How can I improve myself when I am hit by reality?

The most important thing is to find the reason for your own shortcomings, and then prescribe the right medicine, you must be stable and accurate, and don't do some useless work.

When the summer vacation of last semester was about to end, the famous director Zhang Jigang came to the ** college of several colleges and universities in Shanxi Province to select actors for a large-scale dance epic program, and the requirement was that everyone sang a song, and the teacher said that everyone had a great chance, because there were many people to choose, so that we all had some confidence in ourselves, but when the results came out, we were all dumbfounded, and only one person in the whole class was selected, because there was a lot of hope for this selection, so after seeing the results, All of a sudden, I became particularly disappointed......

But disappointment is disappointment, and the more important thing is to change my shortcomings according to what happened, for example, after I failed in the selection, I went to the piano room every day after the start of school to practice my voice, because there are some technical things, and it is very likely that I will become rusty if I don't practice for a day, so I must not stop practicing. I summed it up, and the students who were selected to go are all very capable, so I will go to the gym every afternoon to exercise, one is for health, and the other is for my body, because only by seizing the time and working hard now, it is possible not to miss the next similar opportunity.

We are not terrible to be hit by reality, who can not have a frustrated time, but the most important thing is not to be crushed by this blow, but to have a more fighting spirit, that is, the more frustrated the more courageous, summarize well and then always ready for the next challenge, if it is just a failure to make you wilt in an instant, it is really too hard to withstand the blow.

We can't live in dreams forever, there will always be some cruel places in reality, so we must learn to adjust and accumulate experience, because life is to live well by accumulating experience again and again.

I don't think it's terrible to be hit, it's scary to lose confidence when you're hit, you should find the problem and keep encouraging yourself to move forward.

Everyone should have been hit by reality. When I was young, I always looked forward to growing up, and I felt that when I grew up, I could become very powerful and do a lot of things. But in fact, when we grow up, we find that many things are not what we imagined, sometimes we can gain and get a lot, but sometimes we will also be scarred by the blow of reality.

No matter what you're struck by reality. None of us should give up, let alone be decadent. The ups and downs of life are not for fun.

You should gradually get used to being hit by reality, because that's life. So how can we improve ourselves after being hit by reality? That's actually a good question.

Because the first thing you think of is not giving up, but how we can improve ourselves so that we are not easily hit by reality.

Being hit by reality, for some, it gave him motivation. For example, there are people who are more and more courageous in battle, and there are people who have strong self-esteem. But for some, it's like heaven has played a big joke on him.

Perhaps he has never been hit by reality. Because the blow of reality is very cruel, and sometimes you may not be able to change it. The reality is not that he is there to cater to you, but that you have to improve yourself and cater to him.

First of all, we should think of working harder than before and now, no matter what you do, as long as you work hard, you can reap, how much you get, it depends on how hard you work. But we can't just work hard, we should work with our resourcefulness. You say that a person who is smarter than you works harder than you, so why don't you try?

Even if we are not as smart as those who are smart, if we try more than him. That might be enough to do more with less.

So, after being hit by reality. We just need to work harder and be ourselves, find the best way for us, and then we can improve ourselves.

Don't be discouraged, you must be more and more courageous. It is necessary to judge the situation, learn from the experience of failure, and then continue on the road, constantly improve your own ability, and you can also absorb the experience of others and digest your own things.

Then you have to consider whether it is your own problem, keep your heart, don't be polluted by the big dye vat of society, and your life will be happy.

Read more books and newspapers, play less with your phone and sleep more. Set yourself a goal. Work hard to improve your work skills. You have to believe that there is a new blow every day, and you just have the right mentality.

Objectively speaking, no one likes to fail, because failure will bring us a lot of pain and loss, however, there is no victorious general in the world, and there can be no saint who only succeeds and does not fail in his life, so we should regard failure as the mother of success. First of all, if we have suffered setbacks or failures, we should gladly accept them, knowing that our failures are not terrible things, and if we want to succeed, we should accept failures, learn to afford to lose, and face everything calmly. We should correctly understand failure, don't slump because of failure, let alone become decadent, some people give up after failure, which of course dooms this matter to be a complete failure, there is no room for maneuver, it would be a pity to give up. ‍‍

We will inevitably encounter some troubles in life, study, work and even leisure, and all kinds of unpleasant things are like a mountain, affecting our thinking, mood, and even making people depressed and irritable. In fact, it is impossible for people to have smooth sailing in their lives, how can they see the rainbow without experiencing wind and rain, the key is how to adjust their mentality when we encounter troubles, so that we can re-establish confidence, can release all the unpleasantness, adjust the mentality, face it positively, do not drill the horns, and quickly get rid of troubles.

In many cases, the main reason why we can't let go of difficulties is because we can't let go of them, and finally we are depressed and unhappy, and we are not active in doing things in a trance, which affects work and study. In fact, if you think about it, no matter how big the difficulties are, you still have to look forward.

Because difficulties are temporary, there are always more ways than difficulties. Unhappy things are also temporary, don't get old and think about sad things, but self-comfort and self-regulation. Learn to be relaxed, analyze in advance, think about the benefits and do the benefits, and you will do better and better.

On the contrary, the more you think about the worst, the more negative and sluggish you are, and the worse the result. ‍‍