Can I go to someone else s house or my mother s house before the month?

This is a traditional Chinese folk saying, just after giving birth, especially a woman who has just had a miscarriage is not clean, if she goes to someone else's house before the full moon, it will destroy the feng shui of her family's home.

And bring bad luck.

From the perspective of women's health, they can't go out! You can't go to other people's houses. When giving birth, the mother's bone seams are opened, and the body structure changes greatly, and if you go out to run around during the confinement period, you are prone to wind and get sick, and confinement disease.

If it is not healed, it will be sinned for the rest of its life.

Therefore, people should not go to other people's homes during the confinement period, because they are unlucky to others. When the moon is full, you have to go back to your parents' house first.

Stay for a few days before going back to your own home, and then you can go to someone else's house.

This is the thinking of the older generation, and there is actually no scientific basis for it, but it is better not to go, in case someone happens to have something, they will blame you.

It's best not to go out, but you can go back to your parents' house, because your mother will take good care of you, and girls who don't have a full moon try to recuperate at home, which is very important for your health in the future.

Can I go to someone else's house or my mother's house before the month? According to the customs and habits of each place, it is generally not possible, and the older generation says that it is not good to go to other people's houses and mother's houses without a full moon, but I don't know if it is, anyway, it is the rules left by the older generation, which have been passed on.

It's best not to do this, because when there is no full moon, you can't go to other people's homes or your mother's house during the confinement period, and you feel that it will bring bad luck to others.

No! Because our tradition is that we can't go to other people's homes, and people will be disgusted.

Children should try to go out as much as possible, and they can go out if the weather is good, but they cannot go out during confinement in China, so try to minimize it.

Depending on the local customs, we can't do it there, and it's probably not very clean together, and you can walk around when the moon is full.

It's best not to go, the rural saying is easy to bring disaster to other people's homes, and it will be taboo.

It's a pleasure to talk to you about your child's upbringing. The baby's full moon wine is generally handled at the in-law's house, when the child is not yet full moon, try not to run around with the child, the child's body organs are developing, and the air on the road contains a large number of bacterial particles, which is not very good for the child's respiratory tract, so it is not recommended that you go. There are many superstitious sayings among the people in our country, and this depends on the individual's situation.

The customs and habits of each place are different, some places can be some places, and some places are not, but we can't do it in this place.

Don't go, there is this saying, hold on, and wait for the full moon to go**.

During confinement, it is best not to go out before the month, it is easy to be invaded by wind and cold, and health is the first.

It's best not to go to someone else's house if you don't have a month, and some people are taboo.

No, let's go again when the moon is full.

It's better not to go, some people are more taboo about document things.

It depends on the customs of each place, so just follow the local customs, after all, each place is different

After giving birth to a baby, it takes a period of time for her body to get a good recovery, so during this period, in addition to conditioning her body, she can not move around at will. But many mothers will have the idea of going back to their parents' homes and getting more care from their parents' families. So, what happens if you don't go back to your parents' house without a full moon, why can't you go back to your parents' house without a full moon?

Let's find out.

For mothers, the body is very weak after giving birth, so they are in confinement.

During the period, you can't move around at will, so as not to recover well and fall into the root of the disease, so if you don't go back to your parents' house after the confinement, the confinement will not be able to raise well, and it will also have a certain impact on the newborn baby. In terms of customs, generally those who have brothers and sisters in the family will oppose returning to their parents' homes, because the older generation says that the mother will bring the bad luck of confinement back to her parents' home. So whether it is from the physical aspect or the older generation, it is better not to go back to your parents' house before the full moon, it is easy to have problems, and then the gains outweigh the losses.

That's my answer to the question of not returning to my parents' home before the full moon. During the confinement period, we must take care of our body, do not let ourselves be overtired, and ensure sufficient sleep; In terms of diet, it is also necessary to pay attention to light and balanced nutrition.

There are a lot of traditional customs and habits in the folk to continue, in fact, there is a saying that the baby can not go out without a full moon, but the times are developing rapidly, people's ideas have changed a lot, young people's parenting concepts are also different from the older generation, that the baby can not be taken out to breathe the outside air without a full moon, so why can you not go to someone else's house if you are not full moon, and you can go to someone else's house without a full moon?

