At what point did you begin to accept the fateful statement

In the second year of junior high school. It's not very early, but there is no way, if I don't believe in fate at that time, I don't know what to believe, or in other words, for other peers at that time, maybe life has just begun, and the future is bright and full of sunshine. But at that time, I had tonsillectomy, appendicitis surgery, then myelitis, and then stomach ulcers.

At that time, I was a good student, but because of these diseases, I couldn't go to school, and I often asked for leave, and slowly even the teachers became cold to me, and my classmates began to alienate me. In order to take me to see a doctor, my mother often took time off, and her position in the unit was also ripped off. Inadvertently, go to fortune telling.

It would be nice to say that I was over twenty-six. In the future, I will live and work in good health. This wanted to give me a guiding light, and I grabbed this last hope and worked hard.

We're doing well now.

After graduating from college, I stepped into the society, participated in work, got married and had children, only to find out that it was really fate, and I couldn't believe it.

In the year when I was particularly unhappy, I thought maybe this life would be like this, and then I was calm.

When we enter middle age, we feel that sometimes we really have to follow the arrangement of fate.

I think that after meeting my girlfriend, I feel that the two of us are arranged by fate, and sometimes I don't believe it.

Who a person will like is really something that he can't decide, and this may be fate. Sometimes if you think about it, two people don't have any possibility of intersection, it's all because of a seemingly unrelated thought, and then they meet inadvertently. Then it stops at the encounter, like a meteor streaked across the night sky and suddenly disappeared.

Since then, I have made painstaking efforts, and I have tried to put everything down to find it, but in vain. From then on, I believed in my fate. What is not in life will be none.

There are treasures in the world, and God just shows you. If you want to have it, there are no doors.

Selling nuclear carvings in Suzhou with friends, my husband has been doing nuclear carving for 4 years and has not made much money, and my friends and I have no clue what to do when they sell together, and it will be better immediately after separation. And my husband and I have been in a mess for a month, and others have made a fortune in silence, and I still don't have a clue. Sometimes I suddenly understand that this can be someone else's fortune, and I can't touch it.

You can only learn slowly and work hard.

When I was in elementary school, my mother took me to find a well-known local fortune teller to tell my fortune, and the fortune teller said that my mother had a hard life for the first half of her life, and that the child would only start to change her life when she became an adult. Three years ago, we were only struggling with the poverty line, and the trajectory of our lives seemed to be moving along the lines of the fortune teller.

When I was in high school, I liked a senior, and I liked it for a long time. He was one year older than me, and when he graduated from high school, I inquired for a long time to know that he had studied medicine, and I wanted to go to his Weibo account and secretly pay attention. At that time, I said to myself that if I study hard, I will always have a chance to study medicine in the future.

After the college entrance examination, the score was neither good nor bad, and I went to a school in another province to study for eight years of clinical practice, and I still paid attention to it and spurred myself to become better. Actually, I may not be very suitable for studying medicine, because I feel that my hands-on ability is really poor. This summer, when I was interning at the hospital affiliated to the school, I transferred to the kidney and met a senior sister from another school, who was the niece of the director.

Senior sister has a very good temper, when we are slippery and lazy, she is silently doing things alone, and often gives us chocolates to eat. What impressed me the most at that time was that every time I went to the ward round, the director asked some questions, and the senior sister always thought for a while and then said it without hurrying. At that time, I was thinking that only a girl as good as a senior sister is worthy of my favorite senior.

I must be like her. Later, I found out that she was really my senior's girlfriend.

The master said, I'm a bit of a murderer. looks very ordinary, and has no money, so it's an honor to be liked by many girls for so many years. I apologize.

In the end, the master also said that I had a successful career before the age of 30, and although I thought it was very accurate, I still worked my own, and I hoped that my luck would be good. However, when I believed it and wanted to go again, the master died. Well, these chains may be coincidences, but the Master really didn't see me.

There is a classmate in high school, studying hard and hard, but the results of the college entrance examination are not satisfactory, only three colleges and universities were admitted, he was unwilling, because the usual grades are a few points higher, it must be bad luck, so he repeated for a year, but the results of the college entrance examination in the second year are still the same, or was admitted to the same college, he was very frustrated, and finally did not repeat the study, decided not to spend any more energy, went to the three schools, classmates and teachers were sorry for him, felt that he should have a better way out. Now it seems that this should be his way, and the fact that he did not achieve the desired results in the college entrance examination shows that his comprehensive quality is not enough to achieve the results he wants. If he had continued to insist on repeating his studies, he might have entered the ideal university, but he still gave up, and his character, perseverance, and determination determined his path.

