Students, teachers, parents, what is the real reason why everyone is tired?

We will find that students, teachers, parents, no matter which role is very tired, tiredness comes from many reasons, each role feels tired because of taking on different tasks, I think these three roles are closely connected, and cooperation with each other can reduce the degree of fatigue.

We will find that whether it is students, teachers, or parents are tired now, in fact, I think that tiredness comes from many reasons, and each role feels tired because of its different tasks. The reason why students feel tired is because students are shouldering the expectations of teachers and parents, hoping that students can get a good score and have a bright future, and more pressure on themselves, which is from psychological pressure, students usually have to write homework, but also participate in extracurricular tutoring classes, basically all the time is occupied by studying, basically can not have their own entertainment time, this is physical pressure and fatigue; <>

The reason why parents feel tired is because they are worried that their children will not do well in the exam, they will not have a good job in the future, and they are tired of worrying about their children's future all day long. The teacher is very worried about the students who have not been able to improve their grades, so they try their best to give more make-up classes to the students, so that the students can improve their grades as soon as possible, and the teachers feel tired by preparing for the make-up classes. <>

From the above analysis, we can see that students, parents, teachers, everyone has their own reasons for being tired, I think that students, parents, and teachers are linked, are closely linked, and the three parties should be considerate and understand each other, in fact, many aspects of fatigue can be avoided. For example, if the child does not want to go to the extracurricular tutoring class, he can communicate with the parents, and the parents give the children more extracurricular entertainment time, so that the children can also learn while playing, and the parents will not be too tired to pick up and drop. It can be seen that the tiredness and pressure of students, parents, and teachers all come from wanting to improve students' grades, and the root cause is here, and there are many ways to solve the root problem, and we should not choose the way to make all three tired.

The most real reason is the problem of pressure, academic, teaching, and life pressure, which cannot be ignored and must be actively faced.

I think the most important reason why everyone is tired is because the current concept of education is very advanced. People can't get used to it, so they feel tired.

It is because we can't understand and help each other, everyone is trying to maintain their own ideas, and they don't know how to cooperate and communicate, and they don't know how to respect and understand, so they will be very tired.

Some people think that the current education is that students are tired, parents are tired, and teachers are tired, and I think this sentence is particularly true. Especially after having children in the family, as a parent, you can actually realize that not only children are facing great pressure in education today. Parents also need to be by their children's side every day, and teachers who never dare to relax their children's education in school will also hope to help their children improve their academic performance.

Because students face the pressure of learning from their parents when they are studying, students will feel very hard. <>

When it comes to student tiredness, most parents can also realize that today's children are much more stressed than previous children in learning. Because in the past, if children were unwilling to study hard, parents would not pay attention to the problems of children's learning, and let their children go out to play if they were willing to learn. However, today's parents regard the issue of children's education too seriously, so they will always consider enrolling their children in various cram schools when educating their children, which increases the pressure on children's learning and makes children very tired.

The reason why parents are tired is mainly because they are faced with tutoring their children's learning, and teachers in the past will directly correct their children's homework in school when educating students. But nowadays, most teachers have developed a habit of putting all the problems of children's homework correction on the parents. If parents do not correct their children's homework and let their children learn, it will only lead to children's academic performance becoming worse and worse, and parents do not care about their children, so teachers will not care about children's learning.

As a profession, most teachers not only have to educate students in school, but also have to do housework to educate children when they return home. As a result, the teacher also feels that his work is very stressful, because there are nearly forty or fifty students in each class. In order to improve the academic performance of the students, the teachers not only have to help their children with their homework at night, but also prepare for the second day of the lesson.

I don't think that's entirely the case, if you master the corresponding methods, most people can live a relatively easy life, for example, children have strong independent learning ability, parents can live an easy life.

Nowadays, families pay more attention to children's education, and parents are more nervous than students in learning, not only to take care of their children's daily life, but also to worry about learning, but they are more tired than teachers.

I think this view is very correct, because the current education model does put a lot of pressure on everyone, students have a very heavy learning task, and teachers and parents have a lot of pressure on education.

Students are also very tired of studying, but as parents, they are more tired than their children studying, because children only study, regardless of other things, whether they have to worry about earning money, working, inside and out, and also have to make up for their children's homework, so parents are more tired.

I'm tired. Now it is not easy for children to read, not to mention the pressure, and it is a little tiring to complete various homework and exams.

As a parent, watching the child and accompanying the child's growth, not only physical exertion, but also a part of the tiredness of the child's good grades, if the child's grades are not ideal, the tiredness is really a bit stuffy, I can't say it.

There is no other country where parents are so tired and tired as Chinese parents, and they are under so much pressure on the issue of their children's education.

As soon as the child is born, where the child goes to school becomes a mountain that weighs on the parents' hearts, and it breaks the heart. For the sake of their children's schooling, they changed jobs, bought school district houses, found relationships, and moved countless times.

When I saw the news that "some parents spend as much as 250,000 yuan for their children to enter key primary schools", in addition to criticizing the school, I also want to criticize the parents, why do they want to squeeze such a school, why do they pay so much money.

It is precisely the parents who squeeze into such key primary schools, squeezing their heads to the point of bleeding, that fuels and coaxes such abnormally high school choice fees.

But to be honest, I don't have the confidence to say this kind of criticism of parents - because I can't guarantee that I won't become such a parent, and I know that when my children grow up, as a parent, I may also go to such a school.

