What are the steps of the funeral in the north, and what are the particulars during the funeral

1. Burial. 2. After death, people are generally parked in the living room for five days.

3. Hang flags at the door, male left and female right.

Men die on the left, women die on the right. One look at the banner and you will know whether the man or the woman is dead).

4. To mourn the deceased, women in the villagers generally bring burning paper to mourn the afternoon before the burial, and adult men generally only bring burning paper to the door to worship without crying.

5. On the day of burial: Relatives and friends generally come at about 10 o'clock in the morning to start the feast, and the banquet is generally held at 2 o'clock in the afternoon, and the coffin is released after the feast.

6. The villagers carried the coffin out of the house and sent it to the hearse.

7. The first echelon of the coffin: the eldest son generally falls the "labor pot", and the second son carries the flag. The eldest son comes first, the second son comes last, and so on.

Second echelon: the eldest daughter-in-law first, the second daughter-in-law last, and so on. Three echelons:

The eldest daughter comes first, the second daughter comes last, and so on. Fourth echelon: general relatives and friends.

8. Turning the coffin: In the coffin delivery team, the son, daughter-in-law, and daughter are all supported. When holding a man, hold the man's left arm; When holding the woman, the woman's maiden brother or brother holds her right arm. When the woman turns the coffin, she turns the inner circle, clockwise.

When the man turns the coffin, the outer circle is counterclockwise.

9. The singing class and the drum team were sent out of the village.

10. Burial.

11. The next day's grave.

Now it's simpler, and people usually stay in the living room for three days after they die. Then wait for the crematorium car to come the next day, pull the deceased away, revitalize the loved ones, take the ashes home, and then bury them.

In your case, it's generally better to throw it into the sea, which is not only reasonable, but also environmentally friendly!

Death procedures: When a loved one dies, the death certificate that must be issued by the family or unit of the deceased: in case of normal death, a medical death certificate shall be issued by a medical and health institution; In the case of an unnatural death, the public security or judicial department at or above the district or county level shall issue a death certificate.

Cancellation of household registration: The family members of the deceased should go to the local police station with the death certificate to cancel the household registration.

Contact cremation: 1) Call ** or send someone to the funeral home or funeral service station to contact cremation, and register the deceased's name, address, age, gender, cause of death, time of death, location of the body, and location of the deceased's household registration; 2) Register the name, address, relationship with the deceased, etc.; 3) Scheduled service items, service time.

Pick-up of the remains: According to the scheduled time, the family members will wait for the hearse to pick up the body at the designated place with the death certificate.

Cremation of remains: 1) transportation of the remains to the funeral home; 2) plastic surgery of the remains; 3) farewell to the remains; 4) Cremation of the remains, purchase an urn, and receive a cremation certificate; 5) Pick up the ashes.

Burial of ashes: Place the ashes in the selected manner and receive a certificate for the storage of ashes. After that, the family members came to the cemetery with this certificate to pay respects.

The bright red Spring Festival couplets are not pasted bright red is a representative of joy, in order to express the mourning and respect for the old people who have passed away in the sky, and the bright red Spring Festival couplets can not be pasted during the Spring Festival in the first year.

Generally, the first year is not pasted couplet, if you want to paste, only paste milky white, until the fourth year of the new attack on the Rotten Forest Spring Festival can be pasted bright red Spring Festival couplet.

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In addition, firecrackers are not allowed, clothing should be simple and simple, and gaudy clothes and pants should not be worn. Some areas also have to separate the time and have a reunion dinner early on the 28th day of the lunar month.

As the ancient saying goes, filial piety comes first, and we Chinese attach great importance to the matter of mourning, and when the elderly in the family pass away, the family should be responsible for the first year of the Spring Festival, which may mainly show a quiet situation to prevent singing and laughing.

During the New Year's holidays, you can't sign up for a dinner with friends, and you don't have to go to public places to take pictures as much as possible, and you should avoid crowded bustling areas when you go out.

Most of the southerners are crying and mourning, especially the death of the elderly, the more they cry, the more filial they are, while most of the northerners are happy to mourn, once the old man dies, they will invite the folk team to sing and dance, which is also an expression of filial piety.

Most of the southerners are mourning, while the northerners are happy to mourn, after the death of a person, the northerners will invite some famous troupes to perform, and the southerners are beating gongs and drums.

The southern funeral is three days, and the third day is out in the morning. The funerals in the north are a single funeral, and most of them are in no order, first come, first served.

In rural areas in the south, banquets are generally held, gongs and drums are beaten, and mourning is played, and then cremated two or three days later. In the northern countryside, there is joy and mourning, and people will be invited to sing and dance.

For example, if there is an old man in the north who has passed away, the children have to wear plain shirts, wear filial piety hats, wear white shoes, and wear white on top and bottom, so the folk call the funeral a white thing, and the old man who is over 70 years old is called "happy funeral", called "white joy", and the south is collectively referred to as a white thing.

The rebuilding of ancestral halls in rural areas in the south is especially common in South China, such as Fujian and Guangdong. The northern peasants reorganized the funeral. The rest of the process should be pretty much the same. Now in the city, it has been simplified a lot.

After someone dies in the south, the immediate family members of the family should wear linen and wear filial piety, and they will keep filial piety at night, and when they go up the mountain, they will cry and mourn to express their grief and longing for their relatives after their death.

The northern countryside likes to hold funerals and dance to help out, while the southern countryside prefers all kinds of flowing water mats and the construction of ancestral halls.

Five miles are not customary, ten miles change the rules, and the funerals are different, which can be explained by the words of the ruler paper! My hometown is located at the junction of Gongxing County, and the coffin style used in the adjacent village is different! Not to mention the elaborate etiquette.