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I guess it's implicated in a real problem, right? You can solve the problems you face only yourself. It's useless for us to say anything, and I still don't know why your parents don't agree, I'm just guessing.
Many couples will encounter some such practical problems, you tell them to break up, but they just try to come together, you tell them to insist on coming together if they love each other, but they don't have the courage and ability to come together. What do you say?
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Then ask your girlfriend what she thinks. You have to ask her what she thinks about it.
If she is afraid of her parents' fate and wants to be with you very much (very painful, very reluctant to you). I think he should have the idea and practice of working with you to get the parents to agree! I hope you will work together.
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You don't even say why, so many reasons, we don't know! How to help you come up with ideas.
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There's nothing to mind.,If it's really because of the woman's family.,Then you should ask your girlfriend.,See how she handles.。
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The key is to see what your girlfriend thinks, and if she wants to, tell your future husband that you're already living together (provided that this has to be true).
At that time, his family will not dare to mention it even if they have opinions, hehe.
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Since love should not be easily given up, but work together with him, as for the parents, you can slowly go around and do the work. And the two of you should tolerate and understand each other together, communicate more, reduce suspicion, and use good attitudes and skills to manage love, so that love can go longer. I tell you a good way to strengthen your determination to love and stabilize your mind, you can try to log in to the "Tower of Hearts" to participate in their "True Love Test", because in the process of participating in this seemingly game-like "Internet Love Test", it can not only help you witness how deep your love for him is, but also record the bits and pieces on your love road, become your love file for you to keep forever, and also help you understand how to manage your love and maintain your relationship.
You can find it by taking a look at the "Tower of Hearts".
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If you don't think it's appropriate, you should put it away. Not necessarily a bad thing.
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It's hard to say. Let it be, love and marriage are all about fate, don't care too much about the result. If it's yours, you won't run, and it's not that you can't ask for it.
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If you break up, you have to really let it go. Don't ouch and suffer yourself.
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Alas! The reality is always so cruel, not because of a word of anger from you and leaving, but because of the sentence "I don't feel" in the woman's heart, even if she stays, it is not love, so why force it.
Since the current situation cannot be changed, then accept it! The best way to heal is to try to make yourself better, and I believe that there will be someone who is more suitable for you.
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Be sure to keep these three sentences in mind before getting married.
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Look at this situation, he is not an ordinary mess and does not like to be clean. If the difference in lifestyle is too big, you won't be happy, and you don't care about your family, let alone get married. I'm afraid it's hard to change, if you can't change it, just divide it, don't care about those two or three years, it's more important in the future than the long days ahead!
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Have a good chat with him, see what he is thinking in his heart, if he is really sick, he must hurry up, it will be good for you and him, as for marriage, you had better think about it clearly.
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If the truth is really as serious as you say, my personal advice is to break up, your boyfriend doesn't give you personal space, such a family is afraid that it will be broken because of small things, of course, this is just my personal opinion, you can just take a look.
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Break up, do you want to wronged yourself for the rest of your life?
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Divided, stand in the position of a man and say: Don't be such a man!
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It's better to break up, after all, marriage can't be forced, otherwise, it won't be easy in this life.
She doesn't understand you, she lacks the necessary respect, she's selfish, and she is very possessive, and if you don't love her, it's hard to tolerate her. If you want to cultivate feelings, you haven't been able to cultivate them after two years of being in love, and you won't have much feelings in the future, which is a pity.
After talking for two years, if you break up, it is not that you have wasted two years, but it takes two years to see clearly that she is not the object of your marriage, which is much better than getting married in a hurry and then living a painful life or divorce. Her family is poor, and although she doesn't expect her family to bring you anything, at least it's not too much to ask for not to drag you down, but her family will obviously drag you down. It is your right to pursue happiness, it is normal and appropriate to bravely refuse some things that you do not accept and pursue what you want, both parties in a relationship are fair, and there is nothing unfair to her if you do not accept her, after all, this is only a two-way choice process.
As for her family, they will make trouble with you?? Manly man, don't back down because of this possibility.
Judging from what you have written above, it is not nice to say, if you just find a girl of the right age to marry, it is very likely that she will be better than her in many ways, anyway, I don't see any thing about her suitable to be your wife. Well, be brave and pursue the happiness you deserve
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These are two extremes, so let's stop where we are and fall in love.
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