China is a traditional country, each place may have different customs and taboos, some places do not have a full moon can not go to other people's house said, many people think that there is no full moon to go to other people's house will cause trouble, and there are older generations think that going to other people's house without a full moon will bring bad luck, but from a scientific point of view, this statement does not exist.

In fact, from the perspective of medical care, it is not completely unreasonable that you can not go to other people's homes if you are not satisfied with the month, the mother has not given birth to a full moon, the body is not completely raised, the resistance and immunity are relatively low, and it is easy to be infected by bacteria or viruses, so it is not suitable to move around. Moreover, other people's homes may have mixed personnel and poor air circulation, which may have a bad impact on the mother's health.

Although there is no scientific basis for not being able to go to other people's homes without a full moon, there is a certain reason why the baby is not full moon and the mother is not out of confinement and does not go out casually, so it is best to recuperate at home during the confinement period, and if there is any urgent need to go out, you should also do a good job of keeping warm.

I haven't really heard of such a statement, but it's best not to go, for your own good, and for the good of your children. Since you asked, your family must have told you that you can't go, so you'd better be obedient.

I thought about it for a while, and the reasons why I couldn't go should be the following:

1. Soon after giving birth, the child is weak and prone to illness.

The child is too young to resist tossing, the family has passed away, everyone will be very sad, there is no time and mood to take care of the child, and the round-trip journey has to take the car, but also to hold the car, the general baby is afraid of the wind and the sun or something, so that the toss, the child will be sick.

When my child was a few months, I never took her out of the house, it was winter, it was cold outside, and the wind was strong in spring, and my child had been in the house for 7 months before coming out of the house, so I caught a cold once! The child is also afraid of the chaos of the Chezhou Bridge, and the fire will be caught as soon as he takes the car.

So don't take the child with you, it's very sad if the family dies, and if the child has a fever and cold, it's even more sad.

2. It is said that children are small and can see things that adults can't see.

There are many arguments in our country that children can see things that adults can't see, that babies can't look in the mirror, and that they don't know why, that children's things can't be left outside at night, and so on.

I listened to what the old man said, whether I can see it or not, I don't know, said that modern people don't believe in feudal superstition, what bulls, ghosts, snakes and gods don't believe anymore, not as superstitious as the old man, but some things have to be believed.

I remember when I was a few years old, I was sick, I had a bad fever, and from time to time I sat there crying, the family bought medicine and took it a few times to no avail, just in the front yard of the house there is a lady who will see these things, she came to my house to break the door, grandma asked the aunt to touch the pulse, the aunt said that I was against my second uncle, let me burn some money.

Grandma is very obedient, I bought paper money at night and burned it at the mouth of the yard, I slept for a while and I didn't have a high fever the next day, I had already remembered at that time, this matter has been remembered, I am not a superstitious person, I don't believe in these things, but there is no way to explain this matter.

The old people say that children can see some unclean things, I don't know if it exists, but after experiencing the above things, I have to believe it, so whether you believe it or not, don't joke about the child, it's better not to go, take care of the child, you will indeed be very sad when the family dies, but you can give the child to others to watch, you go to see the family yourself, and come back immediately.

3. Children are too young to be easily frightened.

Babies are afraid of being frightened, and after being frightened, they will sleep poorly, and they may also have a fever. Your family will die there will be a lot of relatives and friends to go, everyone may cry sadly, the baby has just been born, will be afraid of the living, plus people cry, the child will be afraid, adults can eliminate the rush can be woolly, not to mention the baby.

So for the sake of the children, don't go, and if you have the opportunity to go back to the grave to worship in the future.

Many mothers are not able to go out during the confinement period after giving birth to the baby, and need to recuperate at home, at this time, both physically and psychologically are uncomfortable, and they hope to be able to go back to their parents' homes, because this will make the mother's psychology have a lot of security, but they don't know much about some of the things that go back to their parents' homes. So, if you don't go back to your parents' house in the next month, do you have something to pay attention to? Let's find out.

