How to enlighten a friend who is bigger than yourself

Well, I've always thought that looking for good friends is to find "complementary" ones, so that each other's personalities and attitudes may be different, but they will achieve a harmonious effect

She likes to call the shots, such people often have a strong sense of subjectivity, a strong sense of competitiveness, and a drive to do things, but they are easy to ignore some objective factors. At this time, it is necessary for you, an attentive good friend, to stand up and put forward your views and suggestions.

If she has strong self-esteem, you can say it tactfully, or sometimes you can deliberately ask some questions and slowly guide her to find objective problems.

It is important to remember that you and she are good friends. Slowly change her and change her own ......*Hee-hee-hee......I hope your affairs can be resolved smoothly

This should be better and simpler to think about from the root.

The better friends are, the more they feel that they should be farther away from each other. When you partner together, it feels like you have made a mistake, and if you have a clear division of interests, there will be problems. The distinction is not clear, and it is even more problematic.

The most important thing is to ask your friends to see their own position, you must see your own position, your friends are too conceited. I only think that I am the most capable, but there are people outside the world, and there are heavens outside the sky, so you should ask your friends to see which people are more capable than yourself, so that you can continue to improve! Hehe, I wish your friends a change of attitude as soon as possible!

Let's talk about it and analyze the seriousness of the matter.

If you can't talk about it, you will part ways.

Think of her as a business partner now, and you'll know what to do.

If it's a really good friend, you won't turn your face because of money.

No matter how bad you are, what do you do to others, why bother with others, really powerful people will not be hated because of their appearance. Because of the confidence that she will be beautiful. Those who really have connotation will not judge others by their appearance.

Nowadays there are many ways to get rid of freckles without worrying.

What's wrong with freckles, it's not something to see. Actually, think about those big stars, in fact, he also has freckles all over his face, but they put on makeup to cover them. Actually, freckles are not a big deal.

Eh, appearance is really important for girls, but sister, please believe me, the inside is more important, self-confidence is the most important point to exude feminine charm, and appearance can now be changed through external factors, and when you grow up, you can use essential oils for a long time, it can lighten freckles, and now you can also use tofu for a long time, that is, ordinary tofu, crush the tofu and put it on the face, wash it off for about 20 minutes, wash it off, wash it with rice water, wash your face, orange juice can play a little role, as long as you insist on it, you can also use concealer powder to make up when you grow up Be sure to enrich your knowledge, let yourself have intellectual beauty, race against time, beautiful women will lose to women with interior.

If you want to go to university, just read good books, freckles, you have to pay attention to some, use some freckle-removing skin care products, which will slowly fade, talk to the people around you, they may not care about your face spots, only you mind.

Of course, a girl's face is very important, but not everyone can look like a goose, and it doesn't matter if you have freckles, you must be happy and not let your heart have freckles

I also have low self-esteem because I'm fat.

Everyone has shortcomings, so there's no need to be so sad.

Don't worry, the people who love you will love you no matter what you look like, including your parents.

Why bother yourself, give yourself a little time to relax, throw the memories of the past into the back of your mind, and ask you to forget, it is estimated that it is difficult to do, and treat the feelings you have lost as a memory. Since you've said it, everyone already has a girlfriend now. Why do you have any hope for him, there's no need.

Cheer up and face a new day, look up at the blue sky, and tell yourself that the new day is gone. Communicate with your heart and believe that you will be much better. Don't lose yourself because he's alone.

Just be yourself, don't stumble your mood because of the past, so that you will not be tired or depressed. If you want to open some, go out for a walk, or get together with friends, you will quickly come out of that loss. Come on.

Hopefully you'll be able to adjust soon. Remember, there are still a lot of journeys ahead, don't stop because of this, the fate that belongs to you is still continuing, I believe that one day, you will meet the happiness that belongs to you.

You can't accept this fact, don't think about him, relax, it'll be fine in a month or two, I used to forget about a person I like Use 1 month, you, be strong, don't make yourself seem like you can't do without him, there may be someone who loves you more,

If he doesn't even have the courage to return to work, how can he face the adversity he will face when doing business in the future? Whether you are working or doing your own business, being able to bend and stretch is the way to survive. You don't have to care about what others think of you, as long as you have a clear conscience and face everything or everyone openly, will you be afraid of what others will say about you?

If you just don't have enough money, you can try borrowing from friends and relatives. If going back to work is the only way out, then go back to work first, and it's not too late to come out and work hard when you have saved enough money. People always have to face the reality will be better, to know that other people's eyes are only superficial things, the most important thing is to believe in yourself, you can afford yourself, the so-called face is just a psychological barrier, let go of the environment, then everything will not be a problem.

