When you feel that your life is very small, how do you find hope?

I will set a goal for myself and do my best to achieve it so that there is no frustration.

Then I will think about what I am interested in, and then what kind of work I want to do in the future to find the direction.

I would find a place where I could be quiet, let myself think about what I really wanted, and then look for hope based on my own thoughts.

I think when you find that your life is very slim, you must set a goal for yourself, and then find your own shining point, so that you can have hope.

I think you should still set a goal for yourself, so that you can have a way forward, and the motivation to work hard will also allow you to find hope and make yourself better.

The people I think of when I am most confused and helpless in my life have stages.

The first stage was when I was a child, hanging out with my best children, but that day, I was deceived by her, and that was the first time I felt lost and helpless, and I thought of my parents and cried and told them to ask for help. The parents also dealt with the problem easily, and went directly to her parents. The boat of friendship capsized.

The second stage is when I was a young man, before I got married to my boyfriend, when I went to a different place to buy the necessary items for marriage, I had the first violent quarrel on an unfamiliar street for a trivial matter, and I felt very lost and helpless, and I didn't know whether to marry my boyfriend or not. The first thing that came to mind was my brother, who hit him and cried heartbreakingly.

The three stages of the first high school are now, and when I am middle-aged, I understand that others cannot change their lives, and the life of adults is not simple. Telling their loved ones only increases their worries and sadness. So now I bury everything in my heart and bear it silently by myself.

I can't know what my state of mind will be in the future, and who I will turn to for help when I am confused and helpless in the future. But I think that as long as you treat people with sincerity and do things seriously, everything will be better.

If you feel like life is hopeless, try asking for help. Sometimes, sharing your thoughts and feelings with others can help you feel lighter and more hopeful. You may also consider seeking help from a mental health professional who can work with you to resolve life's difficulties and help you find hope and solutions.

In addition, consider improving your mood and quality of life by doing the following:

Maintain a healthy lifestyle, including exercise and a good diet.

Keep in touch with close friends and family.

Get involved in fun activities and hobbies.

Learn new skills and honing knowledge.

Try to think positively and focus on the positive things in your life.

Remember that the difficulties and feelings of hopelessness in life are temporary and can be improved. Face the challenge and believe you can get through it.

Do you have such thoughts, have you recently encountered something that makes you feel helpless, so that you have negative thoughts about life? There are always more ways to do it than to find a way, or to ask for help from professional solutions, there will always be a way out. If it is really impossible to solve it, Wang Shi will also face it calmly, because the problems to be faced in life must not only be in front of him.

A friend of mine told me that he felt lost and didn't know where to go, and he asked me to give him a clear suggestion for liquid fiber pins.

I told him that no one can make decisions for another person explicitly, and that he is the only one who can take charge of his life. As a friend, all I can do is alleviate the emotions that are bothering him.

Although the answer is cruel, life is what it is.

It's not just my friends who have this kind of confusion, in fact, I also feel this kind of confusion all the time, I always feel trapped in one place and can't break free, I can't see the value of vertical or life, and I don't know where to go.

Deep down, what you want is nothing more than someone else to acknowledge your existence unconditionally and love you naturally.

But I knew it was just a dreamlike phantom, unsearchable and intangible.

Because in the end, the one who loves you unconditionally is you except your parents. And, for me, the "unconditional love" of my parents, I have a question mark. I always felt that I was an outsider to the "love system" at home, and I was able to be among them only because I had a little value.

But is my younger brother, the object of my envy and jealousy when I was a child, really loved? Being unconditionally spoiled into a "giant baby" who has no ability to cope with the outside world, can only retreat in case of trouble, and lives by tobacco and games, is it really loved?

I seek true love, but what does true love look like? Am I spending my whole life constantly replenishing my own skills, just seeking a self-loving self who is loved because it is full of various functions? Pure me, isn't it cute?

Can stand out from the crowd on its own?

The process of finding answers is like sailing on water, it is difficult to set foot on solid ground, only to move forward bravely, and perhaps in the process of moving forward, you can find a land that can be inhabited.

So, I'm sorry, I can't tell you where the direction is, because I'm looking for my own direction.

But I believe that in the process of finding meaning, you will gradually understand the direction of life, remove the fog, and a waterway will appear in the reverse water, and get through it, maybe the rainbow is just around the corner.

Hello! After reading your description copy, I understand your BAI mood very well. I think that no matter who encounters such a thing, there will be some reason in the heart.

If you feel uncomfortable, forgive me for using the word uncomfortable, because I can't come up with a more suitable word as soon as I get in.

However, there is a certain period of time for discomfort, and some people may be able to adjust their mood in just a week or a month and start working hard towards their ideals!

Of course, there may be some people who will take longer than you, maybe a year, two years, or even the whole college will not be able to let go of the unhappiness caused by this matter!

What I want to say is that no one can be perfect in their life! It's not all more or less regrettable! So in the face of regret, do we always immerse ourselves in it and repent for it all our lives? Or do you want to come out as soon as possible and re-plan your life?

I know that many things are easier said than done! However, I think that as long as we work hard, there may really be nothing in the world that we can't do, only what we don't want to do! What do you say?

From now on, please change your mentality, and go to a junior college is just like a university, are you lucky to be better than those who can't enter the university campus for some reason in your life? Also, if you feel unwilling, then you can upgrade to a college in school!

Finally, I sincerely wish you well! Happy everyday! Hehe, try to laugh every day of your life, okay?

There are peaks and valleys in life.

Half a year is in the trough.

It's natural and normal.

The key is to step out of the shadows now.

Regain a positive state of mind.

Even from now on.

How to call it a goal-oriented look, know what you want and want to do.

In fact, people's roads are everywhere, and it doesn't matter if you take the undergraduate exam or not, which shows that your life path is somewhere else.

