Does it hurt a guy to say this?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-07
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I can find someone who is suitable in all aspects. It's very difficult. It's not about going to the market, it's about finding the right person and spending the rest of your life with you.

    Therefore, it is necessary to find a person with similar views and similar living habits as each other's partners. If two people can't fit together spiritually. There is not even a common topic, acquaintance.

    Life is bound to become very dull and boring. In this way, it is difficult to enhance the relationship between two people. Your girlfriend is already changing.

    And the relationship is mutual, since she can change for you, then you can also change for him, so that the gap between the two of you will shrink and narrow. If a guy says something like that to a girl, it doesn't necessarily break his girlfriend's heart. I think the young man was more sincere and didn't deceive her.

    It's just that the feelings are not in place, and they have not reached the point where love is dead and alive. So. There's no need to say something to please your girlfriend with your conscience.

    That would have a bad effect. If you love, you can love well, and tolerate each other. If you don't think it's love.

    Only. Select Separate. In this way, it is an explanation to each other.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It is possible that this boy does not like the introverted personality very much, and he still can't achieve his ideal by thinking about change. So I told my girlfriend what I thought. In fact, saying this doesn't hurt my girlfriend's heart. This man is honest.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Saying this will really miss his girlfriend's heart, and it also shows that the boy doesn't love the girl enough, maybe the girl is not the type he likes, so he has no feelings for the girl, and hopes that the girl can change for him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It seems to be really sad for her, she has changed a lot but still hasn't become what you want, you say that she may give up.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's still not enough to love girls, if you love someone, there won't be so many rules.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There is no stable relationship, which proves that the relationship between you is not so certain, and you can't go to each other's hearts, which can only be said to be an ordinary friend relationship

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Feelings are hard to tell.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    <>1. When I said I was sleepy and wanted to sleep at night, I really wanted to sleep.

    2. When you see a beautiful young lady on the road, you can directly say that it looks good, and Duck doesn't have to say to me, "It's not as good-looking as you at all", while keeping glancing at others.

    3. I hope you don't keep playing games and brushing Douyin, you can also chat with me and share today's little things.

    4. 59% of girls in China are B cups.

    5. When I'm in a bad mood, I hope you can take the initiative to talk to me stupidly and care about my emotions.

    6. Take me out to meet your friends, and remember to take the initiative to introduce me.

    7. Sometimes scolding you is simply to see that you are unhappy, and don't link everything to the menstrual period.

    8. Many times I don't want a person who will only speak in my ear and persuade me to be sober, do you think I really don't understand those big truths in China?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When it's cold and hot, men are confused, feeling that this love is "reliable". There is a limit to a person's ability to accept the "ups and downs" of the mood. Maybe once, when a man's heart fell into a trough, he got tired of liking her, and shifted his overall goal to love a woman who was really passionate.

    People's hearts can't stand the "coldness", and men's hearts are stronger and more tolerant, but they are disappointed when they are neglected more times. If you love, you can live a good life, if you don't like it, you can simply order it, and women must not be hot and cold from time to time.

    Some women, gradually from their teens, recognize their brother and brother everywhere, feel that they are very open-minded, and feel "female boss". But I don't know that most of these boys who want to be a woman's godbrother and brother's brother have a good impression of this woman, or can be used as a "spare tire". In short, the boy felt that there was no loss.

    If a man finds a girlfriend who has a godbrother and a godbrother everywhere, he may not be able to start a relationship with the cheats, at least lose his temper and have a big bowl every day. The most unbearable thing is that women often party with such men, and everyone chats happily. Or there is a WeChat chat group, chatting until late, I feel very good, and I don't take the boyfriend next to me to heart at all.

    Some women have a boyfriend or are stupid and can't tell the difference between good and bad feelings. I also feel like a single man and woman, and when I meet a man I don't hate, I pat myself on the shoulder and look at each other. It seems that you are a little friend who has not grown up.

    But I don't know that all people in their twenties should know that "there is a difference between men and women". The man is very relieved about such a woman, maybe she really threw herself into the arms of others as soon as she turned around. At least, the man has such thoughts, and he slowly feels that this woman is unreliable and will be deliberately unfamiliar.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Suddenly hot and cold, everywhere recognize brother Gao Zao to do brother to brother and brother, be with other men, pat shoulders, often have dinners, always say that the other party has no ability, and that the other party is not rich in dates. Envy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Have intimate contact with other members of the opposite sex.,Often complain about your boyfriend.,Often complain about your boyfriend in front of outsiders.。

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    is unreasonable, doesn't give them face outside, gets too close to other members of the opposite sex, often cold and violent, often hot and cold.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hello, I'm glad for your question, girls say such things the most hurt the hearts of boys, often say that boys can't do it, complain that others are not as capable as others, make money not as much as others, life is worse than others, and play a stupid banquet to hit boys' physiological functions, so girls are most likely to hurt boys' hearts when they say that boys can't do it, and boys' self-confidence will also be very hit, and they will hate girls in their hearts.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Summary. Honey, I will first confirm the reason why my boyfriend is sad and what the girl can do to help him. You can patiently ask your boyfriend some questions to help him find out the cause of his sadness and help him relieve his emotions in the moment.

