What should I do if my boyfriend is also warm to other members of the opposite sex?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-03
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Personally, I think that there is nothing wrong with your boyfriend as a warm man, but the fault is to avoid suspicion if you don't understand it, and you should know how to grasp the size of women other than your girlfriend, that is, to stop in moderation! If your boyfriend doesn't know how to be warm to the opposite sex, then you really need to communicate with your boyfriend well, express your inner thoughts, and even make a stern warning to let him know that he cares about this matter.

    1. Communication. For the warmth of boyfriends, girls must feel particularly comfortable. However, it's a pity that this warmth is not exclusive to you, your boyfriend is simply ** air conditioner, so warm to all the opposite sex, then this is the problem.

    Therefore, if you mind this, it is necessary to communicate with your boyfriend, say your inner thoughts, express your wishes, and let your boyfriend know that his warmth has damaged each other's feelings, and I hope he can restrain a little.

    2. Solemn warning. After communication, if your boyfriend is still so warm and hasn't changed at all, then I think it's really necessary for you to give a stern warning. Not only do you have to tell your boyfriend that you mind this, but you have to make some demands, you can't just ask yourself unilaterally, and your boyfriend is "reckless".

    3. Choose to break up. There is a saying: It is better to demolish a temple than to destroy a marriage!

    But things, this sentence also needs to be divided into circumstances, and not all of them are like this. For the boyfriend who doesn't understand the proportions and doesn't know how to keep a distance, this is a bit like eating in a bowl and looking at the pot, there is a great probability that a third party will be involved. For warm men, they are generally amorous men, and such men are insecure for their girlfriends.

    , especially after his girlfriend shows her heart, she still goes her own way, even more so!

    For men, warmth is a good point, but it is important to know how to keep a distance and master the size, and it is the premise of warmth to make your girlfriend feel at ease and at ease.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think you should have a good talk with your boyfriend and tell him that you are a very jealous person, so if your boyfriend is warm to other people of the opposite sex, you will feel very uncomfortable.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Then you have to adapt to this kind of warmth, which means that your boyfriend is a warm man, but he is only warm to others, but he is love to you, if he is only warm to you, then you should consider whether you should continue to get along with him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's me who will choose to break up, such a boyfriend is very insecure, what is given to me is the same as what is given to others, I don't want it, I always feel that such a boyfriend is too affectionate.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can tell him that you don't like him to have too much contact with the opposite sex, and if he really cares about you, he will correct it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I will make it clear to my boyfriend that I don't mind his behavior and need him to correct it, and if he insists on it, I will consider whether our relationship should continue.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Let me tell you about it. Personally, I feel that the relationship should be severed.

    Let me tell you my story.

    My husband and I got married in a flash, so I only know a few of his male friends, and one day I looked at his q album A lot of his play with a girl** Kaga It's quite intimate, the kind of hook shoulders, and then I turned his Weibo and found that he and the girl were couple names, I decisively changed him, and then I saw that girl again, and other boys are also the kind of pulling, my husband said that they all treat her as a brother, at most an old sister, (when my husband proposed to me, she arranged the scene) Although I know that they are indeed having a good time, but I feel uncomfortable when I see my husband chatting and talking with her together, and playing with her like I used to be single, my husband is a game fan, and he played games with his teammates last night I heard him shout loudly, "Where's my sister Tang?" Don't hit my soup sister" I was not happy, I was alone at home with the baby during the day, and he didn't let him hold it when he came back at night, so that he had time to play games, he actually played so well with the girl, and when he finished playing with that, I turned off his computer directly, and then he lost his temper, saying that I was unreasonable, and told me countless times that it was his friend, but I was still jealous, and then I threw the door and went to the living room.

    Two close friends of the opposite sex, it's okay without their respective boyfriend and girlfriend, if one already has a other half and plays with friends of the opposite sex, it's the rhythm of a world-class war in a few minutes.

    Of course, some people are really simple friends, there is no simple idea of staring, families are neighbors, they can help or play with each other, from childhood to adulthood. But it's still worth understanding if your partner has a better friend of the opposite sex to see if you can tolerate it?

    Step 1: Frequently ask each other to start a black game. This boy seems to be very common, playing games to give ** to friends who often call, including the friend of the opposite sex who often goes black together.

