What s it like to be graded by a friend?

Don't snap and zoom in on it. Looking down is actually a flashing thought, when we see a TV star, we will also think that she is actually not as good as so-and-so, her acting skills are good, but she is still worse than so-and-so. As everyone knows, she is beautiful and earns a lot of money, doing things that we don't have a chance to do on our own.

Capturing and zooming in on a scene could actually be a flashback. You may be sad that someone treats you in a similar way when you are weaker, but even if the same thing doesn't hurt you now, when something similar happens, you are still as sad as if you were instantly pulled back to that time. Then you need to get rid of your anxiety, it's not your friend's responsibility and you can do it, go out for a few laps, watch a good movie with dedication, you can let go of your anxiety.

It's a flash of thought to look at it, and sometimes I suddenly feel that people who don't usually pay much attention also have such and such advantages, and that's why you can become friends.

It can only be said that first of all, we must first reflect on our own shortcomings. There must be a reason for being looked down upon, and secondly, stay away from that friend, this depends on the depth of your feelings for her, and if you are not willing to give up, you will leave temporarily and strengthen your skills and temperament from the inside out. If you still don't get respect after all kinds of changes, it is advisable to choose to leave permanently, she will only make you feel bad.

A person's mood determines a person's state, rather than being affected by such a person every day, it is better to stay away from her, start a new life of yourself, and meet new friends.

Did you do something to make others look down on you? If not, don't befriend him in the future. Just a faint one. Friends should respect each other, be equal, and be comfortable with each other.

I think it's better not to define who is your "best friend". There is a saying: "I thought you were good to me, but who knew that you were good to everyone."

I thought about moving on, "I thought I was a good friend of yours, but you have many friends like me." "When you treat him as your best friend, does he think of you as your best friend again? I'm sure you haven't thought about it once.

Back to the question, if he were your best friend, he wouldn't look down on you. You're all obsessed, can you still be his best friend in the future? Problems can only be solved by yourself, and you can only reflect on what others say.

I think people will meet a lot of people they like and regard them as their friends, but the other party doesn't care, maybe like you said, and even looks down on you, I think people's interactions are really hierarchical. Things are gathered by like, and people are grouped.

If you care about him very much, try your own efforts to impress him, if it's just a general friend, then let him be, but maybe I won't be a good friend with him, it depends on why he looks down on me.

Then it can't be best friends, my best friends have known each other for less than a year, but they all cherish each other, I have friends for more than nine years, and they are all in touch, but to distinguish between them, this is definitely not the best friend.

It must be sad, but when you meet this kind of person, you should stay away, and since they don't treat you as a friend, you don't pay attention to him. It's not worth it to be sad for such people.

There is no level between friends, in fact, in his heart you are all the same.