What was it like to be in a relationship from college until you got married?

When we first got together, I didn't feel that I couldn't do without him, but now I feel that I really love him and don't want to leave him. Now in my junior year, my family wants me to go home for graduate school. His family is from Hubei, and we both went to university in Wuhan, he is one year younger than me, but he is one year older than me, and he also has to take the postgraduate entrance examination and enter Wuhan.

As for work, he doesn't want to go home, he wants to go to a city by the sea, and for an inland child, I also like a city near the sea, and I go to this city with him when I want to work. But if you go to a city near the sea, it will not be good to go home for the graduate school entrance examination, and it should be okay to go to a good school in Wuhan, and he said that he will accompany me to review.

I feel very happy, I fell in love for three and a half years in college, he went to graduate school, I didn't go back to my hometown to wait for him to graduate, two years in a different place, and finally waited for him to graduate and get married. Although life is not easy, I still feel that I have chosen the path and I am happy.

We've known each other for almost ten years, from high school, college, and then graduate school, he's my relative, and we're so familiar that we know what they're thinking at a glance, and he's become an inseparable part of me. We have accompanied each other's growth, from ignorance at the time to maturity today. Although there were fierce quarrels, they never thought of separating.

On the day we received the certificate, we read the oath to each other, and then a big boy of more than 1.8 meters cried and couldn't speak, which made the people who registered for marriage inexplicable, and he cried so that I, an old girl who was almost 30 years old, was also in tears.

She is taking the graduate school entrance examination, and I am taking the public entrance examination. There is still a period of time after graduation, but the question of where to go after graduation has frequently appeared in our lives recently, affecting our emotions and feelings, interfering with the rhythm of our review, and both of us are in a depressed state. I was overwhelmed.

I'm in Hulunbuir, Inner Mongolia, and she's in Yichang, Hubei. We went to college together in Wuhan, met in our freshman year, and have gone from our sophomore year to the present. In the middle, it is noisy and noisy, crying, laughing and laughing, but it makes our relationship more and more solid, and we often look forward to a better life in the future together, as long as we dream together, we seem to be able to wake up with laughter.

It will be very happy, because it is a love affair when I am studying, it is much simpler, and this kind of love is enviable.

I met in 06, we were together in April 07, he graduated in July and went to Fujian, I stayed in Hunan to continue my schooling, I could only meet three or four times a year, I graduated in 10 years and went to Fujian to be with him, 11 years to register marriage, and now we have been together for ten years, my daughter is more than four years old, very affectionate, almost no quarrels, everything is together.

If that's the case, I think it's very good, after all, I can make this love last until I enter the palace of marriage.

I am relatively happy in my heart, if I can encounter such a thing in the future, then how happy I should be, I hope that I can encounter this kind of good thing in the future.

I feel like I have a lot less to do than others, there is no long-distance location, no quarrels, no RV requirements, and I get married as a matter of course.

The love that falls in college must be able to enter the palace of marriage, of course, the probability of success is not necessarily large, because we have seen a lot of college people who fall in love, and the 1-to-1 pair does not reach the palace of marriage in the end. Because the love I talked about in college still belongs to the love of a blind mongrel, it is relatively simple and more single-minded, without the influence of some secular and objective conditions. After entering the society, especially after joining the work, the people and things you come into contact with are completely different from those in college, so your outlook on life, worldview and values may change somewhat, and your view of romance in college will also change at that time.

At that time, I felt that he had to marry someone who he didn't marry, and this feeling may become more and more diluted, and if the two are not together at work, they are separated, then this feeling may become stronger and stronger. So in the end, many romances that seem indestructible in college will end with Lao Yan flying apart. But some lovers still persevered to the end, they eliminated a lot of difficulties, always insisted on their feelings for each other, and finally entered the palace of marriage.

Of course, such people, such lovers are lucky, and they are also happy in the end, because after all, they have established a relationship in a simple environment, and after the test of secular and social conditions, and finally two people can be together, then I believe that their feelings are pure and can withstand the test of time, space and things.

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Have you ever wondered what the reason behind this is?

In terms of Lingling's personal experience, my boyfriend and I fell in love in college.

I studied in a university in Shanghai, and he was in Shandong, we have always been in a long-distance relationship since we fell in love, and many friends around me at that time persuaded me, saying that the long-distance relationship is the most unreliable, and it must be fruitless.

But until now, we have gone through nearly 6 years, and those who persuaded me have already separated from the tata Lao Yan who talked to the university.

From my experience with them, Lingling analyzed several reasons, and I hope it will help you if you are in love or ready to fall in love!

Tell you a story:

I started my own business after graduating from university, and many people in the entrepreneurial circle are motivated, so I am no exception to like a person in the circle.