OWN LIFE, OWN LIFE ... If you don't go back, no one else will help you ...

They will only talk coldly.

Snake eyes. First, does your friend want to go back but can't let go?

Second, your friend's house is tight? Do you want him to go back?

If it's the first point, then please don't estimate the face problem, it's hard to live with face.

If it's the second point, ask your friend to stick to his own business and compare which is a person's business. To keep your friend's business, first communicate with their family, and then find a way to solve business problems...

Don't hesitate to do anything, as long as you don't break the law, don't violate morality, do it boldly, always worry about the eyes of the people around you can't live this day, it's a man who does things domineeringly, no matter what you don't try how to know it, hesitation and entanglement are just a waste of time, it is impossible to get the most suitable result, because the original tangled thing is not accurate, rather than wasting time, it is better to do it!

Worry is not realistic, if you really go back, maybe the result will be another, where you have worked, there are many acquaintances, less time to run-in, and you can quickly get into the working state.

Since he wants to do a small business, it means that he has a heart that is not satisfied with the status quo, he has a sense of crisis, he knows what kind of life he wants, he should not be influenced by his family, stick to his beliefs, when the opportunity is in front of you, you should seize it, instead of letting it slip away, you should not think about how to enlighten him to go to work, but should only eat him to go out to start a business.

Now his family strongly urges him to return to his original unit to work, but he is afraid of returning there to be seen by others, what should my friend do? How?

-Don't be afraid of other people's eyes, just do your own thing, and don't make mistakes and be fired.

-The horse dies and walks on the ground, and when people have bad times, they can become big things if they can endure a little.

I think the leaders of the unit can let him go back regardless of his previous suspicions, what else can't he let go? Everyone's affirmation of a person's abilities is not determined by one thing, it takes a long time to observe. There may be people who read jokes among colleagues around you, but such people are in the minority after all.

And even if there were, so what? Those who become big things are not informal, the most important thing is not to deny themselves, is the vision of others really that important? As long as you have ambition and exercise your abilities, you will find your own success one day.

How many people have succeeded all at once? Besides, this kind of thing is like a wind blowing for a while, everyone will forget about it in a few days, and there is nothing wrong with being a man of the hour for a few days, how can people who want to have their own careers can't even stand such a small storm? Give yourself more opportunities to hone your skills, and at the beginning of your career, there is nothing wrong with strengthening your psychological quality?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

You should go to a psychiatrist and seek professional advice, right? If you go in the morning, you can find a specialist. Register a number of ten dollars, fill in the ** is the test, tell your questions to the doctor, write if you are not clear, or print it out.

Let's take a look, right?

I used to be like this, I didn't even go to see it, I rarely had contact with people in society, I didn't have anything to talk to others, I would say the wrong thing with girls, I was so tired of living, and I couldn't eat fat all the time. Now I have met good friends, which makes me cheerful, and I often look for jobs and go to other places by myself. When I got married, I became more confident in myself, I was bolder, and I had more topics to talk about with the people I loved, and I could talk about anything.

I hope there is something to refer to.

Tell yourself in your heart that you are too worried. Every time you feel anxious, you have to tell yourself over and over again that you are actually fine, nothing bad, and others have no prejudice against you. Every time, I hint at myself like this, and try my best to give myself positive psychological hints.

Cultivate your mind, make your heart strong, no matter what other people's words are, you can be afraid of the collapse of Mount Tai, and deal with it calmly.

In short, it would be nice to think from the heart and from another perspective.

Take her to watch the boys play basketball, football, and games, and take her to slowly integrate into the boys' pile.

The New Year is coming, and our business is getting better and better. Last month, several new people were recruited, and one of them was promoted to cashier by the store manager in less than a month. To be honest, I'm depressed because I came earlier than them, and it should be me who wants to be promoted!

Although I also want to say that it is not just a part-time job, my ambition is not here, but I still mind if I am not recognized.

I was depressed all night, but today I decided to go to work with a smile. Just to avoid being looked down upon by others, why can't I? I'm going to prove it to them!

The root problem is that you don't have enough knowledge.

It is recommended to learn more in your free time. Others don't have me, others do, I fine. You won't be scared.

No, the most important thing is to keep yourself, they are the team you brought out, you have the grace to them, the people you bring out must believe in them, if you don't even believe in the partners you bring out, you have your own problems, come on, I support you

Have faith in yourself, if you don't have confidence, you're done.