The boy said if he was not active enough how to reply

In fact, I am very enthusiastic when you take the initiative to chat with me, just because I am naturally warm-hearted and don't hate you, so the people I hate will be blocked or ignored; I didn't refuse when you asked me for help, and that's just because I'm helpful, as long as it's not someone I hate asking for help, and I feel like I'm going to help out if I can.

But that's all, I don't think of you when your avatar doesn't beat, and I don't talk to you when I have something on my mind, because you're not my lover, and you haven't entered my circle of close friends yet.

There is nothing unusual from the description of the problem, but you need to be cautious when dating online. It's better to be cautious.

As far as the problem description is concerned, the other party may be busy with things, so the two of them have a little misunderstanding in the response, or they may be a little disappointed because they are a little too anxious, so that the expectations do not meet expectations, but no matter what the reason, in terms of the problem description, the man and the woman still have a good impression of each other.

It should be noted that it is still necessary to follow the rules for the next development. The so-called slow things are round, especially for a healthy emotional development, it is still necessary to develop on the premise of reason, and gradual development is healthier. Another thing to remind is that you should be cautious about friends who have never met online.

In other words, it is not advisable to develop too fast.

Precautions for online dating.

1. Be cautious when talking about property.

When you start to contact online, if the other party talks about money, property, etc., you must be vigilant, you must know that the beginning of many online dating is the beginning of fraud, and there are still a lot of people who cheat money, and society is often not as beautiful as imagined.

2. Be careful when making an offer to meet offline.

Many people decide to meet offline before starting, so girls must be careful, of course you can make an appointment, but only during the day, the location of the appointment should not be too remote, it is best to be in a place with a lot of people, and it would be better if you were accompanied by a friend.

3. Don't disclose too much personal information at the beginning.

In the early stage of online contact or when each other decides to date online, don't disclose too much personal information, even if the other party tells a lot of things about yourself, you must know that no one will prove that what they say must be true, so girls should especially pay attention not to disclose information such as address and name.

He is not yet deeply in love with the heat. Looking at your introduction to him, I feel that he should be a rational type of boy, behind the immaturity of the time, there is often an unpredictable thing, if you meet in real life and start online dating, it is beautiful in reality; If it's just online dating, it's virtual beauty; For virtual things, if you are an adult, it is recommended to keep a trace of sanity, his level should only be at the level of liking, it is better with you, it is okay without you, it is recommended that you keep it all the time, girls, it is good not to be reserved, take the initiative and maintain a trace of sanity.

The man doesn't take the initiative to contact you, but you take the initiative and he responds positively, why? It is often the following four reasons, which are too accurate.

Hello, the boy replied positively, but he didn't take the initiative to show that he didn't like to take the initiative, he was a little shy, he liked you very much.

In the face of his cherished emotions, Brother Chu has always been timid, not daring to take the initiative and cowardly. The so-called holding it in your hand is afraid of falling, and holding it in your mouth is afraid of melting, but that's it.

If he doesn't take the initiative to find you, chances are he is a passive person. If there is no problem with his character, he may not be good at expressing his feelings and like you, but he doesn't know how to take the initiative to pursue you, but if he has a problem with his character and is more attentive, he may just enjoy the feeling of a girl pursuing him, and he will not refuse your good, but he will not be responsible.

He treats you as his best friend. It is said that liking will make people can't help it, so if it is a man, he will not take the initiative to chat with you, but when he receives your message, he will actively reply!

When a guy says something inappropriate, you can respond in the following ways:

1.Express your feelings directly: You can be honest with him and tell him that his words make you feel uncomfortable or offended. For example, you could say, "I feel a little uncomfortable hearing what you say offended, and I hope we can respect each other's feelings." ”

2.Ask him about his intentions: Sometimes, people inadvertently say things that are inappropriate and not intentionally offensive.

You can ask him if he is aware of the possible adverse effects of his words or if he has other intentions. For example, you could say, "Did you mean anything special about what you just said?"

For example, you could say, "I want you to respect my boundaries so that the communication between us can be more healthy and balanced." ”

4.Seek a solution: If you feel the need, you can work with him on how to improve communication and avoid similar situations from happening again.

For example, you could propose, "Together, we can find better ways to express our thoughts and feelings so that we can understand each other better." ”

5.Stay calm and respectful: Whatever you choose to respond to, stay calm and respectful. Avoid arguing or attacking each other, and instead express your opinions and feelings in a calm manner.

The most important thing is that you stick to your bottom line and respect your feelings. If the boy's behaviour persistently inappropriate or offensive, you may need to reconsider your relationship with him. <>

Summary. There is such a possibility.

I have a good impression but I don't like it yet.

