What is it that boys often say that their personalities are inappropriate?

It is the three views that are not suitable.

The three views include outlook on life, world outlook, and values. The outlook on life guides the direction of people's lives, affects people's moral character and moral behavior, and determines people's life's value goals and life paths. The worldview is the fundamental viewpoint and fundamental view of the whole world in which people live and the relationship between man and the external world.

And the values of values are based on the proletariat.

and the masses of the people as the main body, in order to realize socialism and communism throughout the world.

for the ideal goal, with dialectical materialism.

and historical materialism as the guide, serving the people wholeheartedly as the value orientation, and collectivism as the core of the new values.

People often have different personalities because of different views, and then there will be a lot of contradictions, and people with the same three views will inevitably have things they like in common, so they can resolve their contradictions with each other. And if the three views are different, you will not be able to control your temper, and the situation will get worse and worse.

The personality is incompatible, to put it bluntly, the two people have no common topic, and the three views are inconsistent. Two people who don't have a common topic will never talk together. If we can't talk together, there will be no need to continue to develop.

In fact, there will be a lot of contradictions and conflicts when two people get along, and they can't reach an agreement on many things, so it's not appropriate.

For example, the man has a strong personality, the woman likes to be free and easy, and the man is possessive and wants to restrain the woman, but the woman has her own thoughts and does not want to be bound, and her personality is incompatible, which will affect the lives of both parties.

Temper is incompatible. Boys and girls often quarrel over trivial matters, and most of them have their own tempers, so they don't have the same tempers.

In fact, it refers to the difference in life values. Everyone's living environment is different, and the people who are cultivated will not be used, and the values will naturally be different. People who have money in their families since they were young must have a different view of consumption than people with average family backgrounds.

A person who has a happy family will be more innocent than a person whose parents are divorced.

It's not suitable in all aspects, the main reason is because he doesn't love you anymore, so he feels incompatible and no longer wants to change the run-in for the other party.

They all feel that they are right and lack effective communication. Many girls ask me this question when they want to redeem themselves, "He always said that we would break up when we had different ideas and different personalities, but I felt that all the problems added up were not enough to break up!" "But the reality is that your boyfriend has already thought about running away from home many times when you don't think the problem is serious.

Due to the different social division of labor, many men are not good at dealing with various contradictions, and when they are faced with contradictory thoughts and emotions, it is easy to mistakenly think that you are belittling him, so they will definitely defend it.

If you feel like you're not wrong right now, your argument won't make any progress in the end, and you'll just sulk at each other. This way seems to express one's own needs, but in fact, it lacks effective communication and does not solve any problems at all.

The personality incompatibility that boys often say is mainly caused by their personal personality, as well as their attitude towards others and their three views, educational background, family of origin, interests and hobbies.

1. The personalities of both sides are not suitable: everyone's personality is different, for example, optimistic and pessimistic are two contrasts, and then for example, people who like freedom and do not like constraints and like to manage each other, people with a strong desire to control are two opposite personalities, and in the process of getting along, they do not know how to understand and make concessions, which is inappropriate character.

2. The two sides treat people in different ways, for example, the other party takes more care of others in treating people and things, but the other person pays more attention to himself in treating people and things, 3. It is difficult to meet people who have exactly the same three views, and the three views generally refer to the world view, values, and outlook on life, which are the three views recognized by most people, and they are dialectically unified and interact.

4. The difference in interests and hobbies is also one of the reasons for the incompatibility of personalities, the interests and hobbies of boys and girls are very different, and they cannot understand and communicate with each other in the process of getting along. In fact, the most important thing in falling in love is that both are happy, which does not mean that you have to have common hobbies to be together. Everyone is unique and has different life experiences and upbringing.

A perfect personality match cannot exist, and a man's personality incompatibility from his mouth is often just a more decent superficial reason.

The most important thing in the interaction between lovers is that the three views must be compatible, if the two have different concepts, there is no way to talk together, and it is impossible to live a stable life for a lifetime in the future. When a girl reaches a certain age and is still single, relatives and friends will introduce you to the object, which may be very suitable at first sight, but after dating for a period of time, the man will say to you "Our personality is not suitable", it is obvious that this is proposing to break up with you, because in his opinion, the inappropriate personality is the best reason, whether this reason is true or false, as long as he says this, it means that he does not like you and does not want to be with you.

1. It's an excuse

On the one hand, men feel that they can't give each other a stable life, so they want to temporarily separate on the pretext of being inappropriate for their personalities, and they won't say too ruthless words to leave a way back for themselves, on the other hand, the girl's appearance is not his ideal type, so the man will propose to break up, and he thinks that using the character as an excuse will not cause harm to the girl's psyche.

2. There is a big gap between the two sides

If a man feels that he has a big gap with the other party in the process of dating, at this time the boy does not have enough confidence to maintain this relationship, and can only end this difficult journey ruthlessly, so when the man tells you that "our personality is not suitable", it is a hint that he wants to break up with you, and it is recommended that the girl should not be too strong when she is in love with him, and do not behave too far from him, which will only make the man farther and farther away from you.

3. Not getting a return

If when in love, a man only pays but does not get in return, he must be unbalanced in his heart, and he will feel very tired, and he will not even want to continue like this, so he will say "the personality is not suitable", he just wants to end the relationship with you as soon as possible, he does not want himself to be more and more painful, relief is a very important thing for him, so women must also know how to pay.

If a man mentions that his personality is not suitable to break up, it means that he really doesn't like you, or he doesn't like you enough, so he won't care about your feelings and thoughts, you don't always think about the good things you had before, since he has changed his mind and doesn't like you, then let it go, it's not good for you to always be entangled. If you really love him, then bless him, since he doesn't like you, it's useless for you to entangle, it's better to let go and let each other be free. If you still can't let go of him, you go to him and tell him that you love him very much, that you will change your personality and become what he likes, and that he will give you a chance, and if he still insists on breaking up with you, then you don't want to continue to entangle.