It's hard not to be affected by the "don't let your child lose at the starting line" ads everywhere.

For parents, the problem of homework and study tutoring for students is sometimes really annoying, wanting to fight, wanting to yell, and some can't control it, and some regret it. Students are tired, and so are adults.

Sometimes when I get angry, I still have to endure it, but if I think about it, the child is actually quite pitiful, much more pitiful than in our time. (It's not food and clothing, it's the pressure of studying).

The child's "unmanageable" expression must be familiar to parents and teachers. I believe that if you list it casually, it will fill a big basket. In summary, it can be collectively referred to as "bad behavior".

"Sanmei" happened to send a "difficult to manage" junior high school man in the office. To put it mildly, not only in the eyes of the teacher, but also in the hearts of his parents, he also did not like the "bedbug" 3360 study, liked to cause trouble, and almost tried a "ban" in school discipline. The most unreasonable thing is that his parents and teachers have repeatedly taught him, and he has repeatedly committed crimes.

No, today's history class also did not obey the teacher's punishment, rudely contradicted the teacher, and was notified by the parents to punish the school. His mother sat in a chair in the corner of the office and didn't say anything anyway, showing the child that there was nothing she could do.

Of course, there is a difference between a child's "unmanageable" and "misguided". If it is in the child's nature to make mistakes, which can be understood and tolerated, then making mistakes without listening to the teachings and not repenting will make parents and teachers feel that it is "too difficult to control". Children who are difficult to control not only do not act according to the will and requirements of their parents and teachers, but also ignore discipline and take retrograde actions.

Nowadays, everyone attaches great importance to education, but whether it is teachers or parents, what we really care about is "knowledge education". Sometimes it's not a matter of choice, and we're pushed forward.

Let's talk about the overall environment first, test scores are almost the most important consideration criteria for children's learning. From the first grade of elementary school, it is better than grades, and if you don't get grades, you are better than ranking. Generally speaking, parents are the most anxious in the first and second grades.

Because if the child gets a score of 98, the teacher may not feel much, but the feelings of the parents are different. 98 points may be 20 after 30 people! In fact, these two points do not account for the huge difference in learning, but we do not want to accept "falling behind".

Because we think kids should win both.

The teacher felt that it was difficult not to have students with low grades in the class. In my daughter's class, a student failed for a long time, which made the teacher very helpless. I once scored more than 20 points in an exam, and I scored an average of 2 points.

Managing class discipline is also a tricky thing. There are always a few disobedient and undisciplined children in a class. This is normal, but eventually it will affect the classroom and other students, so the teacher will also have a headache.

If something goes wrong in the class, the teacher will become big. For example, twice a year in my daughter's class, there were incidents where the child did not come home on time, and once I called the police.

Because of the influence of the social atmosphere, the competition is becoming more and more fierce, and parents have higher and higher requirements for their children in order not to let their children lose at the starting line, so it is natural to feel very tired when it comes to education.

Because this is the era of big data on the Internet, children can learn and obtain the knowledge and information they need in a wider range of ways. Therefore, children do not follow the education of teachers and parents alone.

Because children are becoming more and more precocious, rebellious, and even brave enough to say no to teachers and parents, parents and teachers are becoming more and more tired of educating children, and it is difficult for teachers and parents to correct them.

Because today's children are more precocious, their mental development is relatively fast, and they are exposed to some people and things more and richer than before, so his emotional expression and knowledge level requirements are also very high, and the child's education should be as diverse as possible, teach according to his aptitude, and understand his inner needs in a timely manner, pay attention to his psychological changes, so as to better play a good role in education.

Many students in China are under a lot of pressure to study, and as parents, we should learn to reduce the burden on them, so as to better motivate them to move forward. If parents blindly put their anxiety on their children, it will only backfire. After all, what should parents do when they find their children stressed?

Let's take a look at it together.

1. Let children understand what their parents really think.

Sometimes, children's stress comes not only from the outside world, but also from themselves. For example, if parents are too demanding and expectant of their children, it will make them feel very stressed. Therefore, as a parent, you must find a way to reduce the burden on your child, at this time, if you find that your child has affected the results of learning because of the problems of your parents, it is necessary for parents to have in-depth exchanges of ideas with your child, teach your child to study and take exams with a calm mind, so that maybe your child's grades will be more secure.

2. Let the children live in an environment where work and rest are combined.

If the child's free time is either studying or on the road of learning, then no matter how much people love to learn, they will collapse. As a parent, you really can't pressure your children to study every day, and you have to give them a certain amount of playtime, which will not affect their future learning. It is believed that after experiencing the guidance of their parents, children will be able to participate in more outdoor activities and become more lively.

In this way, the child not only has time to relax, but also can increase his knowledge, which I personally think is really good.

3. Enroll in training classes according to your child's situation.

Some parents see that other people's children are very strong, so in order not to lose at the starting line, they sign up for many training classes for their children in one go, which leads to the children having to rotate every day, and even on weekends there is no rest time, even lunch break or evening break, it takes a lot of time to do the questions. In this way, it is indeed possible for children to grow in the short term, but it is very unfriendly for children who have been in such a high-pressure environment for a long time. It is hoped that parents will not let their children fall victim to education, but should make reasonable arrangements according to the specific situation of their children.