In order to express my sincerity when I was chasing her, I told her my Alipay account number and password, including the payment password, etc., and said that I would buy what I liked. (My borrowing is 12w2, Huabei is 1w1, and Zhaolian Financial is 2w2.) ）

With such an idea, she judged that I was not suitable for a boy, and even said that I was not suitable to be the other half. At that time, I was actually very angry and thought she was very bad. A year later, when I look back at it, I realize that I understand something.

Through this incident, she saw an immature boy's view of money, if a boy's view of money is not liberated, he will be stingy, a girl's view of money will be cheesy if he is not liberated, heroes will not like vulgar women, and excellent women will not like stingy men.

And today, if you start calculating his gains and losses and costs before you start doing business, the result will not be so good. Success or failure. You have to understand that every failure makes us more hungry for the right thing and careful to avoid the mistakes ahead.

In this regard, you earn both success and failure.

Go for it!!

We often say that college graduation season is breakup season, many people break up in their senior year because of graduation, maybe because they don't love enough, or maybe they don't have much expectation for each other's future, graduation seems to be a good excuse to part ways and go their separate ways. Of course, there are also people who have a graduation certificate and a marriage certificate in the other. Such college couples often talk for a long time, have the same goals, and feel that the other party is the person who will accompany them for a lifetime, so they will give each other a promise when they graduate.

Generally speaking, the success rate of falling in love in college and getting married is very low, and only 2 out of 10 couples may enter the palace of marriage, and the rest are defeated by reality.

Some people fall in love in college because they meet the right person, while some people want to feel the breath of love, and different purposes affect the future direction to a greater or lesser extent. The love in college was quite young and innocent, after all, they were all students, and the wind and snow could only be two people sitting in the library reading books together, or holding hands for a walk under the moon. There is some truth in the saying that falling in love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families.

If you want to get married, the parents of both parties must communicate and get along, so that there will not be many conflicts after marriage. The Great Sage has always felt that marriage is a very serious matter, and once decided, it will be for life. College students go from school uniforms to wedding dresses are enviable, but many people struggle to do it.

Take advantage of your youth to fall in love, meet the right person, and feel the breath of youth.

I think it's okay, as long as it's sincere and emotional.

First of all, both parties must understand that a really good relationship is hard to come by, that is, you have to conform to "fate". If you don't meet someone you like, don't be lonely and blindly follow the crowd to fall in love for the sake of love. Love is best built on the basis of friendship, friendship is when you know each other for a long time, can play together, have common interests and aspirations.

Secondly, when you meet the person you like, you must not only have the courage to pursue boldly and confess, but also give the other party the necessary respect and understanding. Finally, after the relationship is established, two people with different personalities will have stumbles in many aspects, both parties need to understand and tolerate each other, love is not a person's business, two people need to work together to manage and care. At the university level, how to face the current study and love, and how to think about the relationship between work and marriage in the future.

Studying is more about the cultivation of knowledge and preparing for future work, and love is the cultivation of emotions to lay the foundation for future marriage. Whether it is study and love, or work and marriage, the two are mutually promoting and complementary under good conditions. As a necessary stage or a necessary event in life, it is they that make our life truly mature and complete.

Not all relationships that start in college can go to the end, falling in love is falling in love, and getting married is getting married, these are two completely different stages. And when getting married, there are a lot of situations that we need to consider, such as the right match, the distance, etc., which are all places that everyone needs to pay attention to. So when we are looking for a love partner, we must first think about what kind of object we are looking for, and whether this person can go to the end.

When I was in college, I was actually very envious of those boys and girls who fell in love, after all, their college life was too rich, and some people also said that if they fell in love from college, they would definitely be able to get married? This is not necessarily, because the love in college is relatively pure, and everyone does not need to consider so many material issues, while marriage needs to consider a lot of practical problems. Parents of boys may be fine, but parents of girls do not want their daughters to marry far away because they are afraid that their daughters will be bullied if they marry far away.

When everyone graduates, they know the importance of money, and they also know that it is really possible to move an inch without money. If the family situation of the two of you is relatively similar, then it is more likely to get married, if the economic gap between the two families is too big, the other party may not agree, after all, no one wants to marry their children to endure hardship. No one can accept their son, find someone with particularly poor family conditions, and they also want their children to struggle for a few less years.

Under the influence of various factors, marriage has become a very uncertain thing. <>

Whether it is a boy or a girl, we must rush to get married when we fall in love, and when we are looking for a partner, we must also find a family environment that is closer to home than home, and it cannot be said that after a few years of love, we find that both parties are not suitable, and this time is not only a waste of time, but also youth and life.

Personally, I think it is possible to get married; I think this kind of relationship is relatively stable, and the two people know each other very well, and this kind of relationship can lead to marriage.

Some can't, some can't. If the two of you are not in a different place after graduating from college, it is possible to get married. If it's a different place, it's going to break up.

Under normal circumstances, you can't get married, because nowadays many young people just fall in love for the sake of falling in love, and if they graduate, most of them will go their separate ways.