After 3 days of dating, we broke up, but we were reluctant

Updated on psychology 2024-06-08
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Personally, I think that your current boyfriend doesn't take the initiative, maybe it has something to do with personality, but from the landlord, I can see that he doesn't care about people so much, I think he may not take you seriously at all.

    The landlord is right to leave now, because it was like that at first.

    The less likely it is to improve in the future, because love is not an antique that gets older and stronger, but when you are young.

    Just go through the ups and downs and survive to overcome the run-in period in the future. Hope it helps.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think it's shameful for your so-called boyfriend to do this kind of behavior of standing in the pit and not pulling x, and it's not worth your effort.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's the first time he's in love, he's very naïve in terms of feelings.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You're not boyfriend or girlfriend at all. At best, it's just a netizen looking for an emotional sustenance.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm going to college soon, prove that you're only a high school student now, since you love each other, then experience a long-distance relationship, see if you can get along with each other, if you can't get along well, then you can only choose to break up, in fact, there is nothing to contradict, if you love, then you can love each other well, and you won't regret breaking up one day, and you must be able to afford to let go.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you can't carry it, put it down; If you can't afford to hurt, you should look down; If you can't figure it out, you don't want to; If you can't hate, you have to soothe it. Life is a process of cultivation, why bother to look at people and things with this uneven heart, practice yourself, and live up to the years.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I've been talking to my boyfriend for almost half a year, and I feel like we won't be able to get together in the future, but we love each other very much and are reluctant to break up. I think that although you love each other very much, you are reluctant to mention breaking up. But let's face it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hello, the two of you love each other and are reluctant to break up, which means that the two of you can come together, and you must have faith in love.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you feel that you and your boyfriend will not be able to get together in the end, then it is recommended that you make a decision quickly, otherwise if you delay, the more you will hurt each other, and the longer you delay, the more it will hurt each other.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The good boyfriend has been talking for almost half a year, and I feel that I can't find an issue in the future, but we love each other very much, and we are reluctant to mention breaking up, I don't think this feeling is very accurate, I think people's emotions are the most important, don't mainly love the two of you, so it is possible to come together.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    First of all, the first love is beautiful, if you can insist, you can insist, what school you go to now can't determine what situation you will be in society in the future, let's get along with each other in a different place first, it is sad to break up, or you will find a new life for each other in a year, and it will not be so uncomfortable then

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Although it's a bit cruel to say this, but you are too young, of course this is love, but it may not be the love that you still feel sorry for after a few years, people's growth is staged, and the concept of mate selection will change a lot after maturity.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This is very strange, obviously they love each other, why can't they get together?

    I think that if you love each other, you have to work hard and be together in the future.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think you are really very conflicted, since the two of you love each other very much, why do you feel that you can't get together in the future? Since two people love each other so much, I think we should face it together, and we can't break up no matter what, we must come together.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Do you encounter any kind of trouble, I think that as long as you love each other, all problems can be solved.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    At least have loved each other.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When it is broken, it is broken, and if it is continuous, it is chaotic.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Summary. Kiss, if that's the case, I feel like this girl has wanted to break up with you for a long time, but she hasn't found the right reason The two of them must have been in constant contact before

    It's been almost two months since the five-year relationship broke up, and to be honest, I was really reluctant, so I never gave up, and I also let go of my dignity, but some of her practices really made me feel unlucky, disgusting, and I couldn't let go of it in my heart, what should I do?

    Hello dear kiss How can you say that you can let go of the five-year relationship What did she do that made you unable to forgive her

    In the past five years, she has indeed paid more, I didn't cherish it, she finally left disappointed, I also realized my mistakes, I was determined to change, and I have been trying to change, I haven't given up for almost two months since the breakup, I understand that she has a lot of negative emotions, and I am willing to give her time, but how did she do it, a week after the breakup, she said that she had a boyfriend, changed her couple avatar, often played games together, I didn't give up, I was waiting for her, I prepared a lot of gifts for her birthday, and I dragged my friends over, she didn't want to meet, I don't want to reply to the message, I can understand it, but I've been in love with someone recently, or I'm a classmate with her, and I use WeChat to secretly fall in love, which really makes me feel that my sincerity is not worth it, I don't know why she did it, it's very tangled.

    Kiss, if that's the case, I feel like this girl has wanted to break up with you for a long time, but she hasn't found the right reason The two of them must have been in constant contact before

    So I advise you that such a girl is not worthy of being so nice to her

    That's what she said, but after all, it's been five years, and I'm very reluctant, and she really loved me before, so I don't know what to do.

    There is no way to keep someone who wants to leave you, you can only try to accept this fact, and you can also divert your attention and find a girl you like

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Summary. Dear, glad to answer for you. <>

    <> talked about it for three years and wanted to break up and was reluctant to give each other a cooling-off period first, thinking about whether it was just a temporary unpleasantness or if they really wanted to separate.

    After talking about it for three years, what should I do if I want to break up and am reluctant.

    Dear, glad to answer for you. [Happy filial piety] <>

    After talking for three years and wanting to break up, you can give each other a cooling-off period first, thinking about whether this sleepiness is temporary unpleasantness, or if you really want to separate. Wang scum.

    Dear, I talked for three years, if you don't have a place for him in your heart, let it go if you want to leave, don't force yourself, the days will be long, you have to think about yourself. If it's just a temporary quarrel, disagreement and other reasons, you can communicate well, after all, you have known and loved each other for so long, and you have already regarded each other as important people, and you will still be reluctant. If you still love to call him and have an unrelenting relationship with him, then cherish each other's fate.

    I met a boy who opened a shop, and he was kind to me, and I don't know if he really liked me.

    Dear, will he care about your life and want to be with you all the time, he only has you in his eyes.

