The 11 year old boy said that he was annoyed when he saw his father, was his father a failure?

In the past, children's puberty was twelve or thirteen years old, but now children are generally precocious, so eleven years old can be understood as puberty.

It's normal to have such emotions in adolescence, and he shouldn't just be annoyed when he sees his father, and he shouldn't be happy when he sees his mother, right?

At this time, we must learn to keep a distance from the child, care until the point is reached, educate tactfully, and clearly tell him that there is a problem with his attitude that needs his own attention, and it should improve after half a year.

If your child is just entering the first year of secondary school, it is recommended that you arrange for your child to live in school to alleviate this situation.

At this time, it will not be effective for the father to communicate directly with the child, and he can use other relatives that the child likes to persuade together.

The eleven-year-old boy said that he was annoyed when he saw his father, and it was not all his father's failure, because in this era, the child began to defect at the age of eleven or twelve, as the pillar of his father's family, in order to earn money to support the family, he did not have much time to care for the child, did not communicate well with the child, and was strict with the child, which will cause the child's disgust. It is recommended that fathers find opportunities to communicate well with their children, understand their children's thoughts, carefully guide and educate their children, encourage them more, and be friends with their children.

No, this shows that his father is very strict with him, and it is the child's rebellious period, so he will hate his father and the people who manage him, the child's rebellious period is very terrible, I think as a parent should be humbly taught.

It may be that the father has a problem with the child's education method, causing the child to feel that the father is nagging, or that he is too harsh, or that some practices are unacceptable. The change is very simple, the father should face up to his own shortcomings, get close to the child in another way, make friends with the child, don't lose his temper with the child, let the child feel that you are her best friend, believe that such a father is the greatest in the child's mind, and the child will love you more.

That father must have behaved, not good, did not do a good father's example. That's why children think like this. Maybe usually the father is too fierce to the child. There is no intimacy. Or do something that makes the child feel offended.

About the 11-year-old boy said that he was annoyed when he saw his father. Is it a failure for my father? I think.

Maybe an 11-year-old boy who grew up without his father. Not close to your father? My sister.

Maybe it's the example made by his father, but it's not in place, so the 11-year-old boy is annoyed when he sees his father.

It's the father's education that has a problem, and he won't educate the child, causing the child to ignore his parents so much, and he also spoils the child too much, so he can't do this, it's time to take care of it.

Such a child has a rebellious mentality, which is not a failure of the father, but does not understand the psychology of the child.

Spend more time with your family. Communicate with your child. Nor can it be too pampered. Discipline if you are wrong.

Don't be annoyed, you have a problem with your attitude, you have to figure out the reason for the child's this, and quickly help him overcome it

It's not the child's problem, it's the child's parents' problem, especially the father's problem, if the father lacks companionship, the boy will be more squeamish and timid.

When the child cries, there must be something unhappy about him, parents communicate more with the child, the problem is solved, and the child will not cry!

Fortunately, it may be that something happened to the child and he didn't know what to do, so he would cry and express a little resistance to it.

11 years old is still young, and now the child has a wide range of contacts, and it looks very mature, but it is actually enough to choke.

It's not grown up yet, and girls are precocious than boys.

Whether a person loves to cry or not, regardless of gender, no one says that boys can't cry.

Many people love someone by mistake because they are lonely, but many more people are lonely all their lives because they love someone by mistake. We can love each other, but we are destined to not be able to stay together. It's not that I don't love you enough, it's just that I'm not sure if this love is the most correct.

A child's character also needs to be cultivated.

During the rebellious period, everyone will have a rebellious heart between the ages of 11 and 18.

According to you, he is 66 years old, very old, and his ideas cannot be changed.

At the age of 55, there is really no need to divorce, even if you want to go out and dance, you can tell him other reasons, you don't have to be honest.

It's time to show him a movie about love.

Don't scold your child, there will be a shadow in the future.

It's time to clean up, don't get used to it, I think.

Then you should talk to your child more often, have time to take your child out, and spend more time with him.

Each stage has its own worries.

At the age of eleven, he also had his own thoughts.

I think it's due to the pressure of studying.

You can do some ideological work in a targeted manner.

There are six reincarnations after death, and if you don't cultivate well in this life, you will be more pitiful after death than now, everyone is crying and trying to live while trying to die, and you always feel that you need a faith, what do you think?