Children who are disobedient always do not like to learn how to guide

As a parent, you need to guide your child patiently and step by step, let him know the importance of learning, let him love learning from the heart, find the joy of learning, and let him go to social exercise appropriately, knowing that life is not easy, so that he will cherish the learning opportunity more.

The first thing to do is to communicate with your child calmly to understand the reasons and set a good example for your child, such as learning with your child. Pay more attention to accompany your child, after all, your child has poor self-control and your parents are not around, so it is difficult for your child to control herself. Create a good learning environment for your child.

You can also enroll your child in some interest education classes, learn through play, and cultivate independent learning ability.

My son is 7 years old this year, in the second grade of primary school, usually live in the school, only come back on the weekend, when he is at school, the teachers praise him for studying hard, and the homework is done very well, but when he comes back to do his homework on the weekend, his father becomes a maniac patient, every time he comes to homework time, he hears shouting, sometimes I hear my son crying, and he comes back two days a week because of homework problems to make the whole family depressed. Later, the teacher told me that the more students do not like to study, the more parents should not deal with it head-on, but should do the opposite, do not always mention their grades in front of them, just encourage them, and do not compare themselves with others. For such students, teachers can play a good role in supervising them appropriately, neither paying too much attention to them, nor ignoring anything, just letting them go.

Read more books, magazines, etc.! Expand your knowledge, know what others say when talking to others, have common topics with others, and improve your self-confidence; Exercise more and get fit! This seems to have nothing to do with the theme, but in fact, a good figure can improve your confidence, not be afraid, and improve your psychological quality; Travel more and talk to strangers often!

increase their own experience and knowledge; Talking to strangers can enrich your knowledge, the so-called "threesome, there must be my teacher!" In addition, talking to strangers often can overcome nervousness and improve one's mental capacity!

When the amount of learning is large, you can study in stages, divide the learning tasks of the day into several small parts, and after each part of the study is completed, you can take a short break before moving on to the next part. Even if you encounter a difficult problem, parents should try to inspire their children, guide them, and solve them step by step.

When I was in junior high school, I often mingled with people who didn't like to study, and I didn't listen to classes and disrupted classroom discipline. Until the third year of junior high school, my homeroom teacher came to talk to me every once in a while, and I was more impressed that I was different from those students who behaved badly, my heart was still kind, and my heart was still eager to learn. This is not an exaggeration, once a person's potential is unleashed, nothing is impossible.

Therefore, in such a period of time, more encouragement, less criticism, no matter how bad the study is, it may be a little bit to learn a little, and give them more hope. ‍‍

Read more books, look at the world classics, the elegance of the literati is in the book! Through the words in the book, enter the hearts of literati. Talk to them, and slowly come out without literacy!

After all, people are a product of their environment! Of course, if there are conditions. Change yourself to a better environment and communicate more with people who have a positive outlook.

Enrich your spiritual world and establish the correct three views!

Learning may not be successful, but there must be a threshold on the road to success. Children are not willing to learn, you have to set an example to let children understand how cruel the competition in this world is, so that he clearly knows how bumpy the road will be without learning.

I've been thinking about this issue recently, and I think that inner literacy includes a person's character and also a person's knowledge. How a person's character is cultivated is still related to his own experience and family education, which may be supplemented by some reading and observation. Knowledge is improved through continuous reading, learning and personal experience, which not only refers to skills, but also refers to the accumulation of knowledge.

However, the amount of accumulation does not represent the level of inner literacy, the key to the level of a person's internal literacy lies in whether these accumulations have been transformed into a kind of values and thinking patterns that belong to you.

According to the child's interests and hobbies, he will be enrolled in a tutoring class first.

When you say that children don't like to learn, they just don't like the kind of learning you say. He must have his own interests and hobbies, and you can guide your child to develop his hobbies into specialties.

When I was in high school, before going to the competition, the principal told us a paragraph to the effect that the nervousness was due to lack of self-confidence, not because I didn't trust my own ability, but because I knew in my heart that I hadn't put in the effort I had done for the upcoming test. This passage had a great impact on me, not only curing my procrastination to a certain extent, but also making me almost never panic and nervous in the days that followed.

I think in this case, we can give them some rewards.

1.Learn to communicate with your child.

No one is born with a love of learning, and no one is born with a hate to learn. There must be a reason why you don't like to study, and the correct guidance of parents is very important. Parents need to communicate with their children more and understand their inner world. So you can know what's going on in their hearts.

2.Let children experience the sense of accomplishment that comes with learning.

A child who always fails will not experience the joy of success and will not work hard. Therefore, we must guide our children to have a sense of accomplishment in their learning. First of all, let the child deal with some simple learning problems, such as finding a few simple problems that the child can definitely do for the child, praise the child for being smart and clever after doing it, and give a certain material reward when appropriate, so that the child feels much better.

Next, gradually increase the difficulty while also developing your child's self-confidence.

3.Nurture your child's interest in learning.

Know that interest is a child's best teacher. We can try to develop more interest in our children. Interest is the driving force for learning and the basis for children to explore things. At the same time, we can add some incentives and punishments. It also needs to be both rigid and soft.

4.Let your child learn to be self-motivated.

It is often implied that the child is the best, that he can do better than others, but it is a matter of whether to do it or not, and then let the child set a goal for himself, set a time for himself to complete this goal, and let the child achieve it by himself. When this goal is achieved, give your child an encouraging reward.

5.Teach children how to learn.

Without an efficient learning method, the learning progress is slow and the academic performance is not significant, which will naturally dampen the child's enthusiasm for learning. Parents can help their children find the knowledge gap, make up for the gap first, and lay a solid foundation for the next learning; At the same time, they can learn to summarize and summarize knowledge points, learn systematically, and make learning more efficient.

1.Excessive pressure to study.

Today's parents have high hopes for their children and are very concerned about their children's academic performance, which makes the psychological pressure on their children increase. If you don't help your child release stress in time, your child will feel bored with school.

2. The child's learning method is wrong.

Some children are born with a dislike of learning and do not have the right guidance. As a result, the child's original psychological tolerance is relatively weak. If they study hard for a long time but do not get good grades, they will definitely lose confidence and become afraid of studying.

3.Weak-willed, poor stamina.

Today's children are almost all only children, the darlings of their parents. Almost any difficulties in life are solved by parents. Therefore, many children have poor perseverance and weak will.

Once you encounter difficulties, you will retreat, dare not study, dare not use your brain, and after a long time, you will feel tired of studying.

If the child does not like to learn, he must have no interest in learning, and should take the initiative to communicate with the child, ask the child what has happened recently, let him resist learning, or ask the teacher to ask about the child's situation and seek the teacher's help.

If we want to solve the problem that children don't like to learn, we should enhance children's interest in learning, and we can also take children to do some meaningful learning activities in daily life, which will help enhance children's curiosity about learning, strengthen children's learning in this area, and parents should also do a good job of guidance.

When the child is disobedient and resists learning, at this time you should teach the child well, tell the child the importance of learning, in fact, you can accompany the child to learn more, and encourage the child to build up the child's self-confidence.