    Especially when my girlfriend doesn't like to play games, it's really uncomfortable to see them chatting and texting.

    Step 2: Interact with each other often. The interaction is not one-sided, pay attention here, the boy will not immediately return the information to the girl he doesn't like, and even sell a cute one at every turn, at first glance, it is green tea, the key is that you have no boyfriend and you have to eat that set.

    He may not be able to reply to your message when he is free, and he is still known as a good friend with green tea.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When facing their own emotional problems, there are always some people who put themselves in a dead end, and they can't get out, not only do they feel uncomfortable but also can't solve the problem, which is very undesirable.

    When we encounter a problem, we must find a way to solve it, even if the solution does not develop as we imagined, at least we can give ourselves an ending.

    If the boyfriend gets along with the opposite sex closely, or even dates alone, this matter will definitely bring us a lot of trouble, so let's give you a few solutions.

    The first point is to treat himself in the way of others, first of all, we must make it clear that it must be very wrong and hurtful to have such a practice, because he is already a person with a target, so it is his duty to strictly require himself to keep a distance from other members of the opposite sex, but he has not done this, obviously he does not understand how much harm you will be hurt by such a practice.

    At this time, we can take the method of treating ourselves in the same way, let ourselves date other people of the opposite sex alone, and tell your boyfriend about it, so that he can experience your feelings. If your boyfriend cares about you very much, then he will definitely understand that this kind of practice is very harmful to the feelings between couples, and naturally there will be no more such actions that affect the feelings between two people. This practice of empathizing with the other party is still very effective in solving emotional problems.

    The second point is to raise the problem positively and resolve the conflictIf you are afraid that you will hurt the other person's heart by doing so, or let the relationship between the two people come to an end, then you can also raise the matter positively and actively resolve the conflict with your boyfriend.

    Sometimes boys are more straightforward, they don't know what kind of harm some of their actions will bring you, and they don't know what your own inner thoughts are. The third point is to test the sincerity, if you don't love it, there is another way, your boyfriend knows that he will make you sad by doing this, but he still doesn't care.

    At this time, you can test his sincerity through some behaviors, and judge whether he is with you because of love or just want to have fun.

    If two people are not together because of love, then there is no point in continuing this relationship, it is better to leave early, and let yourself meet a suitable person who really loves you. We can judge the other person's thoughts by taking the initiative to pick out the behavior of this matter, if he ignores your sadness, or does not think that his behavior is wrong, then there is no need for the relationship to continue.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I only think of one sentence, since he can be ambiguous with you and then be with you, then he can also be ambiguous with others and then be with others! Come to your senses, silly girl, this kind of flowery person is not worth wasting your good youth on him, wasting it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello! Let's break up! Or just tell him what you think. If he really loves you, he won't make you so miserable! Upstairs is right! Better a finger off than always aching! We can't go on like this! Absolutely not to be indulged!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Since you said it, you.

    The boyfriend also feels that he is not the right person, so look at what he does next, sometimes Ken can not be aware, just as a good friend, but did not find that his behavior and language have long been misunderstood, I used to have friends like this, others thought that the two of them were going to be together, and both of them had their own boyfriends and girlfriends, but both of them only regarded each other as friends, others reminded them, and they analyzed all kinds of things, and the two suddenly found that something was wrong, and then slowly got a lot better. Your worries are not superfluous, women are already sensitive to these things, but trust your boyfriend more; It's not that you're not good enough, find this, you calmly analyze, instead of making a fuss, it's already good, it's my words that have already fallen out, so, since your boyfriend has also found out that something is wrong, then you will see if they will change the current way of getting along!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you are not married, I think you should leave as soon as possible, and if you do marry him in the future, it will be even worse.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Be careful. This is a sign of signs, pestering him to find something to do so that he doesn't have a chance to chat with the girl.

    Tell him that he will be sad to know about this, although he doesn't care, but he is not very comfortable in his heart, which makes him feel guilty.

    In addition, ** is twice as good to him, becomes beautiful, and is twice as gentle.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    My ex-girlfriend did something so that I didn't associate with any other men.

    So I want to tell you that if he really treats you as a girlfriend, takes into account your feelings, and sees that you object, even if he thinks this girl is very good, he will alienate him, because he wants to put you first.

    If he doesn't restrain after you object, then even if the girl and he are just friends, it shouldn't be tolerated.

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