What should I do if a colleague introduces a colleague to a colleague I have a crush on?

You can't blame people for this, right, your own crush on a colleague doesn't have a partner, and you can't say anything when someone introduces someone to the other party. At this point, if you want to behave, I suggest you immediately launch a pursuit offensive against your crush colleague, so that there may still be a chance. If it's too late, if you really get together, maybe you regret that you didn't take action.

At this time, we have to be brave, if our colleague has no partner, we have to be brave to pursue each other, after all, we are equal in love. Each of us has the right to pursue love, don't be afraid. Be brave and chase it.

I think you can go directly to a colleague and ask your colleague to introduce you to him, provided that you can't let your crush know that the person who introduced you is you; You can also ask your colleague to show him your heart before he introduces him, let him know that there is such a person who has always liked him, and then how to choose is his business; Otherwise, if you don't say it, you will never have a chance to say it when your colleague introduces him to him.

If I were you, I would make my heart clear before he meets his colleagues. No matter what the result is, at least I have made a big step forward so that I will not regret it in the future.

What to do? Cold.

The best thing to do is to get ahead of the curve and confess to your crush before he introduces him to him, telling him what you really think. Because people say that it is not long or short in this life, when you meet a person you like, you must seize a good opportunity, and you will not regret it even if you fail.

I think when encountering such a thing, the most important thing is to express your mind first, and finally meet someone you like, you must be brave to pursue, first take the initiative to ask a colleague with a crush, express your liking for him, don't wait until your colleague has been introduced, you are in a hurry, so you will regret it.

Then you should show your mind as soon as possible, otherwise you are really with the introduction object, you can't destroy others, you can't blame others, who told you not to start first, and then you can ask your colleague not to introduce him to the object first, give you a chance, if the crush rejects you, the colleague wants to introduce the object and let him introduce it, after all, your crush doesn't like you, just give up on him to find the right person.

You will rush forward, otherwise you will be snatched away by others, and you will get the moon first near the water, you at least confessed to him that you have a crush on him for a long time, so that he understands that your thoughts are not necessarily that he still has a good impression of you, and he didn't say it, happiness is in his own hands, and others can't replace it. What to do, let's take action.

In this way, you should have a sense of crisis, prepare well, strike first, and muster up the courage to confess. When you meet someone you like, you must confess it in time and don't let yourself regret it.

Summary. Good evening! Welcome to Q&A, I'm honored to have you answered by me, I'm a cici teacher of emotional guidance.

Your colleague should think that you are better and have a good impression of you before introducing you to the object, if you are very poor, it will not introduce you, and it is normal for colleagues to introduce you to the object, what do you think of your colleague?

Good evening! Welcome to Q&A, I'm honored to have you answered by me, I'm a cici teacher of emotional guidance. Your colleague should think that you are better and have a good impression of you before introducing you to the object, if you are very poor, it will not introduce you, and it is normal for colleagues to introduce you to the object, what do you think of your colleague?

Male colleague, desperately trying to introduce me to men, wonderful.

Under normal circumstances, if you are of marriageable age, it should be OK for someone to introduce you to someone, but you will think it is strange, do you think that this boy originally liked the person you introduced to the person or the person you introduced to you is not good?

There are a lot of male colleagues, only he worries too much, and a bunch of men send me and say let me choose.

You're more annoyed that he introduces you so much, and you feel nosy, don't you?

Yes, he's single himself.

Did you just tell him not to introduce him, or did he do it?

He didn't listen, and when he chatted, he talked to other men.

He's sick. It's a feeling of being pestered with someone to introduce, right?

yes, what the hell is he going to do.

It looks like you're quite angry with him, and you really want to stop him from introducing you to these guys anymore, so that you can be quiet.

The teacher already knows what is going on, and you are a little upset with his nosy things, and you want to express your anger to him, and at the same time want him to stop. I think you can communicate with him, it's the kind of quality, and there is the appropriate distance, because the platform can only send 6 messages, the teacher wants to help you continue, but you need to renew, do you still need it?

Summary. Okay, I understand, first of all, your male colleague agrees with you, and he agrees with your beauty and gentleness, so he keeps introducing you to other boyfriends to hide his liking for you.

Dear, I'll help you with this problem, because I've encountered it before.

Can you help me clarify a question first, that is, you are a boy or a girl, and your colleague is a boy or girl?

Male colleague, desperately trying to introduce me to men, wonderful.

Okay, I understand, first of all, your male colleague agrees with you, and he agrees with your beauty and gentleness, so he keeps introducing you to other boyfriends to hide his liking for you.

Why did I confess to you and him, he used reasons to prevaricate, and then kept telling me about this man and that man for no reason.

Oh, you have another premise here, did you confess to him personally?

Oh, yes. Later, he kept talking to me about strange topics.

That would be a tactful rejection of you.

Originally, girls can't take the initiative in love, and they should give up the initiative to boys.

Since you rejected me, why is there nothing to do to find something for me to keep tempting men, is he sick?

What the hell is he going to do, is there a disease to be cured?

In my experience, if you had maintained a stable posture between the two of you, it would have been right for him to chase after you, but if you made a move, he would have backed down as soon as you made a move.

I suggest that you snub him for a while, show your charm, and turn pursuit into attraction.

Have you ever encountered something similar at work? Young people who work in a formal unit, after a year or two of work, the old colleagues in the unit will be very enthusiastic to give you a list of objects. Especially the aunts in those units, they are relatively idle in the unit, and they always have to find something to do.

Introducing young people to get to know each other is their favorite thing to do. This also faces the question, should we accept or not accept in the unit? If you don't accept it, you can let people know in time and don't live up to the kindness of others.