Since I didn't get into BAI

If you are in a good university, you have to work harder. zhi

Could it be that the successful people in society are all from Tsinghua DAO and Peking University?

What rights are lost? I will be a sophomore in another semester, and I will basically intern in my junior year, and I haven't learned anything, and I will know that it is pitiful then. No matter what university you are in, as long as you want to study, you can learn a lot of things, if you have the ability, you can take 2 more majors, explore your interests and specialties, and then you will have no problem going to graduate school and graduate school, but I am most afraid that you will waste your time, but you will give yourself an excuse.

Life can't be without goals, goals are too high, or unrealistic can't do it, you have to set goals that suit you, start a meaningful life, work hard to do well, do right, and be happy every day.

Reading is not the only way out.

Spend all the money you have and you'll have a goal!

Mmmm, that's what I thought about normally.

Everyone will encounter a time of disappointment in life, because not everyone's life is smooth, there will always be ups and downs, these are some setbacks and some challenges in your life, in the face of these difficulties, we should not be tied up, we should stand up to face these difficulties and troubles, the more depressed you are in your heart, the less you can raise your fighting spirit, so as long as you encounter difficulties in life, you will soon lose confidence, and you will also find that you will have more and more setbacks in your later life.

If you don't meet the difficulties, the more they will like you, just like in life you are bullied and do not fight back, in the eyes of others you are a particularly good bully, if you dare to resist, then they will definitely stay away from you, no one dares to bully you, so when we encounter setbacks, don't be afraid, to fight against setbacks, don't leave regrets in your life, don't let yourself be unwilling, no matter what difficulties you encounter, let yourself work hard 100%.

The meaning of life is reflected when you defeat setbacks again and again, everyone will adopt a different attitude in the face of setbacks, some face difficulties, some turn around and run, so their lives are also different, and the value of life they achieve is not the same. Since we have life, we must realize the meaning of life, so do not be discouraged in the face of failure, we must have the spirit of fighting against failure, and let ourselves stand up and fight again, I think this is the meaning of life.

When people are confused, it is often because they do not have a clear goal and direction, first of all, you must understand what you want and how to achieve this goal, this is the direction.

The meaning of life is to keep trying and making mistakes, constantly experiencing these bad things, grinding a hot heart to the edges and corners, getting up again and again, and moving from failure to the life you want.

There is only one way to the end in life, change the road for a few more days, even if the road is not suitable for you every day, you will find the road that suits you. You, like many of your friends, don't dare to try new jobs and environments. Be bold and starve no matter what, learning experience is what you earn.

For me, the meaning of life is to realize the unity of personal value and social value. The setbacks of losing your job and falling out of love are temporary, you can find a new job, and maybe you can meet someone who is more suitable for you, hopefully tomorrow.

I think the meaning of life lies in the value of living. Even in the face of unemployment and lovelorn, you have to be strong to live, because after the storm is the rainbow, I believe that you will definitely succeed one day.

I think the reason why people can be born as human beings is that God gives you a chance to experience the world and go through a life that only belongs to you. Looking at your name, you know that you are quite confused, in fact, since you have been born, you can just live with it. Come on.

I always feel lost and can't find the direction of life, I think it may be because you don't know what you want, you don't know what you should do, so it's best to find a job first.

Su Yang quickly handled the handover. After work, we made an appointment to have dinner together. I asked Su Yang:

Do you have any thoughts on what's next? "Su Yang told me that she actually didn't like working in the industry, even though it coincided with her college major. But after real contact, she realized that she didn't like it, and the more she did it, the more she rebelled.

Freelance writing is about asking the question, "What would you do in this life if you had enough time and money?" "Find a quiet time, prepare paper and pen, relax, and start letting your thoughts into the imaginary world.

There is infinite wealth in the world. You don't need to work to support yourself, so you can do what you want. What is it?

Keep writing, and you'll always know what you want. Therefore, in the process of moving towards the purpose of life, we need to be clear about the goal, not the path. As long as we keep confirming that what we're doing right now is close to the target state, we can get out of it.

Stop internal friction and learn to control Now as we move towards our goal, there will always be various emergencies. For example, when a working mother is on a business trip, she receives ** from home, and her child has a fever. What should we do?

One situation is because of the fear of the child's illness and affecting the quality of work, which is an internal friction against oneself. Removing inner friction is to clear one's inner emotions and complete the work on the premise of quality assurance, which is a better result. It's about finishing work early and going home.

Due to the particularity of my work, my friend Jia Jia often travels at the end of each year, and each business trip lasts at least half a month. I remember one time I met and chatted with Jiajia and mentioned that she wanted to change jobs. I was surprised and asked her why.

She talked about what happened at home not long ago on a business trip.

Every time Jia Jia goes on a business trip, her daughter stays at her grandmother's house. During a business trip, Jiajia's daughter became so ill that a high fever caused her to have a seizure in the middle of the night and was eventually taken away by an ambulance. I asked her if she would be back the next day.

Jiajia said she didn't. Daughters have fathers, grandmothers and grandfathers. Manpower is sufficient.

In terms of work, since the project has ended, we will do it. A good job.

In the end, Jiajia's daughter was hospitalized for more than half a month and has been discharged. However, Jia Jia has not changed jobs until now, but has been promoted. I think this has a very direct relationship with Jia Jia's ability to control the present.

Many people can't "control the present". Jiajia knew that her daughter was sick and had been hospitalized. She was thousands of miles away, unable to help the child's condition.

It's best to do the work at that time. Many times, housewives are not busy taking care of the family or taking care of their own work, but worry about their children when they are busy with work, but worry about work when they are together. These situations are an invisible emotional internal friction that will result in children not being well cared for.