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I think that a normal person, life will not give up on you, you can only give up life. Of course, you may be living a very hard life now, but there are many people who are just as hard as you, because everyone has different backgrounds, different experiences, and different environments, resulting in a gap between the rich and the poor, but this is not a reason for everyone to give up life. If you think that life has given up on you at this point, this statement is wrong.
Let me tell you about my life.
My husband is an ordinary worker, and he used to work more than 10 hours a day, and he only earned 4,000 yuan a month. Since this year, I have changed jobs, and my monthly salary is more than 6,000 yuan, which is really very satisfying for me.
I am a stay-at-home mom with a baby every day. Some people say that it is very hard to bring up a baby, but I don't think so, I think I can witness the growth of children every day, which is a very happy thing. On the contrary, I feel that my husband can't witness the growth of the children every day, which is a pity.
But how can life be as good as it should be, my husband is holding up our whole family!
Actually, I think my life is good, but maybe the society will define my life differently, and even my friends will think that I have a very bad life. My friends have all bought cars and houses, but we don't have anything. They leave the children in the care of their in-laws and can have more income in a month, but we don't.
Even so, they are still complaining that life is not good enough, and when they see me, they may have a certain psychological satisfaction, and even sometimes when I say a word, they think I am sour.
Everyone's experiences are different and they think differently. No one can define whether someone else's life is happy or not, but only their own life. Maybe I don't want much, and I don't have high requirements!
So for my life, I'm satisfied. I have a husband who loves me, a husband who is dedicated to his family, and a lovely son, these are my treasures. I've always thought that maybe everything I have is happiness that no one else can achieve.
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My current life is nondescript and barely surviving, because I don't have too high requirements for life, as long as I live a peaceful and peaceful life.
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I live now, I can't say that I am particularly happy, but it is okay, I feel that I am more than less than the above, my life is quite passable, I have a happy family and a lovely son.
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Life is good now, I have a happy family, life is quite harmonious, I am very satisfied with my current life.
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I'm living a pretty good life right now. Having a stable job and a happy family is what I desire.
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I am living a good life now because I know how to work hard, work hard and create a better future.
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I think my life is quite good now, I have a happy family, sensible parents, lovely parents, and I hope that my studies will be more successful.
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I have a very good life now, I now have a house, a car and a deposit, and my daughter has a PhD. I feel very happy in life.
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My current life is still very good, I have my own wife and children, and I have a very good income, and I am very satisfied.
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My life is very happy now, I have achieved my dreams, I will continue to struggle, and my family life is very happy.
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My life is okay now, and I will choose to fight against life and bravely pursue my dreams.
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I have a very happy life now, I have a husband who loves me and a lovely son, and the family of three is living happily, I don't think there is anything happier than this.
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Recently, I have been facing a lot of challenges at work, and I am a person who knows how to quit, so negative emotions keep jumping into my mind. At the same time, there were people who kept luring me with seemingly beautiful bait. Luckily, I remembered the result of the same choice I made last time, so this time I decided to take the hard path.
Two years ago, because I felt that I couldn't afford to buy a house in a first-tier city, I didn't have a sense of belonging, and I didn't pay attention to accumulation and improvement in my work, so it was not very smooth to change jobs. Obviously, I didn't work hard enough, but I hope that a different environment can improve it. So I went back to a small fourth-tier city.
Soon, I was relentlessly awakened by reality, with fewer job opportunities and lower wages in fourth-tier cities, but longer hours.
You often think that life is unfair to you, but have you ever seriously asked yourself: Have you taken life seriously?
People who live seriously will not have a bad life.
Because they live seriously, they work hard and don't give up on themselves, so they always find a chance in life. When I was in a first-tier city, I heard that a department leader with an annual salary of hundreds of thousands of yuan would deliver a few takeaways to his community on the way home from work. A person with an annual salary of hundreds of thousands will deliver food after work.
I admire this kind of behavior, no matter what height I have reached, I am still willing to try new things, willing to do these seemingly small things.
So how serious are you about your life? Do you work hard, take the initiative, and take the initiative to find and meet challenges when you go to work? After work, do you continue to improve and improve, or do you catch up on dramas, go shopping and chat?
Your present state is the result of a series of choices and actions you have made in the past. Did you voluntarily give up on life or did life give up on you? Do you say "no" to difficulties and opportunities, or do you rise to the occasion and take every step seriously?
Everyone makes mistakes, and every mistake has a cost. It's not terrible to make mistakes, it's the abandonment in your heart that is terrible. When you give up in your heart, you will no longer have a choice.
So, no matter what, please protect your yearning for a better life, see yourself as the most important part of your life, your thoughts are important, your desires are important, and your ideals are important. When you choose to live seriously, life will also give you a serious world.
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"Robinson Crusoe" is the representative work of the British writer Defoe, it is the first realism in the history of English literature, it created a new literary genre, and created a precedent for realism in the 18th century.
Born into a wealthy family, Robinson grew up adventurous and hoped to one day travel the world. Once, he was tragically shipwrecked while at sea and drifted on a desert island. There he did not give up hope of living, and with his own efforts, he created his own home on the island, his own field, and made a savage friend.
Later, thanks to their efforts, they returned to their hometown. They gave the island to some Spaniards.
After reading Robinson Crusoe, I couldn't help but feel a little admiration for Robinson. He was able to create a kingdom of his own on an island that was deserted and had no tools or supplies for life! The tenacious and optimistic Robinson taught me a truth:
As long as you don't give up on life, life won't give up on you. If you drift alone on a desert island, most people will despair, but Robinson did not give up hope of life, he relied on his own hands, his own efforts, his own wisdom, to transform this desolate island into a rich island nation! If Robinson was also desperate like everyone else, "sitting and waiting to die", then how could he live today's "worry-free" life?
As long as you don't give up on life, life won't give up on you.
In the world, there are many people like Robinson who still persevered despite setbacks. When Helen Keller was a child, she was physically handicapped and could not live like a normal person, but she did not give up hope of living on. worked hard and later became a writer; Beethoven loved ** since he was a child, but later became deaf, but he did not give up, he created a way to block him from playing the piano, and later became a ** family; Li Yue, who loves ballet, lost her legs in a **, but no one could stop her dance steps, and her persistence won more applause from the audience.
As long as you don't give up on life, life won't give up on you.
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