so, pay attention to the orphan.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    When I've loved someone so hard and that person will eventually choose to break up with me, especially when she says "let's break up" in person, I feel like I'll never find someone I love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Yes At that time, I didn't know what touched me, and I felt that no one would like me, and I wouldn't like anyone.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Yes, there was a girl who loved very much, she loved to play at that time, she always felt that she didn't care about her, and then she always quarreled and broke up, and now she regrets it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I had this feeling when I broke up with my ex-girlfriend, and it was really sad at the time, but I'm lucky that I've met someone I like more now.

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