If according to the older generation, if the mother returns to her parents' house before the month, it may bring bad luck to the family, especially if there are brothers and sisters in the family, and the custom in many places is to wait for the mother to return to her mother's house after the confinement. But if it is from the perspective of maternal health, it is also not good, because during the confinement period, you need to recuperate well, and it is best not to move around at will, it is easy to fall into the root of the disease. If the mother still needs to go back to her parents' home, then she must pay attention to protect herself and the baby, it is best not to let herself catch a cold or be blown by the wind, which is easy to have waist and bone pain, which will have a bad impact on future life.

The above is my answer to the content of returning to my parents' house in the month of dissatisfaction. During the confinement period, the mother must protect herself when she goes out, and must not walk too much to make herself too tired, otherwise it will affect the baby's breast milk; The best way to go out is to do a good job of keeping warm, you can wear a hat, etc.

Hello, I'm glad for your question, you said that you don't have a good relationship with your mother's family, is it okay to invite your mother's family for full moon wine?

First of all, please don't ask for this is your right and freedom.

But the point is that they are your mother's family, your relatives.

You please. They don't come, the blame is theirs, it's that they don't care about you, not that you don't care about them.

So personally, I think it's better to please.

And you don't think that the full moon wine has no mother's family.

Isn't it embarrassing? It's all from the in-laws.

Some people will look down on you.

Although you don't have a good relationship with your mother's family.

But they are always your dearest people.

Blood is thicker than water, and this relationship can never be changed.

No matter how bad they are, they are your biological parents, so when you set up a full moon wine, be sure to invite them.

Buddhism often says, "Blessed people live in blessed land, blessed land and blessed people live", a blessed person, no matter where he is, ** is a good feng shui; A person who has no good fortune, no matter how good the feng shui treasure is, it is also a futile effort. Because, good fortune is not to be sought, let alone robbed, good fortune is self-cultivation, only after accumulating enough kindness and merit, good luck will come often.

In the view of Buddhism, there is a way to increase blessing and eliminate karma the fastest. This way is to be filial to your parents. Filial piety to one's parents is the greatest blessing in the world, and it is better to serve one's parents at home than to burn utilitarian incense far away.

The Buddha said that in this world, the greatest good will not be greater than filial piety; The greatest evil will not be greater than unfilial piety. A person who is not filial to his parents has an unkind heart that runs counter to the Buddha's heart, so no matter how much Buddha he worships and burns incense, it is difficult to get blessings.

In Buddhism, it is often said that life is a process of fate, and the so-called no fate, no gathering, no debt, no come, which can also be understood as the cause and effect we often say. Whether we are parents or children, the fate of parents and children is either to repay debts or to ask for debts, and they owe each other, so they meet in this life and become parents and children. The Buddha said:

If there is no Buddha, serve your parents well, and to serve your parents is to serve the Buddha, and your parents are the greatest victorious blessings in the Three Realms.

Therefore, no matter whether our parents have given us a surplus life, whether we have food and clothing without worry, we should be grateful to our parents in this life, grateful to our parents for their hard work in giving birth to us, and grateful to our parents for their hard work in raising and teaching. As written in the song "Cause and Effect of the Three Worlds", "What is the cause of deafness and dumbness in this life? In his previous life, he scolded his parents viciously", "If there is no sense of cause and effect, why should he save his mother".

Then someone said that my parents did not give me good living conditions since I was a child, made me suffer a lot, nor did they give me a happy childhood, and even often violently faced me, and my current achievements are all my own efforts, and have nothing to do with my parents. Therefore, I feel that my parents have not been very kind to me, and there is no need for me to repay them. This could not be more wrong.

As the old saying goes, "filial piety comes first", even if our parents are wrong in their words and deeds, we should not blame them, our parents gave birth to us is our greatest kindness. As for whether oneself will be blessed or suffered, isn't it one's own karma? If you want to know the cause of the past life, the recipient of this life is; If you want to know the fruits of the afterlife, this life is.

Regardless of whether our parents are right or wrong, we should not be disgusted, but should know them with reason, move them with affection, and warm them with filial piety.