    Then, in order to help him get rid of his sadness for a long time, you can provide him with some support to help him analyze the problem, release the stress, and stimulate his inner strength to cope with the difficulties. If possible, take him on a trip and do something he wants to do with him to relax. Finally, you can thank him for opening his mind and sharing his true emotions with you, showing that you are willing to accompany him through difficult times and will always support him.

    Honey, I will first confirm the reason why my boyfriend is sad and what the girl can do to help him. You can patiently ask your boyfriend some questions to help him find out the cause of his sadness, as well as help him relieve his emotions in the moment. Then, in order to help him get rid of his sadness for a long time, you can provide him with some support to help him analyze the problem, release the stress, and stimulate his inner strength to cope with the difficulties.

    If possible, take him on a trip and do something he wants to do with him to relax. Finally, you can thank him for opening his mind and sharing his true emotions with you, showing that you are willing to accompany him through difficult moments and will always support him.

    My dear, it is recommended that when you want to understand that a man is very good and hurt his heart, the most important thing is to accompany and care, and maybe take him out for a drink, and then let him tell him about the sad things about the shed, and you will know how to comfort him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Girls are usually in the role of being favored in love, as a small public act, in the eyes of many boys, girls are cute, but too much will hurt the boyfriend's heart.

    All the goodness that a boy has for a girl is based on liking, so the most likely behavior to hurt your boyfriend's heart is to rely on him to love you and squander his feelings. Get too close to other members of the opposite sex, regardless of your boyfriend's feelings. When your boyfriend makes this request, you blame him for restricting your freedom and not being considerate of your feelings, which makes your boyfriend feel that you may not love him, which is a great disrespect for his feelings.

    The second is to mention your ex many times in front of your boyfriend, and even compare him with your ex, and don't boast about how good other boys are in front of your boyfriend, boys are jealous, and comparing your boyfriend with other boys will only push your boyfriend farther and farther away.

    Another is to check the post often, girls are easy to suffer from gains and losses in the relationship, so there will be a lot of girls who check the post too much, suspicious. Frequent inspections of girls will not only cause huge pressure on the boy and affect his normal life, but also lead to a crisis of trust in love, and the most important thing in love is trust. When trust is missing, love becomes fragile.

    When the relationship is deep to a certain extent, they begin to discuss marriage, and at this time, many girls will mention that they will not get married without a house or car, or even obey their parents' arrangements and use their feelings for many years as bargaining chips. Even say things that hurt people's self-esteem, in fact, I understand very well that girls want to have more sense of security, but it shouldn't be too extreme, don't bully young people to be poor, we can't deny boys all because of poverty, especially those words that hurt people's self-esteem, will make boys bear huge pressure and the pain of losing love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In fact, the love expressed verbally is relatively weak, and I think it is still necessary to express it with actions. When the other person is in trouble, help him solve the difficulty, and comfort the other person when the other person is sad. Trust the other person, don't be suspicious, and give the other person some space.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think that after a girl has a boyfriend, she should learn to avoid too intimate behavior with the opposite sex, so that she can give her a sense of security boyfriend, and your boyfriend will feel that you are a person worthy of love and cherishment.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think girls who have boyfriends should not get too close to the opposite sex, and should pay attention to keeping a distance from the opposite sex, this is what boys care about the most, sincerity is the most important.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Girlfriends are ambiguous with the opposite sex, regardless of the boy's feelings, this will hurt the boyfriend's heart, the girlfriend denies the existence of the boyfriend, denies the boyfriend's ability, this will also hurt their heart, hug, kiss when pushing them away, and with disgust, it will also hurt their hearts.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You don't care about his feelings, and you often touch his bottom line. I think this is more hurtful to the boy's heart, so you can't just think about yourself, you have to think about him more.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's to chat with other boys, play together, but don't tell your boyfriend, so people will be sad, so be sure to keep messages exchanged, chat often, and report your whereabouts.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In my opinion, the light is the light of the gift I carefully selected, and the girl who received it said that it was the eyes of a straight man, and the most important thing is to live up to the boy's joy for her.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    In my opinion, the behavior that hurts my boyfriend's heart the most is to constantly maintain an ambiguous relationship with many people of the opposite sex, or there are a lot of friends of the opposite sex around me.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In fact, there are many actions that are easy to hurt your boyfriend's heart, such as always ignoring him and having some cold wars with him, so this is easy to cause this problem.

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