If you really accept it, it's actually embarrassing. Therefore, on this issue, I think it is acceptable to introduce each other to colleagues in the unit. However, pay attention to the method.

There are two reasons for this, the introduction of colleagues is an important way to get to know our peers, if we are a student from other places, we must have relatively few local acquaintances, and it is really a good way for others to help us. After all, they have been in the same unit for a long time, and they know more about our situation in all aspects, through the introduction of colleagues. The number one reason is that there are increased opportunities and ways to meet peers.

The second is that the person introduced by the colleague will know in more detail. Generally, when they are introduced to each other by their colleagues, they will ask them about the situation in detail. Some are really inconvenient for you.

For example, the other person's family situation, lifestyle, hobbies, etc. They will help you ask very detailed questions and tell you. And these questions, of course, you are embarrassed to ask face-to-face.

So in general, the introduction of colleagues in the unit is more down-to-earth than what you know in society. There are a few things to note before accepting an introduction from a colleague. First of all, communicate your requirements in advance before your colleagues introduce them.

You'd better make it clear. What are the conditions of the other party? Otherwise, the person introduced by the other party does not meet your conditions and may really hurt his face.

Colleagues in the unit introduce objects, which can not only increase the relationship with colleagues, but also enrich our lives, but also close the relationship between each otherIf you can get a piece of love, it's even more perfect!

Crush is too painful. Every smile of the other person affects our mood. We allow ourselves to be slaves to others, but our masters don't want us.

When we decide to take this step and make our dreams come true through our own efforts, we must be fully prepared to win a ready battle. Finally, how to express a crush on a person's success? How to confess?

Do a good job in the early work, there are many boys (and of course a small number of girls) who recognize the mistake and try to speed up the relationship between men and women before the time is ripe. The result is often failure! Remember one truth:

All those who claim to be successful have actually succeeded before they claim success! Confession is just a ritual to help you formalize your relationship and take the final step. So, if your relationship hasn't reached this point, be sure not to confess it in reverse, otherwise it will only scare the other person away!

How do you express your crush on someone? It's a pity to learn these 7 tricks and refuse to confess! Third-party confession is the least stressful and high-success method through third-party confession, and it is suitable for people who are more introverted and shy.

We need to know that the best friends and brothers of the crush are the people we strive for. It is only with God's help that our confession can go smoothly. With the help of the other person's best friend, they will lower their guard and get first-hand information at any time.

So, confess, start on the other side. Send messages and write love letters.

It's a conservative way because it's too embarrassing to be rejected in person. So it's also a good option to send messages or even write love letters. But it should be noted that the content of the hair must be carefully expressed and groomed, just like a gift.

There is no girl who doesn't like a gift of heart, not to mention that you become a quiet, beautiful and heartfelt love letter, which will be commemorative.

We've seen a lot of guys playing guitars and singing love songs in the dorm downstairs. It's a very romantic and daring way. If both of you belong to the category of people who are not afraid of being exposed to the public, this way can hardly be better.

It's important to pay attention to the other person's personality and the depth of your relationship. Because this kind of confession directly exposes the two of you to the public eye. It can be said to give the other person some special gifts, such as roses, bracelets, rings, etc.

So that the other person can understand your heart. Many people don't blame it, gifts and dates, maybe you don't have to confess, you become a couple.

Confession doesn't have to be so rigid and serious. Maybe a joke can also express your sincerity and sincerity. For example, if you watch a movie or go shopping together, you can joke that couples are generally like this, so we are also a couple.

If the other person doesn't speak, you just acquiesce. But the other party may just refuse, so don't move, use your hands and feet. Jokes can only come true if they are told a few times.

I usually chat with her more, and when I have time, I ask her to go out to eat and watch movies. When the time is right, that is, when you think the relationship between the two parties is stable, boldly confess to her.

Determine whether you really like it, or because you have been together for a long time, you can ask her in WeChat, or two people go to a meal, to judge whether the other party has such a heart.

Since it's a company, you can bring her food every morning. Create opportunities to eat together at noon. After work, we can make an appointment to go to the movies together. Don't be embarrassed, just chase it.

You can add this female colleague's WeChat, and then often chat with her to see what her reaction is, if she can also reply to your messages in a timely manner, it means that she also has feelings for you, and you can take the initiative to confess at this time.

I think it is best to express my heart to her directly, and it is better to say it privately, so that it will not be embarrassing to be rejected. Or test it out and see if she likes herself or not.

You can find a suitable time to ask her out in private, and then express your heart to her, so that you can know what the other party thinks.

First of all, you have to get your mindset right, don't be too irritable, usually you encounter this situation because you are too good. It's certainly not a whim for a colleague to introduce you to someone, and there are usually several reasons.

1.He has friends around him who think you're good.

Friends around colleagues feel that you are a good person, so they will naturally ask their colleagues for help and take you down as wingmen. If a colleague repeatedly mentions a person in front of you, and tries his best to render his positive image, then this is undoubtedly the case, for this situation, if you want to reject the other party tactfully, and at the same time have the harmony between the colleague and the colleague, there are many ways, but you must not deny the other party, the object of your introduction must be a colleague has a good relationship with that person, and you deny him, which is undoubtedly a negation of the concept of colleague choosing friends. You can try to tell a colleague:

I have someone I like. I'm waiting for someone. I feel like he's fine, but the family doesn't have the same thoughts.

And so on and so forth. Rejection is also a science, if the other party stalks you, don't be upset, you can find a friend of the opposite sex who has a better relationship and pretend to be your partner.

I hope mine is helpful to you, listen to my advice, meet good people together, no matter how beautiful the flowers will wither one day, they can only be discounted after being expensive and withering**.