Why do you think your life is going to get better and better, when in reality it s getting worse and

My theory may not be the same as yours, I seem to be getting better and better, but in fact, the essence of life is getting worse and worse.

I have graduated for five years, I have had an economic income for 5 years, I paid a down payment loan to buy a car, my parents bought a house, and now I seem to be an office worker with a car and a house, and the salary is okay among my peers.

This kind of life is safe and unthinkable in the year of graduation, the year of graduation, living in a rental house of 500 yuan a month, squeezing the bus to and from work, and being reluctant to take a taxi in the pouring rain, cooking noodles at home every morning and evening, and going to the supermarket to find the best quick-frozen food.

Back then, I envied the high-tech led by the supervisor, envied the sales brother who bought a car within a few years of work, envied the company's colleagues who had their own houses, and envied the personnel lady who had so many textured little dresses to wear.

Now I have everything I envy, and it seems that life is getting better and better. But in some respects, it seems to be getting worse and worse.

Parents bought a house, but also parents to help pay off the mortgage, I bought a car every month to take out a part of the salary to repay the car loan, the salary is more, the expenses have become larger, every month of gas money, every year of car insurance money, every quarter to buy themselves a dress that can be worn out, every year to have a lot of money to deal with.

At the end of the year, I didn't save a penny, and my work was as busy as ever, so busy that I didn't have time to get together with friends, spend time with my parents, enjoy life, and experience the sense of security and comfort given to me by the material conditions of the house and car.

Has life really changed for the better? It seems that yes, the material conditions are good, and there is no need to worry about whether each meal can be accompanied by a meat meal. But what about the spirit?

What we looked forward to when we were young, we wanted to grow up, and now I miss it even more. My quality of life is getting better and better, but I miss the days when I had nothing with my husband. Now I wear it better and better, but I think that pair of travel shoes because I can't afford it, and I finally feel like I bought it.

It is true that our lives are getting better and better, but our spiritual food is getting worse and worse.

I miss the feeling when I was a child, when a bowl of rice, mixed with meat oil, mixed with soy sauce can have a meal, at that time I just need to say that I went out to play, my grandfather and my grandmother will not look at me, a group of children play at the door when I go out, no toys, play with sand, jump rubber bands, play yo-yo, play at home, and everyone plays together, then happy, whoever has delicious food has to eat secretly, there are too many children, I am afraid that I can't divide it, and it is not easy to divide, after all, the materials at that time were quite lacking, a piece of clothing my mother made for me, Since I was a child, my mother's clothes were all made, and they were unique and good-looking, and some parents would also let my mother help make a set for his children.

Nowadays, life is good, you can eat whatever you want, you can buy whatever you want, a new dress, a new pair of shoes, can no longer let me have the kind of happiness I once had, now it seems that I am looking at the circle of friends every day, but there are few people who want to talk, there are fewer relatives to contact, and neighbors do not know each other, and there seem to be a lot fewer people who can talk to us, some don't know whether they should be in contact, and some are not in contact at all.

Life is getting better and better, the feelings are light, the quality of life is also light, light and tasteless, and it is casual, I miss what I once liked but couldn't get, how much I miss the people I once had, and the things I once had!

Many people will have this perception, especially in big cities. We call this the Happiness Survey, and a lot of people who live in big cities don't have a lot of happiness. Why is this so? I have the following opinion....

In fact, as our country continues to grow stronger, people's living standards are indeed getting better and better in all aspects, so why do so many people still think that it is getting worse and worse? Because our needs are high, our level of knowledge has increased. The needs of all aspects of our cultural life have increased, but the level of our social development has not kept up with the various needs of people's hearts, so you will feel worse and worse.

Like, you receive a salary of thousands of dollars a month, but you want to live in a villa and drive a sports car for millions of dollars. There will be a big gap in your heart, and you will complain about the unfairness of life and the injustice of society. However, you have to believe in our country, and instead of complaining, you should think about how to make money to meet your inner needs.

If you compare your current life with that of a few decades ago, you will find out how much our life has changed, and you will be grateful for the country's strength and reform and opening up.

Do you want to live a life where you couldn't even eat? With the changing times, people's needs and desire for money have increased. When the people around you become more and more materialistic, when other people's lives are better than yours, there will be a greater gap in your heart.

So you will feel that life is getting worse and worse, but in fact, our lives are greatly changed and improved. So you have to be right.

Therefore, a large number of people in big cities will feel that their life is getting worse and worse because their current situation cannot meet their inner needs, forming a serious sense of disparity. So it's better to think about how to get rich is the main thing.

When you feel like life is getting worse, life really gets worse and worse, why is that? Your psyche is at work, and in one experiment, researchers showed hundreds of colors, ranging from pure blue to pure purple. At first, the ratio of blue and purple dots is the same, and the answer reflects this ratio.

However, after a while, the researchers began to show fewer "blue dots". Without exception, these attempts always start to mark more purple dots as blue. "When blue spots became less prominent, participants expanded their definition of blue," the study authors wrote.

The human brain is apparently deliberately balancing the colors of the dots based on previous experience. Even if the researchers clearly say they see fewer blue dots, people still make the same mistakes.

