Why is it so difficult to chase girls now?

I don't think it's more difficult to chase girls, but I think it's more difficult to chase boys.

I had a relationship that wasn't considered a relationship, and he was my junior high school classmate. He liked me very much in junior high school and confessed to me, but at that time, not only because of the high school entrance examination, but also because of a misunderstanding, we were not together. We haven't been in touch since then.

It wasn't until I was in college that he contacted me out of the blue. We talked for more than a month. At first he just hinted at me.

I thought at the time, since we weren't together, what's the point of being together now?

But over time, I developed a sense of dependence on him. When he hinted at me again, he was sharing the lyrics of "Who in the World Listens to You". Maybe it was the lyrics "The one waiting for you at the finish line will be me" that struck me, and I thought he had been waiting for me.

I'll just say we're together. Then we were together for a month. He also came to see me at school.

I'm still very happy.

But one day, I looked through his QQ signature, and found that he had a girl he liked in high school. I asked him about it, and he told me that he had been waiting for the girl he liked in high school, and that he was going to wait for her for 10 years. I've been making a lot of self-inflicted affection.

I'm sad, but I also know that we should be breaking up. Because the sixth sense of girls is very accurate. After he and I had a cold war for three days, he said let's leave it at that.

I know we're over.

Some girls, as long as you treat her well, she will slowly be moved, this is the long-term love. Of course, the premise is that she has some crush on you, and if she doesn't have any crush on you, then she won't accept you even if you treat her well.

And some girls, she will choose the person she likes, so she will not easily choose the person she doesn't like. To use a popular saying, this type of girl is not willing to compromise. She just wants to wait for the person she likes and the one who likes her.

She ruthlessly rejects those she doesn't like, just so as not to delay those who like her.

You can't chase girls, it's not that it's so difficult to chase girls now. It's just that you haven't found someone who likes you and that you like. The people you can't catch up with now are basically because you like people, and people don't like you. So to say that you can't chase a girl is not to say that it is difficult to chase a girl.

And I think boys are more difficult to chase because any boy is the type who will not compromise. My personal experience is like this, I like this guy, and he doesn't like me, no matter how good I am to him, he will not give in with me. No matter how good I am to him, he can't forget her, and he can't forget the person he likes.

And no matter how good I am to her, it will be of no use.

I think boys, you must choose a good partner when you chase girls. The gap between you and the girls should not be too big. The gap is too big and you can really get rejected easily. I know that guys prefer girls who are good-looking, but you also have to be self-aware.

You really need a sincere heart to find a partner, and if you are really good to a girl, a girl will promise you one day. The premise is that the girl has a good impression of you, otherwise it is useless for you to do anything.

Because today's girls are very realistic, not because you are handsome, you can be with you, not because you have money to be with you, these are one-sided, today's girls consider a person's character, family background, the size of a person's ability, a person's height, and so on.

Nowadays, most girls ask each other to have a house and a car, to see if you have the potential to develop in the next few years to be with you, and it is difficult for recent college graduates to meet their conditions, so they feel that it is very difficult to find a partner. Newly graduated college students, many do not have a house, let alone a car, if you want to get married, this needs part of the family support, in this case, girls will meet you, will slowly fall in love with you, if you don't even have a house, then it is difficult to fall in love, so now many boys think that finding a girlfriend is more difficult than climbing. <>

Well, now the girl has a higher comparison, and her existing boyfriend has been talking for more than two years, and she is about to reach the age of marriage, and she feels that her boyfriend is not as good as someone else's boyfriend, and her boyfriend is not able to make money, so she is very dissatisfied with her existing boyfriend, so she slowly dislikes her boyfriend, and slowly breaks up, looking for a better boyfriend, and now there are too many situations like this, and it is difficult to figure out what to do, so it is very tiring to fall in love now, It's more tiring to find a girlfriend you want.

Also, the height of a boy is very important, and it is difficult to find a girlfriend if he is too low.

In short, as a male compatriot, you should work hard, be a down-to-earth person, and let better women take the initiative to come to you, which is the most important thing.

Every boy hopes that he can catch up with the girl he likes, and many people say that girls are getting harder and harder to chase now. In fact, I don't think it's that girls are getting harder and harder to chase now, more and more realistic, more and more utilitarian, and the pace of life is getting faster and faster. Girls are more aware of what they want and what they want in life, so in the process of being pursued, girls will naturally choose boys who can give them the life they want to spend the rest of their lives with.