If a man has a crush on a woman, he will actively reply to messages, but he will not send messages casually before he likes it. Because once a man takes the initiative, it means that he is interested in the woman, and he will not take the initiative easily.

When the emotion has not reached the level of liking, the boy will feel good in the process of chatting or getting along with the girl, and you will reply to him when you send him a message, although I am not sure whether he likes you or not, but at least leave a good impression is should.

Boys respond positively but don't take the initiative?

Hello, dear. There is this possibility, you have a good impression, but not enough to like a man, if you have a good impression of a woman, you will actively reply to the message, but you will not send a message casually before you like it. Because once a man takes the initiative, it means that he is interested in the woman, and he will not take the initiative easily.

When the emotion has not reached the level of liking, the boy will feel good in the process of chatting or getting along with the girl, and you will reply when you send him a message, although I am not sure if he likes you, but at least leave a good impression should.

The boy's line or words, if I don't hail and take the initiative to contact his source belt defeated, don't take the initiative to contact me, for example, I sometimes tell him that I have it, and he doesn't care much.

That's a pretty indifferent feeling, isn't it? It's just that I don't care much about you.

I don't know I can feel that he doesn't pay much attention to you and doesn't take the initiative to pursue you.

It doesn't matter what attitude is.

It doesn't matter attitude.

But I asked him if I said do you like me, he said he likes it, he doesn't like her, he ignores me, he said he's shy, I also found that he is really shy, for example, if I go out with him, he and I hold hands and stare at the feast, and when you see a lot of people, it will suddenly let go of my hand.

There was also a boy who chased me before, and my mother said that he was a rival in love, saying that he had been married and so on, but he also brought things for him to buy things that I bought, and he also carried them with him at any time, and asked me to buy intimate supplies, and she was also wearing them, and her parents asked him to say that he was a girl who bought them.

Being shy doesn't mean you won't fall in love, dear.

Right. Therefore, you don't contact him first, hang him for a few days, see how he performs, and whether he will take the initiative to contact you.

If you still don't reply to me by then, isn't it right to end this relationship?

If he doesn't take the initiative, you can communicate with him, tell him what you think, and listen to his thoughts.

Personally, I think that if I used to keep in touch every day, but now I don't contact each other, it's not because of my personality.

If it's because of personality, I won't say hello every morning and good night at the beginning, what do you say, dear.

Summary. Dear, the boy replies positively, but not actively, indicating the boy. Either you are a person with a more passive personality, a person with a more inner personality, or a boy is not interesting to you, but he is polite and actively replies to your messages, after all, there is no contradiction between you.

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Dear, the boy replies positively, but not actively, indicating the boy. Either you are a person with a more passive personality, a person with a more inner personality, or a boy is not interesting to you, but he is polite and actively replies to your messages, after all, there is no contradiction between you.

Why is it that every time I greet my boyfriend, he replies very much, but he never takes the initiative to contact you, but he was not like this before, and he has this attitude in the last two months, what is the reason?

How long have you known each other, if it's only been the last two months, it means that there is something wrong with your relationship, have you ever had a quarrel with each other? If not, he has other people he likes in his heart.

Three years. There have been quarrels.

There have been quarrels. And every time I asked him, he said that there was no contradiction between us, and that he was still the same as before for you, but from his behavior, he was ignoring my feelings and answering the question.

And every time I asked him, he said that there was no contradiction between us, and that he was still the same as before for you, but from his behavior, he was ignoring my feelings and answering the question.

It's normal for couples to have a little quarrel occasionally, depending on what the reason for your quarrel is, when there is a problem in the relationship, you should communicate and solve it in time, if you avoid each other, it will only make the contradiction accumulate deeper and deeper, and in the end, the relationship will be separated when it fades.

Are you in a long-distance relationship, have you talked to him about your relationship problems, his attitude has changed, there should be a problem, or he has been busy with work and stressed recently, and you have ignored his life status.

He'd said it many times, but he still knew it.

He'd said it many times, but he still knew it.

Is he forcing me to give up this relationship with him?

Then you try not to contact him for a while to see if he will reach out to you. Calm down for a while. Think about whether this is the relationship you want, what kind of problems you have been together for three years, and if he takes the initiative to contact you, it means that he has not changed.

In fact, the relationship between people is not tired of getting along, if a relationship makes you feel tired, it means that this relationship is not suitable for you.

Summary. Hello kiss, the boy's reply can't be as affirmative, because the question you asked is the answer you don't want the last time is his. So he said he wasn't the best answer. That is, you shouldn't have asked at all.

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Hello Song Xiao kiss Ye Shan Zhi, the boy can't reply as positive because the question you asked is the answer you don't want the last time is his. So he said he wasn't the best answer. In other words, you shouldn't have asked at all.