At what age can a person determine the pattern of his or her life?

I think you can see a person's personality at the age of three, you can see a person's pattern at the age of 30, and at the age of 30, your future is basically determined.

What you are talking about is how old you can determine the pattern of your life, then I think it is still after being sensible. In other words, after going to school, you can really be like an adult, so you can determine your own pattern, and if you are too young, you can't have such complex ideas. But there is an exception, for example, although he himself is not very sensible because of his young age, as an elder, he will find out the general situation of his life pattern from him, which is what we often hear a saying called three-year-old with old looks.

It means that from a very young age, you can see what kind of person this person will be when he grows up. In fact, this is an experience, and it is also a kind of **.

Seven years old to see the old, this is an ancient Chinese saying, it can be said that from the mother's womb the child's character is already a semi-finished product, 0-7 years old, the atmosphere and environment of the family plays a decisive role, including the nutritional status of the child during this time, the so-called preschool education is basically no play. The personality characteristics of the parents and the atmosphere of the family play a 70% decisive role in the personality nervous system of the child's brain development, in other words, the seven-year-old child can basically judge the pattern of his (her) life.

As the saying goes, three years old looks small, seven years old looks old, I think this sentence is still very reasonable, when a person is young, you can see whether you will make a big difference when you grow up, and the growth environment when you are a child has a very big impact on growing up, so basically you determine the pattern of your life when you are young.

Three-year-olds look big, seven-year-olds look old. In this way, people often feel what kind of person a three-year-old child will be through the way the child behaves. It is also like saying that a person's current behavior and habits affect his life.

In other words, the whole experience of a person's childhood will correspond to a destiny of one's own! As someone said, Einstein discovered the theory of relativity at the age of three, but it took almost forty years to express it scientifically and clearly!

Standing at the age of thirty, if you don't determine your future path at the age of thirty, you can basically declare failure.

Pattern determines success or failure. Throughout the ages, those who have achieved great things must have a big pattern. What is the pattern, the pattern is not only the psychological space, but also the spiritual structure, or the life capacity, but also the comprehensive quality.

As the saying goes: no matter how big the bread is, it is no bigger than the pot in which it is baked. For individuals, if the career is the cake, the pattern is the pot of the pancake. ‍‍

There should not be much difference in the level of education and information received by people in society today. Therefore, there will not be a big difference in the perception of many things. However, there will be different perspectives on the way things are seen, which should be determined by each person's living environment and personality. ‍‍

There is no end to learning, living to learn, people are the product of the environment, with the things that individuals come into contact with, the age increases, the pattern will definitely grow, but the size is different.

Psychology teaches us to look at the world from a developmental perspective, and of course, to look at ourselves from a developmental perspective. Innate conditions certainly have an impact on our development, but what is more important is often the continuous learning and continuous cultivation of the acquired ones. Until the last minute, I am afraid that we will never know how big our pattern can be and how high our skills are.

Not necessarily, because everyone's life is slowly growing, and his achievements now do not determine his future in the future.

According to Buddhism, a person's life has already been arranged after birth. Individual efforts can only change small aspects, not big ones. Write down that good is rewarded with good, and evil is rewarded with evil. Do more good deeds, be a good person, and there will be good rewards in the end.

Recently, I have met a lot of young people who are much younger than me, most of them are post-88s and post-90s, and I have always communicated with young people on an equal footing, some of them make me very awe-inspired, but some of them make me a little annoyed. People may be like this, there is a comparison to find the difference, because not a few young people but a group of young people, only then do I have such a profound idea: the pattern really has nothing to do with age.

A person's pattern determines the way a person speaks and the attitude towards others.

In the past, I thought that a young person, she has less experience, fewer people to read, the natural pattern will be smaller, but now I think this is not the case, a person can increase his experience and knowledge reserve by reading classic books and reading incisive views, and at the same time, this person can seriously think about these views, classify these views, digest and absorb them and eventually become their own blood and flesh, at this time, the wings of her thoughts will become extremely full.

We have two little girls in the book club, who are about the same age, but they do things completely differently. Xiao Mu always does things after you have to tell her each step and time node, and then she will complete it according to the bending posture, sometimes it will drag on for a day or two; As for Xiaohui, she will communicate her ideas with you, and then she will tell you a good time to do well. In the process, she will also communicate with you to optimize and improve this part of her work.

The trajectories of the two girls are not the same, but if you were the project leader, which would you use? Needless to say, it must be Xiaohui, because she has stronger thinking and execution skills. Her pattern is bigger, she will stand at a height to look at problems and solve problems, she has great independent thinking skills, such a person will naturally jump out of the crowd and let everyone see that she is naturally shining and excellent.

When we see her brilliance, we must wonder why she is different.

1. Love reading, especially practical chicken soup.

2. When others apply for micro-courses in the professional field, she has already contacted the tutor, applied for a series, and carefully followed the tutor to learn.

3. She has the courage to take on the work, feeling that it is giving herself the opportunity to exercise, and others will still feel that they will suffer more from work, so there is an old saying that to suffer is to take advantage.

It's a quality in her, and of course there's a lot more, but I'm just a few of the things that I think are great.

The pattern has nothing to do with age, and vice versa, is the pattern older when you are older, no, it also has nothing to do with age, a 50-year-old person does not learn and does not progress, and the pattern is not as strong as a 20-year-old person.

The pattern I understand is like a step, we have to climb up step by step, we need to have a firm belief, constantly examine and improve ourselves, constantly expand our horizons, and share a buried meaningful person and thing, become a part of our own life, and constantly set higher goals, so that we will have more and better choices, will make more perfect decisions, and reach a broader world to realize the value of life.