To be honest, I think that with the development of our times, today's girls are becoming more and more rational and more aware of what they want, and they also understand that if they want to meet the right person, they must work hard to make themselves the right person. Therefore, they will work hard to enrich and improve themselves, so that they can become better and better, both in appearance and internally. Because for a girl, being beautiful is an advantage, and living a beautiful life is the ability.

What they pursue is that they can live beautifully and well even if they don't rely on men. When their own level goes up, their requirements for their boyfriends will naturally become higher, and if the boys fail to meet their requirements. If you don't choose to be with such a boy.

Of course you will say. That's not the case, there are more and more money worshippers in this society. Admittedly, there are many such girls, but I don't think any girl is willing to fall like that.

The child is just that he really wants to live the life he wants, but he doesn't have the ability to do it himself, so he can only rely on men to live the life he wants in the wrong way. Such a girl is actually very pathetic. For some boys who have a self-motivated and enterprising heart and want to give happiness to girls, it is very difficult to catch up with such girls.

When I saw some boys annoyed by chasing girls, when boys shouted that it was difficult to chase girls, I thought that this boy must have hit a wall with girls, and he met beyond recognition. When falling in love, although most of the time it is boys chasing girls, there is a lot of article on this chasing word. Why is it so easy for some people to catch up, and why is it so difficult for some people to catch up, you still have to find the reason from yourself.

To put it simply, falling in love is essentially a process of mutual attraction between the two parties, but why there is still the word chasing, because in the process of chasing is precisely the process of boys beginning to express themselves, in this process, what kind of charm and what kind of courage boys have will be shown in front of girls, if you are attractive enough to girls, then your initiative in my opinion is a steel ball on a smooth plate, as soon as you move, you can't stop, your relationship will go all the way, Naturally, you will be able to get a beautiful woman. If you show the masculine charm can not enter the eyes of girls, then all your next actions will be in vain, some people begin to confess loudly in the first few days of chasing girls, what love you for a lifetime, these are the lowest in the eyes of girls, you can think that you are not distracted and have low emotional intelligence. Therefore, chasing girls is a slow process, and you can't eat hot tofu if you are anxious, and your self-expression in the process of chasing this has to be released slowly, so that it will seem that you have a deep connotation, and maybe she will be slowly attracted to you.

In fact, it takes a lot of effort when choosing the object of pursuit, don't see a girl with her own appetite, so you rush forward to understand, this is a very unwise behavior, what you should do is to calm your anger and spend a little more time to understand her, you are attracted to her at first glance by the knowledge of her appearance, and see the inside, now there is not a saying that good-looking skins are the same, interesting souls are one in a thousand. If you want to pursue a virtuous helper in the future, then you should pay more attention to fate, fate is a wonderful thing, maybe that beautiful girl is not suitable for you, and the real right for you is by your side.

Therefore, finding a girlfriend is a science, and chasing a girlfriend is even more of a science, don't say that chasing girls is difficult, maybe fate has not arrived, or the routine is not deep enough.

Because now the girl's vision has improved, either rich or powerful, if the boy is not outstanding in the crowd at all, the girl will definitely not like it, they all say that the ratio of men and women in China is unbalanced, my friends and I sometimes joke together, and in the future, one-third of the boys in China can only be singles. It doesn't matter if it's a girl or a boy, because of the influence of the developed information age.

People's thinking has also changed a lot, girls slowly began to like the rich and handsome, little fresh meat, dreaming that they can one day meet this kind of boy, the girl's vision has been greatly improved, so now it is more difficult for boys to chase girls, and another reason is because girls are not as innocent as before, girls' minds are gradually increasing, and girls in the past can abandon everything for love.

Now I ask how many girls can do this, the current girls are more realistic, have a long-term vision, will not be moved by the sweet words in front of them, but will think about things in the future. The most important thing is still in the boy himself, if the boy is good enough and has obvious potential, then the girl will accept it regardless of whether he has money or not.

In the past, as long as the two families were matched, two strange men and women could form a family together, and then look at the present, how much effort it takes to chase a girlfriend and marry a wife, of course, I am not saying how good the previous marriage system was, I just want to give a counterexample for how difficult it is to chase girls now, and shout deeply.

So if you want to chase your favorite girl, hurry up and work hard to improve yourself, and make yourself excellent from all aspects, in that case, it shouldn't be too difficult to chase girls, or like the kind of car and horse that used to be very slow, the letter is far away, and the realm of loving only one person in your life, the relationship between men and women is now difficult to catch, it is difficult to maintain, and it is not easy to live after marriage!