    I do not know. Dear, what do you think his kindness to you is indicating?

    Willing to spend money on me.

    Dear, if a man is willing to spend money for you, it means that he still cares about you, and it means that your position in his heart is also more important.

    So what do I do now.

    Dear, do you like him.

    I want to open a store myself, and now the object is still paying off the car loan, and the family has a building, but we want to buy a house in the city, he is from a different family from He Qingzai, and their stepmother doesn't like to miss me, saying that I am young and can't cook, I am also from another province, and my mother Zen Wang's mother is not willing to let me marry so far, and I have been together for a long time without a topic, and often do not chat, and the two of them sleep at night to do errands, is it because I don't like him? I didn't feel anything.

    Dear, you must like someone like this.

    When I have sex at night, I can't even raise my interest, what kind of thing I don't interest in, is it because I don't like to look at him, and I am like this? I don't feel it, every time I do something, I think he is annoyed.

    Dear, how long have you been together?

    Dear, you have to think about whether his kindness to you can last.

    Do you have a temporary interest or will you choose him firmly?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Love is a matter for two people, both need to give, it is impossible to just ask each other what to do, without examining yourself. No one is born ready for you, and there is no perfect person, I personally believe that the so-called "born pair" does not exist in reality, and those who eventually come together are not destined by nature, but the continuous run-in of the day after tomorrow, mutual tolerance, understanding and consideration can go to the end.

    I think you are a self-centered person who thinks only of yourself. Your ex-boyfriend also has to have his own space and time and can't always revolve around you. Also, people have shortcomings, when they first fell in love, they all saw the advantages, after a long time, the shortcomings were exposed, you may be a little disappointed, feel that he is not as good as you imagined, do not understand you, but have you ever thought about your own shortcomings, he can tolerate you, why don't you be more tolerant of him?

    I think if you want to redeem him, you have to change yourself, your promises and promises are useless, you have to prove yourself with practical actions, be an empathetic person. Considerate. Generous girl.

    Here, I would like to remind you that in the future, whether you are reconciled or you are with other people, if you do not change yourself, you will not be able to get along with anyone. If you don't believe me, try it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Women are always so fickle, you should be very young, so you are less considerate and more impulsive in doing things, I know that you still love your boyfriend at this time, but from the performance of your boyfriend, he has let go of this relationship with you, it seems that the chance of getting back together is not big, maybe you really hurt him, in the process of getting along, I found that there is something inappropriate for you to get along with him. Youth, it doesn't matter what you do, so you might as well make one last effort to wait for his forgiveness. Don't retreat to the next thing to be friends, tell him that you need him, you love him, everything was because of the impulse to love words, everything you do should show that you still love him, and you want to continue with him.

    But don't be too pushy, so as not to backfire.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You're not suitable for him to be with, he's always losing his temper, he's also tired of breaking up with you, and you won't be happy if you get back together! You don't want to be friends with him anymore, then you will be more attached to him, you just have to learn to let go now, you will find someone who is right for you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Question: He's been waiting for this day for a long time, because you're so good, he can't find a reason to give up on you, and now there's an excuse. Men are animals who are greedy for freshness, and you don't have to insist on it anymore If he likes you, he should have fought for it a long time ago, instead of saying that he would ignore you all of a sudden. Don't be too stupid, there are still a lot of people waiting for you in the back .

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    First of all, I think you are a very ignorant girl, a little willful, and have a bad temper. Maybe your boyfriend is at fault, but you've never been forgiving, and I think to be forgiven, you have to change yourself. Maybe after a while, he will see a different you and forget about the previous unpleasantness.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you continue like this, he will dislike you more and more, and it will even reach the point of disgust, so stop your recovery actions first, let him calm down, ease his decision, and maybe think about it a lot before making a decision.

    He should think mostly about the parts that you don't fit him.

    Now you show him the part that he thinks you are not suitable for him to the fullest, and in the end, it will make both sides lose, and you who don't want to see each other again also think quietly for yourself, don't get into the horns of the bull and can't come out.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    [Love is a sweet torture], everyone is running in each other's quarrels, give him a little time, and give himself a few more choices... Since he's cold, let's dry it first, don't push each other too hard, come on!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    No, it won't. After a long time, maybe I found you better, you often care about him every day, send messages, and one day he will come back

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    What you can't get is what you cherish the most.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You don't have to pay attention to him, I suggest you be his friend obediently! From the words, I can know that you love him very much, and I suggest you forget about him! I observe ten minutes of silence for you.........

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Time will let this all pass, and one day, you will find someone who is more suitable for you. May you be happy.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    。。。In addition, it's okay to find a man soon.。。。 Purely passing through.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Time can dilute everything.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I'm like you, it's been 3 years, I started a good relationship, and now I'm always arguing. Run-in period. Coexistence, anti-dependence, independence, symbiosis.

    The time it takes to switch between them is not necessarily and varies from person to person.

    Phase 1: Coexistence.

    This is a time of passionate love, and I always hope to be tired of being together whenever and wherever I want.

    Phase 2: Anti-dependency.

    When the emotional stability is stable, one party wants to have more time to do what they want to do, and then the other party will feel left out.

    The third stage: independence.

    The fourth stage: symbiosis.

    At this time, a new way of getting along takes shape, and you have become the closest people.

    Together, you support each other and create your own life together.

    Together, you will not be tied to each other, but you will grow with each other.

    He or she is like a relative to you.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The quarrel shows that they have a closer understanding of each other, I have also experienced it, and they are still together, there will always be such a process when the two are together, each other is considerate of each other, and it is good to communicate when they are not noisy, and when they are noisy, they will take the initiative to back down, and they will survive this time, bless you.

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