The emotional master comes in to help a haggard boy

Have you ever said it for yourself"Wait for her", and carrying the burden and putting too much pressure on yourself, a good man, can let go and receive, can bend and stretch, and does not have to hurt himself for a word. People won't think you're violating anything.

I advise you to let go, where is there no grass? When you find true love (true love for each other), you will sigh at your own growth.

If that girl is a good and sensible girl, she will also bless you, and at the same time she will feel relaxed.

There is no need to shout about this kind of thing"Emotional master"I'm here to help. It's not a game after all.

If possible, it is recommended that you listen to your parents or older brothers.

What do you think is worthwhile, rational, realistic, just do it, and think for yourself! Like a man, don't look like a child!!

You're a friend of mine. It's like saying that meeting the right person at the wrong time is the most cruel.

Try not to overthink it, maybe it's better, and try to let other people and things distract you as much as possible. Slowly it will always fade, maybe it's just a psychological factor, maybe the people around you are not so good, and suddenly he appears, you will feel that he is good at everything, very good, very good. Slowly contact something else, maybe there will be a different idea, slowly adjust it, there will always be a better waiting for you, come on.!!

If you tell him, he will accept you. After you get him, you will be very happy, but at the same time as you get it, hard times will follow. Your efforts will be enormous, and you will only get a little.

He can't give you everything you want. Unless, if you have the ability to let go as soon as possible after you get it, you will fall deeper and deeper and will not be able to extricate yourself. If you're unmarried, don't try it.

It doesn't matter if you're married, everyone is equal and takes what you need.

Do you think he is very attractive, in fact, he is not handsome even at his age, but the mature charm he exudes deeply attracts you? If he's single, I'll advise you to chase boldly, regardless of age or whatever, but he's a family person, so I advise you to bury this feeling in your heart, try not to let him appear in front of you again, it's okay slowly...

Don't be like this, if you really share this man with his wife and children, and you don't just love him or something, then you will be spurned and abused by the world. Tell yourself to let go, in fact, it's not as much love as you imagined, and whoever doesn't have it can't live, right? For the sake of your parents, you also have to control yourself, and you don't want your parents to follow you and bear the wrong things you have done!

Knowing that people have families, you have to continue to chase others, think about what you will get in the end, maybe a relationship is inseparable, but if you want true happiness, you must make up your mind, calm down, cut off all relationships with him, start everything again, and find a love that truly belongs to you.

It's better to cut the grass and eradicate the roots, throw away these emotional problems, and be a workaholic, so that you won't be too sad.

Men who are destined to be hurt, too rich in feelings, and not suitable for modern society, it is recommended to learn to transfer your rich feelings, feelings cannot be too rich, that is not pity, it should be a flower.

Generally liking to put the breakup on the lips should be a common measure for girls, and I didn't expect boys to do the same. It can be seen how immature you are, it is not wrong to be slimy in love, as long as the two of you enjoy the feeling of being in love. You don't live in other people's eyes or mouths, remember that you live in your own heart.

What is suitable or inappropriate in the relationship, love is to be together and hold each other's hands well, if you don't love, don't waste two people's time and each other's feelings. Two people are going to run in together, and it's normal to be noisy. But after the quarrel, you have to analyze what you are arguing about, both of you have certain problems.

If you want to be together, just get along as I say! You yourself said that you care a lot, and that quarrel again and again is nothing more than to wear out your love and make your hearts more and more tired, why bother? Ask yourself, are you going to solve the problem or are you going to be solved?

Don't say things like breakups easily, since you choose to be together, you have to manage your relationship well.

It's normal to quarrel occasionally, too often will affect how much you value your relationship, you have to think about why you are arguing, whether it is worth arguing. Boys should be more mature, simply, and girls should tolerate her as long as they don't exceed the degree. If it's not suitable, separate as soon as possible to avoid greater conflicts later, but you should think carefully.

It depends on your own feelings, good things are grinding, maybe this is also a kind of emotional experience.

Maybe it's just a difference in personality, you can try to change for each other, right?

Why do you have to cling to the present?

Maybe take a step back and live happily, don't you?

You love her, that's enough, that's reason why you two want to be together, don't think too much.

Or don't stick it well, I used to be too, she also said the same about me, now it's divided, Man, you should usually do things vigorously, but it's best not to be like this emotionally, give yourself a little way out, some people say don't regret what you've done, but I don't think so, if the relationship is really divided, it's normal to regret it later. But it's better not to have a situation like yours, how can a couple look like if it's noisy all day long? Otherwise, be humble and be generous, otherwise you will share ......

If there is only one kind of man in the world, it will be a tragedy, and the samurai have a tragic and strong head without frowning, fighting on the battlefield, and dying without whirlwind. Scholars have the wind and the moon, laughing and talking about the ease of the past and the present. Each is good in its own way.

Personally, I think this emotional thing is very difficult to say, I can see that you are like children, it is normal for a man to suffer a loss, it doesn't matter if he truly loves you.

Love is like the sand you grasp in your hands, the tighter you grasp it, the faster the sand will flow!

I think, if you really feel that it is not suitable, just let it go, divide and merge so many times, if you continue, sooner or later there will be a big conflict, in fact, the key depends on what you think, whether you can let her go, I just suggest, I hope you figure it out as soon as possible.

If it's not suitable, divide it. Be decisive in doing things, don't be mother-in-law.