From the moment people fall to the ground, fate is predestined, believing that fate is actually a good thing, God is fair, and will definitely bring the most ideal result to you. Watson, high school classmates, and the "pigs" in the Internet, their results are the most in line with their characteristics, and all of this is determined by themselves, and what determines them is their indelible "fate".

The mistakes of the past are a foregone conclusion, and since God has given you the heart and courage to love each other, then accept your decisions and feelings.

To do the following:

1. Calm down for a moment to see if he still wants to be with you so strongly, and if so, then he will end the pain between them and the pain they will continue to suffer in the future.

2. If you are together, if he is so determined, congratulations, you don't have to think too much, you are happy enough 3, cherish, cherish! What was missed has been missed, but you can't afford to be wrong again.

Deeply blessed.

Have you figured it out? It's still up to you to decide this kind of thing, do you know each other very well? Men not only strive for their careers, but also have the courage to take responsibility.

Love is one's own, and so is happiness....If you just want to get it, you have to give it up first!

Think about what you want in life and happiness in**! And then give yourself a decision....Someone else's life is someone else's, and your own life is your own!

Only yourself, you know what you want best....Don't let other people's choices dictate your own life!

If he really loves you as much as he says he does. It should be possible for you to give up many options、

Instead of blindly asking you what to do for him. If he is a good man, he will do his duty in the face of his wife.

And how can he not show that he does not act in three acts and four acts? Who knows if he will be like this if you get married and quarrel in the future? Let him choose.

You advise you not to get back together with him, that would be bad for anyone. You've hurt each other before, and you've both experienced the pain of broken relationships, why don't you think about his current wife? Do you want him to continue to hurt another person?

Although they don't have a very deep relationship now, they at least have a sense of responsibility for each other, and their marriage will not break down. He actually wants to divorce himself and then choose to get back together with you, is such a man responsible? You have feelings, but do you have morals?

Take marriage as your child's play, what kind of marriage attitude do you have? I know that I am acting as a third party, why don't I stay away from that whirlpool? Feelings need to be reasonable!

Don't let his current wife fall victim to your irrationality. They will be very happy in the future, so dispel the idea of divorce. As long as you are sure that you will not be with him, his current marriage will last.

You shouldn't have a place in your heart for him. Think about it.

【Words】冰解前疑 【Pinyin】bīng shì qián xián 【meaning】The contradictions and disgusts between people, at a certain moment, melt and disappear like ice. The metaphor is that the contradictions between people are resolved.

Just put down a sentence.

Come back to me when you're divorced.

I can wait for you.

But don't fool me.

I love you, yes.

But that doesn't mean you're the only man in the world.

When exactly will you be able to decide.

We'll just have to say when we can resume communication.

If you don't bother me, don't bother me.

Like a man. The judgment is the judgment.

Don't be here with me.

I'm not a three-year-old, and I'm not your playmate.

Bye-bye, no.

Let me tell you my opinion, if I were you, I would look at the quality of this boy more. After all, if you are together again, you will be married. A person who gets married because of impulsiveness, you can imagine what a grumpy person he is.

In fact, this kind of person is very scary, since he will get married on impulse and now regret marrying his current wife, then no one can say whether he will divorce you for someone else's sake, and the reason is "I regret it". The person who is really worth letting you give up everything is someone who has a sense of responsibility and responsibility. Because he was impulsive, and got married, doesn't this mean that he doesn't dare to take responsibility and shirk the responsibility to impulse?

Of course, because I don't know you, and I don't know the relationship between you and him (of course, if you really have a deep feeling, you will fight for him, and you won't ask questions), think about it yourself. I wish you happiness.

Why do you always know how to cherish after you lose?

In fact, the most innocent is the wife who is rightly named, and you can basically be said to be the initiator of all this.

Whatever you choose, please don't hurt the innocent.

If he loves you, he should think more about you.

You tell him to get a divorce first.

Then you quit your job and you get married right away.

It's best to also have a prenuptial agreement.

In this way, your love will be well guaranteed.

Everyone lives comfortably and carefree.

It can be seen that you want to turn back, you still like him, although he has made a big mistake, and your reunion is bound to bring harm to both of you, but everything is still quiet and thoughtful, use time to precipitate, and slowly the answer will surface.

That man doesn't seem to have much responsibility, and are you sure he's always had you in mind? Hey....