Is it because of true love or because of cowardice?

Personally, I think that the person who will always be in the relationship is because of cowardice, but also because of true love, the two I think are inseparable, and there is an inevitable connection between them, because true love is afraid of losing, so it becomes cowardly, and it is precisely because of cowardice that it will be hurt! There is a saying that poor people must have something to hate, and for those who are hurt because of cowardice in love, it can only be said that they are sad and angry with their misfortunes!

1. Because of love, so indulgent. When we really love someone, we will tolerate some small shortcomings and even unreasonable troubles of the other party, which is also a very normal mood between couples. However, when this tolerance turns into connivance, it will only make one of them become unscrupulous, or even worse, and all kinds of reasonable and unreasonable demands will be raised, and when they are not satisfied, they will be angry with the other side, which is also caused by excessive indulgence.

2. Because of love, it is easy to reconcile. Everyone will have their own bottom line, and when the other party touches their bottom line, they will definitely be very angry. However, for people who are in true love, being angry is only at that time, and they will also be forgiven because of the other party's apology and a little coquettishness, and it is precisely because of such an easy reconciliation that the other party is becoming more and more presumptuous, because in his heart, there is already a concept that is:

Even if the other party is angry or injured, it's good to coax it, what a big deal.

3. Cowardice because of love. When you love someone too much, and then you are worried about losing the other person, then the initiative in love is completely attributed to the other party, and you can only passively accept, or even become cowardly, dare to be angry and dare not speak. No matter how much the other party hurts your heart and makes you complain in your heart, you will only blindly tolerate you, so that the other party has no scruples.

4. Injured because of cowardice. Cowardly people, when faced with the harm of others to themselves, will only comfort themselves, and even still fantasize that the other party may just be in a bad mood for a while, and make all kinds of excuses and fantasies for their cowardice. For this kind of passive person, I just want to say:

You don't get hurt, who gets hurt?

Of course, love needs true love, but it does not mean that you need to use cowardice to show that you are true love. There are many ways to love, but you choose the most humble one, wake up, this is not the so-called true love, just your wishful thinking!

People who are always hurt in their relationships are definitely caused by their own cowardice, because they don't know how to take the initiative in the relationship, and they just blindly give.

Most of it is because of cowardice. That's why they get hurt in their feelings, and people like this should learn to be brave.

I think it's because of cowardice, he didn't dare to take the initiative to say that he wanted to break up, he didn't dare to point out the other party's faults, so he could only timidly bury things in his heart.

It's because of true love and vulnerability, because in a relationship, two people are easily hurt, and such people are often genuinely in love and a little vulnerable.

People who are always hurt in their relationships, in fact, because they are particularly weak, that is, their hearts are too weak, so they can't get the love of the other party and are often hurt.

It's because of true love, because he gives too much in the relationship, and the more he gives, the more it hurts.

If you are always hurt in the relationship, it must be your own fault, and it will definitely not be caused by too much investment and sincerity, and I feel that it is directly related to my cowardice.

The person who is always hurt should be because of true love, because he loves him and wants to give everything for him, then it is easy to get hurt.

People who are hurt in a relationship are often serious people, only when they are serious will they care, and only when they are let down will they be hurt.

Some people in the relationship will always choose to give up everything for the sake of the relationship, including their own personality and principles, this kind of person is difficult to let go of when facing a breakup, and is the most easily hurt.

Yes, the greater the ability to empathize, the greater the chance of injury.

People with high empathy are also extremely sensitive, easily become a people-pleaser, prone to over-giving, making wrong sacrifices, caring too much about other people's opinions, easily losing themselves, and are anxious and depressed people who are more likely to be tormented by interpersonal relationships and things they can't do.

Sensitive people are like holding a magnifying glass to see the world, all the good is doubled, all the ugliness is doubled, too rich imagination makes a little sweet into sweet, a little bitter into painful, their mood is like a roller coaster all day long.

Personal traits of empathy:

1. Compare the heart with the heart: be able to replace the person with yourself, put yourself in the shoes of others to feel and understand others, and use this as the basis for dealing with interpersonal relationships and solving communication problems at work.

2. Sensory sensitivity: have a high ability to perceive the emotions and feelings of oneself and others, and be able to accurately judge and recognize the emotions and emotional states of others through non-verbal information such as expressions, tone and limbs.

3. Empathetic communication: the speaker wants to speak, and the listener wants to hear.

4. Empathy: Do what the other person thinks is important in a way that the other person is interested in.