<> the road traveled, the road walked, the road walked, went through countless tests, and only in the end did it achieve positive results. In the same way, on the road of life, everyone may encounter such a threshold, on this threshold, constantly alternating various situations and difficulties, without which life will go smoothly, face obstacles, be brave and positive! Don't trust any thresholds!

When we were young, we thought reading was the most painful thing in the world, and that's when adults understood that reading was the fairest way on earth.

After observation, it is not difficult to find that it is not difficult to read, but it is difficult to live without reading. If you want a high salary and not enough education, you can only use meager wages and tiring manual labor, slightly higher than the threshold of the occupation, and you can't work, because you don't have the corresponding ability, and you can't go further in learning, and you can only endure hardships in China and the world, whether it's in study, diploma or work, you can't be complacent. Because the night is a very active period of imagination, but there is less judgment and understanding than during the day, in this case, we believe that things are very fond of thinking in extreme directions, emotions flash at the same time at this point in time, and if you think of an important event that concerns you, and the more this dark package becomes a cloak of danger, the more serious its emotional impact will be if people unconsciously think in a negative direction.

I think this should be called empathy, because life is getting worse and worse, so what you feel bad is that this is what has happened in reality in a year, although we can't make everything different, but sometimes, if it really happens in reality, it will be like this. In fact, when we feel that life is bad, then life really becomes very bad, both financially and psychologically, we are under a lot of pressure, so when we talk about life, in fact, it is like this in many cases. In the past, if I thought my life was bad, it might just be financial, but now I think it's different that the psychological situation will be even worse.

Life will become more anxious, anxious to what to do tomorrow, how to do tomorrow and so on, such a thing, I think life is bad, is due to the various setbacks we encounter in real life, in fact, this is very normal, everyone's words have a sixth sense, especially for some girls, her sixth sense is more powerful. In this case, he will feel that he has become very bad, and after encountering a bad environment, then he has to rethink how to do this thing, how to solve this problem.

Life itself should be getting better and better, but not as we wish, life sometimes goes in a bad direction, so in my opinion, the words are such a thing, I think life, then we usually have to work harder, but sometimes hard work can not necessarily change the future. But we should have a faith to do it, in fact, sometimes we have to go with the flow, many things in life are not grasped by us, many times it is like this, so I think life is like this.

When you feel that life is getting worse and worse, most of them are caused by your own psychological factors, everyone yearns for happiness, but everyone's happiness is different, so in real life, you must know satisfaction, don't blindly demand and complain, don't compare with each other, and look at life with a peaceful heart.

will see a lot of things as negative.

This is a good thing to be cautious about, reflecting China's progress and achievements in the fields of economy, education, medical care, and social security, as well as the improvement of people's quality of life.

1.Economic Development:

The rapid development of China's economy has provided people with better material living conditions, such as increased income and employment opportunities.

2.Social Security:

3.Educational Development:

4.Cultural Heritage:

5.Policy support:

For those who are married, there will be a very real question in front of them: Have you ever regretted marrying someone you are marrying now? ......Different people have different answers to this question.

For me, I don't regret marrying my lover and I feel very happy. ......The reason for this is that we are really happy in our marriage, we are very harmonious in our relationship, and we are very happy with each other.

1. From a practical point of view, the marriage between us is indeed very happy.

If a person is unhappy with his marriage, then his Chaila marriage must be unhappy. ......In terms of the current state of my marriage, I feel that my marriage is very happy, and in this state, I cannot regret my marriage. ......In fact, I am very happy with my marriage.

2. The relationship between us is very harmonious, so I don't regret my marriage.

In a regretful marriage, the relationship between the husband and wife will definitely tremble in many problems, and there will definitely be no harmony between each other. ......But from the perspective of my marriage, the relationship between me and my lover is very harmonious, and the relationship between the two of them is very good. In such a state, I am extremely satisfied with my Suidong slippery marriage and do not regret it at all.

3. We are very happy with each other and therefore have no regrets about the marriage.

When a person regrets his marriage, he is certainly dissatisfied with his wife and husband. Such a state will directly make the relationship between two people worse and worse, and eventually lead to the breakup of two people. ......But I am very satisfied with my lover, we appreciate each other, our feelings for each other are very deep, and we live very happily and harmoniously.

Therefore, I have no regrets about my marriage at all, but I am very satisfied and happy.

Life is nothing more than to live for the sake of living, everyone has their own way of living and choices, some people may yearn for a busy and complicated life, while some people want to live a peaceful and leisurely life.

In this society, the pace of change is too fast, and the pace of life is also keeping up with the pace, we are running for life every day, and we want to make our future Vibi and our family life a little better, so we must continue to learn from experience and knowledge to be able to change our lives.

On the road of life, we have understood many truths along the way, and we have seen many people and things that are right and wrong, but we must know that if we want to live a better life, we must have these three things.

Only then can you walk comfortably and happily on your life path. Simplicity is not to be poor, but to simplify life, to live a complex life simply, and there will not be so many troubles.

Be positive about life, live a good today, do not climb high or far, live your own small life, and maintain a correct outlook on life. If you don't have health, you will not only bring a painful burden to your spine and your family, but you will also be tormented by illness in this life, and the gains outweigh the losses.

Whether it is for ourselves or our families, we must pay attention to our physical condition, exercise more, and develop good living habits. This kind of life will be better and better in Sakurayama. . . .