I think your boyfriend is very good to you, he is willing to give so much for you, although he is not good at expressing it, he can make you feel that he really loves you, and is likely to be loyal to you for the rest of his life. As for the person you said will help you in your career, he is indeed a good person and talented, but as the working hours grow, maybe there will be more and more people who like him in the future, but whether he will be as good to you as your current boyfriend in the future is not necessarily.

Of course, others can only give you some opinions and suggestions, the key is still up to you, this kind of thing should be carefully considered.

After all, feelings are not one-sided giving, he is for you.

Pay so much, is it because there is a career, for you.

Okay, I changed my mind, and I dated for three years, for.

You paid the price, and that's his share of responsibility.

Is it? Or are you really, that's it, don't talk about it, it's your choice after all, and no one can stop your decision.

Is it possible to understand the temperament of your friend just by asking others? It's up to you.

You are different from mine, I just want an ordinary life and happiness.

Your own feelings are the most important, if you don't like your former boyfriend now, then give up, don't delay others, that will also hurt yourself.

Definitely choose a career, but he's just a supervisor, and you quickly meet the manager, the general manager, the project leader of the partner, the general manager of the partner, but you don't meet the boy in school. So choose your classmates, it's better to know the roots for so many years.

In fact, you have shaken your faith in your boyfriend.

To put it bluntly, you're already biased towards that man.

No matter what angle you are in, you have betrayed you and you are no longer worthy of your boyfriend's cherishment, so you better choose for yourself See which one has the upper hand Besides, that man may not be happy for you in your ordinary life.

It takes better time to get to know the man, and time will give you the answer.

You can ignore both of them for half a year, see which one misses you more and needs you more, and then judge which one likes you more. It's all about what you need.

I can only say that your boyfriend is really pitiful, and it is even more pitiful to find a girlfriend like you.

If it's just pitiful, it's your fault, and if you have the idea of empathy, if you really don't like him, or your fault, it's all your fault in the final analysis.

If you love him, you will always treat him, and if you don't love him, you will break up early.

Before your boyfriend starts, you say give up, and he doesn't want to get someone, and you sentence him to death, aren't you cruel?

Haha your boyfriend is really unlucky to find a worthless woman like you. There is no responsibility and no woman's way at all.

Your boyfriend is tragic、、、 choose the one who will help your career for the time being、、、

Be fair to your boyfriend that way.

You will choose what you want, which is the path you are going to take.

Remember the vows you took when you got married?

There are too many things to choose in a person's life, and there are too many rights and wrongs, and since you have made a choice, you have to bear the consequences, whether it is right or wrong, from the perspective of social morality, an irresponsible man is not a good man, and he will be condemned by society, relatives and friends, but there is still morality in today's society? Far from it, do you really know everything about your ex-girlfriend? Can you be sure that after a divorce and an ex-girlfriend get married, you won't regret it?

Can you bear the consequences of all this? It's not about morality, you're living your life, and as long as you can accept the life you choose, no matter what choices you make, no one else has the right to judge it, it's your life after all.

If it were me and I chose to divorce, I can't have regrets in life. Now he can make up for it!!

If I were him, I wouldn't get divorced, one party is responsible. Judging from the article, he still has feelings for his wife, so think about it calmly. You still have feelings for your former girlfriend, but he has become a thing of the past, don't hurt the many people who are now to you, cherish what you have now!

Eat well. I'm you, I'm going to hit the wall, tossing 3 people (maybe another one) A home is interesting? Speed to dispel this evil thought, you know, not to explain.

Eating from the bowl, looking at the pot, beasts.

Maybe you never forgot that woman, maybe you never gave up loving that woman.

But since you have all chosen to marry another person, you should be responsible for your wife and children. It's really irresponsible to want a divorce just because of this, heh. Since you love that woman so much, why didn't you work hard to overcome all difficulties and be together!

Is it insurmountable? Scold. Now that you want a divorce, have you ever considered it for your wife?

If you don't love your wife, why did you get married in the first place? Since you have children, let's think more about your wife and children.

No matter how much I loved her before, even if I still love her now. But that's in the past, since you're married to your wife, you have to take on the responsibilities of a husband and a father, maybe you will say that no one understands you, but you have to know that even if you are together, you may not have the same feelings as before, why not do your duty. Don't let your child lose his father.

Love won't be for a lifetime.

Think about the time when you broke up because of many pressures, although you have a certain amount of financial strength now, it doesn't mean that now you will be able to be smooth sailing when you are together again.

Just because her family has problems doesn't mean that you have a reason to have problems in your family.

Now that you have a family, you have to think about not only your own feelings, but also that you have children, so you can't be so selfish and irresponsible.

In fact, for many people, the one who stays by their side for a lifetime is not their favorite, but that person is likely to love them the most.

You should be able to appreciate your wife's tolerance and love for you.

You should also learn to be a man in charge.

Live a good life with your wife, bring up your children, set a good foundation for your children, and don't regret it until tragedy happens.

It shouldn't be left, what you missed, never coming back, it feels different.

Sure enough, what is lost is the best, and what is gained is rubbish. Leave me speechless.

There are always gains and losses in life, I think maybe that man is gone, his wife deserves a better husband, does his wife really feel no at all, whether it is dull or trusting, it may be that he doesn't want to know.

If you don't want to hurt your wife and children, don't say it.

If his heart is really not at home now, and he doesn't care about the affairs of the family, he has no responsibility, and he wants to do so much to leave, which is good for everyone!