What does it feel like for two people who like each other but can t get together?

At the beginning, it must be painful, uncomfortable with oneself, and even a little bit of a feeling of wanting to commit suicide, no longer believing that there will be true love in this world, but people can't always live in memories, life has to go on, you can only let time dilute everything, forget all the pain, slowly will understand, will want to open, and the person you love can not be together, it can only show that we have no fate. Only by blessing each other and finding someone you love more and who is more suitable to spend your life.

This is used to describe my current situation, the sadness in my heart is really indescribable, but there is no way, everything is fate, I can only say that the two of you are really not suitable for being together, that is, as the saying goes, there is no fate, since you can't be together, let it go as soon as possible, so it's good for each other.

Love can only wait, what can be found is actually marriage. We met the right person, but due to various conditions in life, we did not choose to be together, this is a regret but also helpless, people can never do everything well, even love is the same.

Sometimes liking doesn't have a direct relationship with whether or not we can end up together. I used to like a girl very much, but there was a big gap in our values, and we both had a good impression of each other, but in the end we didn't become a couple, we just became friends. It was a bit heartbreaking and reluctant, but I knew it was the best thing to do.

I really can't say what I feel, I'm sad and heartbroken, I can't pick up stars with my bare hands, two people really like to get married, but I can't help but give up for various reasons, the parents on both sides disagree, he has nothing in his teens, and I can't be with him when I'm still studying, and finally he said he was tired, said he didn't love anymore, and finally broke up, very sad, it was a second time that I didn't want to experience in this life, whoever made me sad in the future, I would leave whom, and I didn't suffer from love.

It's not that you can be together if you have love, loving someone is not possession, but giving, blessing, really loving someone, as long as he is happy, he is enough. If you have to be reluctant to be together, it is not love, it is too possessive, and such reluctance will not end well for everyone. If you find that it is not suitable, don't force yourself to be together, and both of you will be unhappy in the end.

Love also talks about timing, if the time does not come, two people have feelings, and they will be separated in the end. If the time comes, the two will naturally come together, rather than deliberately forcing it.

It's like Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai.

It is really not easy to meet people who love each other in the crowd. We are so lucky!

Is it the jealousy of the heavens? It's really providential, no matter how hard we try, we just can't get together.

I hope we can also turn into a pair of butterflies and dance together in the sunny sky, ......

I remember that my ex-boyfriend and I used to like each other very much, but my family didn't agree, and we broke up, it's really sad to think about, I always comfort myself that maybe this is the so-called fate without separation! I just hope he will find something more suitable for him! Wishing him happiness!

In the vast sea of people, what we have to do is to get along with the person we love the most, and forget about the person we love the most. But in reality, it is often not, in fact, when you enter the marriage, you know that the most loved is not necessarily the most suitable, and the one who can grow old with us must be the most suitable.

There are many reasons why two people who like each other can't get together, in fact, the relationship also needs to be in the right place at the right time, one is indispensable, sometimes distance, parental opposition, personality incompatibility, financial resources, etc. can cause the two to not be together.

Some people don't meet the right person at the right time, but the right person doesn't show up at the right time. Either way, it's a pity, and many times two people who like each other come together for many reasons. For example, the obstruction of parents, the distance and the difficulty of transferring work, etc., these are the reasons why they can't go together, no matter which one they are, they all make people feel uneasy.

It makes people feel that it is the regret of this life.

There are many people who meet true love when they are young, but they do not have the attitude and idea of responsibility at that time, so that true love flows away from them. This kind of regret happens to many people, and it is also a very common example of mutual liking in reality, but not being able to come together. There are also people who give up because they can't get the approval of each other's parents, and the two people have been together already.

Feelings have always been a matter of two people, but they also need the support and recognition of both parents' families, and a marriage without the blessing of parents cannot last long, so many people give up easily in the face of their parents' obstruction.

There are also people who cannot agree on the values and ideas of both parties, resulting in long-term quarrels and discord, even if the love is strong, but it still does not cross this layer of barrier. After all, life cannot be sustained for a long time by love alone, and it also requires compatibility and mutual tolerance and patience. Marriage is a science, it takes a lifetime to explore, although love should be the basis of marriage, but in this process, we also need to have three views of the right fit, otherwise the senseless quarrel will only make the feelings of two people lose, and eventually break up, so there are many reasons why two people who like each other can't go together.

Because two people who like each other will encounter a lot of problems in reality, they can't get together.

may be because the general environment they are in is not bad, they dare not fight, so they are not together in the end.

Because they have difficulties with each other, don't trust each other, and family obstacles, they can't get together.

It may be because of the parents, or it may be that the two people already have their own families or many reasons, I think that if you can't go together, stop the loss as soon as possible, otherwise you will only fall deeper and deeper.

Because the family gap between the two people is relatively large, the love of the two people is not approved by many people, so the two people do not come together.

It may be because the personalities of the two people are not suitable, or the family is not suitable, and the parents of both parties do not agree.

01: If there is fate in the cong, there is no need to flatter.

A really good friendship must be equal to each other, and there is no such thing as who looks up to whom and who looks down on whom. The two sides stand in the same position, treat each other honestly, and give to each other, only in this way can this relationship go further and further.

Jia Pingwa once said: "Friends are iron pieces, nails, screw caps and small pins attracted by magnets, as long as you want, you can always suck them from any dust in the world." ”

This passage of his corresponds to the law of attraction in psychology, telling us: what kind of person you are, what kind of person you will meet.

If there is really a fate between each other, you don't need to deliberately please, please and cater to each other, everything will go naturally, and you will not be easily separated.

This fate, although it is predetermined, but whether it can last for a long time depends on the daily operation, and the real fate of people is inseparable from each other's cherishing and intentions, as long as both parties have been honest, this fate will never be dispersed.

02: If there is no fate, there is no need to go against your will and force each other.

People who are really destined will still meet again in the end, while people who have no fate, even if they walk face to face, are still indifferent in their hearts.

So many times, many relationships don't have to be forced, if there is no fate between the two, you might as well choose to go with the flow, otherwise the more reluctant, the deeper the damage.

In Zhang Ailing's long ** "Half Life", the hero and heroine are typical cases, when they were young, they loved each other deeply and made a private decision for life, and then went around and around because of various misunderstandings and got separated.

In addition to objective reasons, the main reason for the breakdown of their relationship is that they do not trust each other and have their own guards.

And a really good relationship can't be calculated, if Bu Li only thinks about himself in everything, then this relationship can't be maintained.

They are in deep love, and they can't escape the ending of separation, which also warns us that if there is no fate between the two, there is no need to go against their will and reluctantly be with each other, so that they can get together and disperse It can better highlight the pattern.

03: Follow the fate of everything, look at it openly, and respect every encounter and departure.

If there is a fate-type Zheng Wu, if you are separated, you will still meet again, if you don't have a fate, even if you are inseparable every day, you still can't go to the end. Living in this world, as long as you look at everything a little bit and look down on it, you won't be so tired.

The relationship between people is not as complicated as we imagined, this life seems to be long, but there are very few people who really intersect with us.

Those who deserve our care, may wish to work hard to give, work hard to manage, and our lives will become more fulfilling and more abundant because of their existence.

And those who are not worthy of our association, there is no need to spend so much energy and patience, learn to say goodbye, learn to let go, the burden on our shoulders, in order to lighten the road back, in order to go a little smoother.

For the rest of your life, learn to follow fate in everything, look down on it, respect every encounter and parting, cherish what is worth cherishing, and give up what is not worth interacting with.

Only by finding the center of gravity of life can we divide every point.