What should I do if my boyfriend suddenly asks me to leave him?

I think this kind of man can be cherished, he loves you very much, it is likely that he is under pressure, pressure can deform a person, go with him well, let him relax, he feels that he can't give you the future you want, can't give you happiness, so, he chooses to let go and let you look for a better one, you just give him a word, maybe it will be useful.

Directly hit ** to tell him that it was impossible to break up, and then hung up, see his reaction.

Hehe. The men turned out to be similar, and when they felt tired and stressed, they didn't care about anything. What are those mountain alliances and sea oaths?

The sentence "I'm tired, I don't want you to suffer with me, you can find a good man to marry" and sent it away. Actually, it's not that he doesn't love, it's just that he doesn't love so strongly, and his beliefs are not firm enough. My situation is similar to yours, and I feel the same way.

It's all painful right now. are ready to be together, no matter how hard and tired they are, they have no complaints, and they have said that they will work together to face it together, be together forever, and never let go of my hand. As a result, when I firmly believed that "even if I gave up the world, I would not let him lose me."

He retreated, feeling that the reality was too difficult, had no money, and had no ability, so he chose to give up. Actually, it's also a kind of injury. If you say it's good to work together, why hold back?

Is that simple pleasure an over-the-top request? I don't understand men. Once you have made up your mind, he will not pay attention to your pain, and your tears will no longer be painful.

No matter how much you persuade, it's useless. To put it cruelly, you're almost finished. Because he no longer has the courage.

Choose someone to heal and not be able to take into account your feelings. Even if he loves you, I can only say that I don't love so much anymore and don't have the courage to love anymore.

Is that like this? You can tell him clearly, in fact, I have encountered a similar situation, I said I will go to your factory to work as a general worker, I am not afraid of hardship, I just want to be with you, he is very moved, I feel that he is crying, his voice has become very calm. You just have to be willing to face it together.

Cherish it, many feelings are rare.

Could something have happened to him there? Why find someone he doesn't love?

I wonder if he's going to have a new love! Or if there are conditions better than yours and will help him in the future, maybe his family disagrees!

The two have been separated for a long time, and they can't say anything! And you and he aren't fellow countrymen, are you?

In this case, let him explain everything, and you are ready to bear everything. He said he was tired, so you gave him a chance to be separated for a while!

Give him enough security.

1. Keep your distance from the opposite sex.

2. Be patient with the boy and accompany him to grow up.

3. Encourage him a lot and encourage him to make people healthy.

4. Be considerate of him and consider his feelings. For example, if there is a conflict, don't just think "I'm right, he wants to apologize to me", but consider his feelings, and the two of them will ** the problem together (of course, sometimes they can't be together**.) But you can still say it calmly).

5. Report activities such as going out in a timely manner.

6. I think the most important thing is to trust the speaker, and it is good to build it up slowly in daily life.

There are three possible reasons why your boyfriend is always afraid of you leaving him:

First, you are better than him, and he may not be confident enough.

Maybe you are fair-skinned and beautiful, and you are recognized as a beauty, but he is not recognized as a handsome guy; Maybe you have a good job and a high income, but he is ordinary and makes slow progress; Maybe you graduated from a key university with a master's degree or doctorate, and he is just an ordinary graduate of an ordinary university; Maybe you are from the city and your family conditions are good, but he is from the countryside and his parents rely on the weather for food......

In short, your strengths in one or more aspects make him feel inferior and feel that his charm is not enough to tie your heart.

Second, you have too many friends of the opposite sex, making him insecure.

Although women always like to say that they are insecure, men also have a feminine side, and they don't say it in their mouths, but they also have insecurity in their hearts. When you are surrounded by too many people of the opposite sex, especially if you don't have obvious boundaries, your boyfriend will feel like losing you. Maybe he loves you too much and doesn't want you to change himself, but too good a relationship with the opposite sex still makes him feel uneasy.

3. Influenced by his original family, he was a very insecure little boy.

It is possible that your boyfriend has been hurt in some way since he was a child, making him particularly prone to gains and losses. You can talk to him about his childhood and maybe find some answers.

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Hello dear, my boyfriend is always worried that you will leave him because he is insecure in this relationship, he thinks you are excellent, and she has a little inferiority. What you have to do is to give him enough security, for example, you can encourage her more often, praise him, and make him feel that he is very good.

You have to analyze his personality for this kind of man, and be reasonable as a normal person who leaves when he encounters difficulties, or he is a coward or machismo, and he can't see you suffering with him.

This shows that he loves you very much, and when he encounters difficult things to solve, he doesn't want you to suffer with him, and he doesn't want you to worry about him!

When your boyfriend encounters a difficult situation, he wants you to leave him, which can be understood because he is still afraid of affecting you, so he will do this. So the best thing to do is to tell him that you will be with him through thick and thin, so that he knows what you mean.

First, let you leave because he doesn't want to bother you, and now when he is in trouble. There is no way to fulfill the promise that was given to you. Second, he felt that he would leave one day if he didn't say it, so it was better to say it himself.

It shows that your boyfriend is still not mature enough, and it can also be said that he is not responsible.

It's also possible that your boyfriend doesn't have self-confidence and wants you to leave him whenever he gets stuck. Because your boyfriend doesn't want to get you in trouble and affect you.

The reason why your boyfriend will do this is that he is afraid that he will drag you down and want you to get more happiness, but he is afraid that his current situation will not give you happiness, so he has such an idea.

Because this is a person who is extremely insecure and unconfident in himself, and the point is that he may just make excuses that he doesn't like you as much as you think.

It shows that boys are more responsible. I don't want to let my hardships affect your whole life. I'm afraid to drag you down. I just want to bring you a good life!

Maybe your boyfriend is afraid of dragging you down and thinking that he won't give you a good life, so if you want to continue to be together again, spend it with her.

Your boyfriend is not strong enough to be responsible, so he chooses to withdraw and does not take responsibility when he encounters an accident.

Because he doesn't want to bother you, maybe it's a kind of love too.

I'm afraid that it will affect you, and I don't want you to suffer with him.